3:45 “…but if you tell somebody that what you’re doing is hurting me and I need you to stop and they keep doing it? They don’t care, move on, let them go. No matter how much it hurts, let them go...."
I've never heard it expressed so succinctly but that is exactly what happened between me and a cousin. For years I tried to get her to see what she was doing, but her abuses kept getting worse. Then she'd refuse to discuss it at all, even deleting without reading emails. Fifty years of friendship lost. I still love her to death, but now wish her to hell. What waste she has lain to her relationships, all for her ego and her religion. So sad.