Thanks you guys, I'm utterly amazed at how great some of you are.


  • Jan 10, 2012 12:54 AM GMT
    I haven't been at RJ for long but I did write a post about being single and ancient and all of a sudden there were many supportive responses and only 1 smarmy douchebag post. That's a pretty good ratio. Then I got emails from some guys that were so fucking KIND, that you really reinforced my belief that there ARE good guys out there in the world.

    I live in Seattle, where most guys seem to have the passive aggressive unfriendly psuedo friendliness that I don't see as much of in other places. It's really nice to know that there are guys out there who would actually want more than just an anonymous craigslist or grindr hookup. Because that's pretty much it around here. I'm all for cock, but I really put more importance on the person that cock is attached to. If you are reading this you may be one of the guys who helped me by just being so nice to me. THANK YOU.

    Side note: A week or so ago, before I got on RJ, I got an email from a guy I don't know who said that when he was coming out about 15 years ago, he went to a gay bar in seattle and I was there. He said I was the ONLY person in that place who was nice to him and that he's carried that with him this whole time. He remembered a 30 second interaction for 15 years. How cool is that? And now I know EXACTLY how he feels.

    Thanks, those of you know who you are, for being what's good about our world. You never know how one act of kindness will make a difference in someone's life.
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    Jan 10, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
    I'd love to visit Seattle, it looks so good:

    http://rottenindenmark.wordpress.com/2012/01/03/my-hometown-is-better-than-yours/

    Glad you feel welcomed
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    Jan 10, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    It's so true that RJ helps a lot of us who sometimes fell isolated. Not being into clubs/bars or hook-ups (which are great for some, but not for others), it's really hard to interact with other gay men. This is a great platform for such positive interactions.
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    Jan 10, 2012 4:04 AM GMT
    Just wait until you've been here longer.
    You'll be utterly amazed at how stupid, douchey, or bitchy some of us are. icon_surprised.gif
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    Jan 10, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    SeattleRealtor saidI haven't been at RJ for long but I did write a post about being ...ancient ...

    icon_eek.gif... ancient?

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    Mar 16, 2012 7:14 AM GMT
    You honestly don't look your age (in a good way)
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    Mar 16, 2012 7:15 AM GMT
    ^ o_O interesting purpose for reviving this thread