What should I do?

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    Jan 12, 2012 1:47 PM GMT
    Okay, I am a very honest person. This is my third time hanging out with him. I find out that he giving me a fake name at the first time. first clew is when I said his fake name he didnot react after four times i yelled at him in a big crowd and he answered two phone call today by saying his real name with my present. He still doesnot realize it.

    I get it sometimes people want to protect themselves, but now I find out and donot know how to react.

    What should I do?
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    Jan 12, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    I think you shouldn't make a big deal out of it. I mean, so many guys give a fake name online cuz they're not out and they're afraid to run into someone they know / have friends in common with. Wait till he's comfortable with you then he'll be honest with you.
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    Jan 12, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    Nothing.. do nothing at all!
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    Jan 12, 2012 3:45 PM GMT
    Ruskach saidI think you shouldn't make a big deal out of it. I mean, so many guys give a fake name online cuz they're not out and they're afraid to run into someone they know / have friends in common with. Wait till he's comfortable with you then he'll be honest with you.


    well he is out, and I feel wierd calling his fake name after I already know his real name by accident, so i should keep pretending calling him "stage" name? icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 12, 2012 4:37 PM GMT
    No confront him!
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    Jan 12, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    Talk with him about it. If you treat people with openness and honesty, they will usually do the same. His reasons may be good - or not. Then decide. it doesn't need to be a "confrontation".
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    Jan 12, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    Is this a friend, or a fuck buddy?
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    Jan 12, 2012 4:49 PM GMT
    If first impressions are important these days, then yes it'd be one of those things that raises a flag into what else is he not saying - for me, at least.

    I wouldn't do anything until you get an actual reason why he's using two names. Like I said, the whole thing would just raise flags in my mind about the entire situation.