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    Jan 12, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
    When people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?
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    Jan 15, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    Im so fuckin happy that no one else bothered to reply to this completely relevant and 'reply - worthy' post. It proves once and for all that members of internet communities are too chickenshit to talk about the general consensus of desires (both sexual and non) of companionship.
    To answer the questions at hand, I think that most people want to know if theres anyone else like them enough to have a lot in common but enough of a difference that they can score incriminating dirt on one another for whatever purpose. I personally think that the whole penpal thing is a worthy cause to get to know someone who is unlike you in a way that makes you both aware and appreciative of the uniqueness or those people that are finally able to get your attention. second, WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH BEING A LITTLE NERDY?! icon_redface.gif
    Its wrong to answer a question with another question.
    Yes.
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    Jan 15, 2012 2:48 AM GMT
    Cip_Was_Here said It proves once and for all that members of internet communities are too chickenshit to talk about the general consensus of desires (both sexual and non) of companionship..


    I take it you are new here... the bitches on here talk about this non-stop like its a Mexican soap opera (includes me)
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    Jan 15, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
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    Cip_Was_Here said It proves once and for all that members of internet communities are too chickenshit to talk about the general consensus of desires (both sexual and non) of companionship..


    I take it you are new here... the bitches on here talk about this non-stop like its a Mexican soap opera (includes me)

    Yeah... what he said.
    And this topic has been done over and over. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 15, 2012 2:55 AM GMT
    "looking for friends" means "looking for dick - but I want a reason to abort the mission if you're ugly"
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    Jan 15, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    Larkin said"looking for friends" means "looking for dick - but I want a reason to abort the mission if you're ugly"

    So that's why you brushed me off...


    Cunt.
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    I thought this thread was gonna be about Monica, Chandler, Rachel, Phoebe, Joey and Ross.

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    Jan 15, 2012 2:59 AM GMT
    Friends are for straight people.
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:10 AM GMT
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    Fuck yeah! But I might want to be "more than friends" if he lived near me. icon_smile.gif

    Don't underestimate the^nerd love.
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:15 AM GMT
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:18 AM GMT
    7Famark saidFriends are for straight people.


    And that is why all my friends are straight!
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:19 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?



    Hmm....ironically, I don't think I could find a single guy on your hot list whom I'd classify as "nerdy".

    Unless you have a definition of nerdy that I don't know about....
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    If I'm looking for friends, and I say I'm looking for friends, then I'm looking to meet people that could be friends.

    While I take people at their word, I know that some people constantly speak in euphemisms and often they only hear things in euphemisms.

    I've spent a lot of time with people to whom I've stated that "What I said is exactly what I meant. No more. No less." Yet they go on assuming. You can't change these people and it's a waste of time to try.

    I wouldn't get off on someone's advances if I weren't attracted at some level. Now, more specifically, in a relationship, I'm monogamous when I say I am. I'm clear about it. If I say I'm not monogamous yet, I'm not. If I say I am, I am. When it comes to something important like this, it's important to be clear, honest, and accept the answer.

    If my lips say no, it doesn't matter WHAT you think my eyes say or what you think I meant. If you though I meant something other than what I explicitly said, the onus is yours to clarify, not mine.

    This is how I approach relationships, regardless of whether it's my bf or a friend.

    In the response to the 'nerd' appearing guy (which I tend to assume is me in most situations) offering a message. If your not sure or uncomfortable that your 'sending the wrong signal' then simply turn it down, otherwise, state that you only want and expect a clinical message to relieve muscular pain and not sexual tension.
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:21 AM GMT
    panda_person_i_is said
    GigoloAssassin said
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?



    Hmm....ironically, I don't think I could find a single guy on your hot list whom I'd classify as "nerdy".

    Unless you have a definition of nerdy that I don't know about....



    OOOO hes getting dumb on you
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    archon said
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    GigoloAssassin said
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?



    Hmm....ironically, I don't think I could find a single guy on your hot list whom I'd classify as "nerdy".

    Unless you have a definition of nerdy that I don't know about....



    OOOO hes getting dumb on you


    I guess so...
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:32 AM GMT
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    GigoloAssassin said
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?



    Hmm....ironically, I don't think I could find a single guy on your hot list whom I'd classify as "nerdy".

    Unless you have a definition of nerdy that I don't know about....


    Well what's your definition?
    There are some in my hotlist, but you actually have to read their profiles to know.
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:40 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said
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    GigoloAssassin said
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?



    Hmm....ironically, I don't think I could find a single guy on your hot list whom I'd classify as "nerdy".

    Unless you have a definition of nerdy that I don't know about....


    Well what's your definition?
    There are some in my hotlist, but you actually have to read their profiles to know.




    LOL. If I have to read their profile to know they're nerdy, I doubt they're my definition of nerdy, which is all I'll say.
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
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    GigoloAssassin said
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    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?



    Hmm....ironically, I don't think I could find a single guy on your hot list whom I'd classify as "nerdy".

    Unless you have a definition of nerdy that I don't know about....


    Well what's your definition?
    There are some in my hotlist, but you actually have to read their profiles to know.




    LOL. If I have to read their profile to know they're nerdy, I doubt they're my definition of nerdy, which is all I'll say.


    REALLY?!?!?!?!?! You promise?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

    Gigolo doesn't evaluate his friendships based entirely on physical appearance...the way you obviously do.
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    Cash said
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    GigoloAssassin said
    panda_person_i_is said
    GigoloAssassin said
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?



    Hmm....ironically, I don't think I could find a single guy on your hot list whom I'd classify as "nerdy".

    Unless you have a definition of nerdy that I don't know about....


    Well what's your definition?
    There are some in my hotlist, but you actually have to read their profiles to know.




    LOL. If I have to read their profile to know they're nerdy, I doubt they're my definition of nerdy, which is all I'll say.


    REALLY?!?!?!?!?! You promise?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

    Gigolo doesn't evaluate his friendships based entirely on physical appearance...the way you obviously do.





    Yikes! You're as bright as a bag of jelly beans. Where, exactly, did I say or even SUGGEST I "evaluate" my friends based on physical appearance?

    Besides, we're talking about his "HOT LIST" not his "FRIEND'S LIST".

    My goodness. Stupidity can never be underestimated.
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    bgcat57 said

    (LOTS OF GOOD STUFF WENT HERE)

    In the response to the 'nerd' appearing guy (which I tend to assume is me in most situations) offering a message. If your not sure or uncomfortable that your 'sending the wrong signal' then simply turn it down, otherwise, state that you only want and expect a clinical message to relieve muscular pain and not sexual tension.


    To add: if they offer an instant message, don't accept - they're pretty much useless. Tell them you'd rather pay for a full 50-minute session. icon_wink.gif

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    Jan 15, 2012 4:06 AM GMT
    To answers the OP's question:
    I like having online friends to talk too. It doesn't really matter what they look like as long as the conduct themselves with respect and intelligence.
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    Jan 15, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    This gets me. It's 2012. Anyone over the age of 18 who ISN'T just going to school or moving to a new city should NOT be looking for friend unless they are severely socially handicapped or are just using "friends" as a euphemism for unprotectedbuttseckshookups.
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    Jan 15, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
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    My goodness. Stupidity can never be underestimated.

    Uh oh. Now you've done it.
    You've called RJ's smartest member stupid.
    I wouldn't want to be you right now.


    Leave Anduru outta this. He can take care of himself.

    Besides, I think that comment was directed at ME!!!!!!!!
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    Jan 15, 2012 5:43 AM GMT
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    williamlbrown saidWhen people say they want friends on online sites, do they really want friends or do you want a certain type of friend? If someone with a "nerdy" appearance (glasses, clothes, hair) messaged you and he was the same age as you were would you respond?


    What do you mean by a 'nerdy' appearance? icon_confused.gif
    There are a lot of 'nerdy' guys here who happen to be Hot as Fuck, so, how does what certain people look like relate to your question?



    Hmm....ironically, I don't think I could find a single guy on your hot list whom I'd classify as "nerdy".

    Unless you have a definition of nerdy that I don't know about....


    Well what's your definition?
    There are some in my hotlist, but you actually have to read their profiles to know.




    LOL. If I have to read their profile to know they're nerdy, I doubt they're my definition of nerdy, which is all I'll say.


    REALLY?!?!?!?!?! You promise?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

    Gigolo doesn't evaluate his friendships based entirely on physical appearance...the way you obviously do.





    Yikes! You're as bright as a bag of jelly beans. Where, exactly, did I say or even SUGGEST I "evaluate" my friends based on physical appearance?

    Besides, we're talking about his "HOT LIST" not his "FRIEND'S LIST".

    My goodness. Stupidity can never be underestimated.

    Red highlights are where you judged by appearance.

    And yes, your stupidity (and bitchiness) appears to be beyond comprehension. Maybe you'd be happier somewhere else....like in a tightly wrapped, air-tight plastic bag. If you need someone to zip you up, just let me know.


    See panda thread