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Tied up for sex

  • JaseinOC Posts: 685
    QUOTE Jun 21, 2008 10:56 PM GMT
    Have you ever been tied up and had sex? Is it as hot as Ithink it is... or over rated? I might do it soon with a really hot guy that wants to be the top and tie me down.

    Curious what people think that have done it.
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    QUOTE Jun 21, 2008 11:27 PM GMT
    OO noice

    It can be fun with a guy you trust and really really want!

    I've had my hands tied up, and my legs joined and it was fun. The only thing though, is you can't touch the guy back, but he can do anything he wants to you
  • Timbales Posts: 13814
    QUOTE Jun 21, 2008 11:45 PM GMT
    I have, you do have to have some trust there. We tied each other up and blindfolded each other. It was fun.
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    QUOTE Jun 21, 2008 11:55 PM GMT
    How well do you know this guy? If people can vouch that he isn't going to tie you up and then fuck you bareback then have a gay ol' time. Try it out a few times and see how you like it. But always make sure you can trust your dom and the dom will respect your limits (and push them just a little).

    Have fun.
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    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 12:13 AM GMT
    Tied up and blind folded and had a whip taken to my back during.
    At first I thought no way I was going to enjoy this, but it really turned me on..
    Now guys think I am fucking crazy for liking it..
  • Timbales Posts: 13814
    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 12:14 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidHow well do you know this guy? If people can vouch that he isn't going to tie you up and then fuck you bareback then have a gay ol' time. Try it out a few times and see how you like it. But always make sure you can trust your dom and the dom will respect your limits (and push them just a little).

    Have fun.


    Yeah, it's a good idea to be able to get yourself free if you need to.
  • TallGWMvballe... Posts: 1925
    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 12:45 AM GMT
    I have been into BDSM play off and on for years.... for me it is occasional fun. for some people it is a whole lifestyle much like being a jock is for me and many guys on RJ
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    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 4:06 AM GMT
    Be very careful with that.

  • JaseinOC Posts: 685
    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 7:08 AM GMT
    Cool... well it does sound like lots of fun. Will take all this into consideration. I do get excited thinking about giving up control to someone I trust and as soon as I am restrained I am there till they are done. ha!
  • TallGWMvballe... Posts: 1925
    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 7:20 AM GMT
    John43620 saidBe very careful with that.



    Thank you John.

    YES that is good advice to anyone who wants to venture into that kind of play.

    -- Ron
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    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 7:31 AM GMT
    I'm claustrophobic. Nuh-uh. Never will.
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    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 2:47 PM GMT
    Sedative saidI'm claustrophobic. Nuh-uh. Never will.


    Then you would LOVE a vacuum cube

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    QUOTE Jun 22, 2008 5:44 PM GMT

    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!
  • GQjock Posts: 11643
    QUOTE Jun 23, 2008 10:53 AM GMT
    it can be fun both ways...

    you being the tier... or the tie-ee
    but I'd wait until you at least know if the guy has a police record or not
  • HndsmKansan Posts: 15565
    QUOTE Jun 23, 2008 2:29 PM GMT
    I've never done it. Control can be an issue with me.. its rarely relinquished. While there are some who would love to render me "powerless" by a tie down, I'm not sure I could do it honestly.
  • MuchMoreThanM... Posts: 21253
    QUOTE Jun 23, 2008 4:20 PM GMT
    Yeah but when you're the bigger guy it's usually not an option. Maybe I didn't have the opportunity to tie someone up but when I was 252lb of solid muscle it wasn't easy for guys to throw me off when I was on top and got a little carried away.

    'Sides...rape fantasies are kinda hot. Holding them down by their arms on top and watching them squirm...
    Slurp.. .
    Whoops, guess that's a slightly different fantasy as allowing yourself to be tied up is giving permission.
  • JaseinOC Posts: 685
    QUOTE Jun 23, 2008 5:45 PM GMT
    Tied up or pinned down... either way the guy can get carried away and push some of your limits. I guess that's the fun part. If I trust a guy, I think it might be fun to let him push me a little.
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    QUOTE Jun 23, 2008 5:56 PM GMT
    I've never been tied up for sex.. but it sounds so exciting!! I wanna do it so bad!... just need to find someone to tie me up..
  • Kharlo109 Posts: 164
    QUOTE Jun 23, 2008 5:57 PM GMT
    Sex for me always takes the tone of control. I always want to either completely dominate or to give in entirely. There is no in-between for me. So I find being tied up to be a major turn on (but yeah, it can only be done with someone you trust).
  • BlackJock79 Posts: 437
    QUOTE Jun 23, 2008 7:08 PM GMT
    I wouldn't do it. LOL, I'm way too paranoid and not that freaky. What if someone wanted to take one of my kidneys. LOL
  • Schmatticus Posts: 18
    QUOTE Jun 24, 2008 4:04 AM GMT
    sorry to veer off the subject, but what in the hell is a vacuum cube. and what is it used for? that looks really strange!
  • MuchMoreThanM... Posts: 21253
    QUOTE Jun 24, 2008 5:00 AM GMT
    All that fantasy bullshit looks odd to me. And it looks like so much work. Going to the store, buying that shit and getting it home, setting it up, it's like making sex a full time job.

    All that's needed are two willing naked boys....or maybe one that's not so willing and the other one a coercive dominant role player.
  • JaseinOC Posts: 685
    QUOTE Jun 24, 2008 5:59 AM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle said....or maybe one that's not so willing and the other one a coercive dominant role player.


    HOT!!! And what city can I find you at?
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    QUOTE Jun 26, 2008 11:53 PM GMT
    one guy i was with liked mild bondage..tieing to the bed posts at wrist and ankle..and it was fun as the one tied, or the one not tied...but i trusted him.

    my boyfriend and i have done bondage couple of times..i put hooks in my basement ceiling and loosely tied his wrists to them with soft cloth. really turned us both on, but he had marks on his wrists for couple of days after, from his pulling during sexual excitement.

    so, yeah, bondage can be hot....but not if the guy is going to physically hurt you, or possibly let you tied up for the cleaning lady to find the next morning...gotta have mutual respect and trust...
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    QUOTE Jun 28, 2008 4:41 PM GMT
    You should really trust the guy doing it. It can be dangerous. If they cut off circulation it could cause permanent damage.
    I had a bad experience with a guy whom I thought I could trust, and I could, when he's sober. I didn't know he is a mean drunk.
    I have the scar where he crushed his cigarette out into my left nipple to remind me of him.

    Be careful with this.