If your in a relationship do you like to watch porn together or is it a no no?

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    Jan 13, 2012 3:45 AM GMT
    Some people think u shouldnt have to since u have each other....others enjoy watching it together. Do u think it adds to the relationship or can be damaging?
  • BmwKid92

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    Jan 13, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    i'd imagine watching porn next to someone is to turn them on? and starting getting to the bizznezz
  • benarw

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    Jan 13, 2012 6:33 AM GMT
    Fantasy is healthy in life and in a relationship. I see nothing wrong with watching porn together. It would only be an issue if you HAVE to watch porn in order to get aroused. You should be able to enjoy sex together without porn and with.
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    Jan 13, 2012 8:38 AM GMT
    benarw saidFantasy is healthy in life and in a relationship. I see nothing wrong with watching porn together. It would only be an issue if you HAVE to watch porn in order to get aroused. You should be able to enjoy sex together without porn and with.


    I totally agree with this! I dated a guy once who had to have porn on while we had sex and it made me feel sick & disrespected....I hated it.
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:13 AM GMT
    everything in moderation...

    but i'm sure straight, married couples would totally object.

    That said, I've never watched porn while in a relationship with someone. Porn is for hookups and sex parties and lonely weekday nights...
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:29 AM GMT
    We watch porn together sometimes, love it! One of us will suck the other while they watch the porn, or we'll have porn on in the background when we are getting down to it in the living room - it adds an extra dimension of hotness!!

    I agree though it's not something you want to do ALL the time, or rely on to get aroused/get off. It's just something to add now and then. Or, as we all know, it pays to be 'prepared' if you're having anal sex, so if your partner is getting themselves ready in the bathroom, stick on some porn so you are in the mood and ready to go as soon as they are!

    Also it can be very hot to watch someone watching porn and jerking off to it without touching them!
  • rnch

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    Jan 13, 2012 2:00 PM GMT
    Bmwkid92 saidi'd imagine watching porn next to someone is to turn them on? and starting getting to the bizznezz



    a couple of times my last bf and I would view porn in bed together....but after a few minutes of watching it, we would loose interest in the movie and gain interest in each other.



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    Jan 13, 2012 2:21 PM GMT
    I think it is good in moderation. I have never been in a relationship though so the sex dynamic is like who knows. I know you gotta spice things up so if you want to watch some porn what the hell.

    Sean Cody has bareback porn now by the way WTF is up with that....it is really not that hot...and I thought they were reputable haha.
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    Jan 13, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    Pure saidWe watch porn together sometimes, love it! One of us will suck the other while they watch the porn, or we'll have porn on in the background when we are getting down to it in the living room - it adds an extra dimension of hotness!!

    I agree though it's not something you want to do ALL the time, or rely on to get aroused/get off. It's just something to add now and then. Or, as we all know, it pays to be 'prepared' if you're having anal sex, so if your partner is getting themselves ready in the bathroom, stick on some porn so you are in the mood and ready to go as soon as they are!

    Also it can be very hot to watch someone watching porn and jerking off to it without touching them!


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    Jan 13, 2012 2:35 PM GMT
    benarw saidFantasy is healthy in life and in a relationship. I see nothing wrong with watching porn together. It would only be an issue if you HAVE to watch porn in order to get aroused. You should be able to enjoy sex together without porn and with.



    This. Though my bf and I don't do it often — I could probably count on one hand how many times in 8 years, the times we have it's pretty hot!

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    Jan 13, 2012 6:45 PM GMT
    I don't see a problem with it.

    It seems pretty harmless, unless someone in the relationship decides they want porn more than sexy time.
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    Jan 13, 2012 6:55 PM GMT
    TallJock said
    but i'm sure straight, married couples would totally object.



    I don't know if that's necessarily true. I remember when I was a kid my mom told me about one of her girlfriend's and her husband getting down with porn every now and then. My mom is more traditional and thought it was a little out there. But then again why she felt the need to discuss this with a 12 year old is beyond me. I told her I thought it was healthy and can offer insight into how others view and have sex. She never did get back to me on whether her and my dad tried it.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jan 13, 2012 6:58 PM GMT
    We have put it on but never end up watching it. que song "ain't nothin like the real thing baby."
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    Jan 13, 2012 7:01 PM GMT
    Sure, sometimes it is fun. Damaging? I can't imagine that. Sounds like a woman's point of view. icon_wink.gif [ducks]
  • swimbikerun

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    Jan 13, 2012 7:04 PM GMT
    It can be spicy fun and open up new conversations and activities icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 13, 2012 9:09 PM GMT
    Porn is good as long as it doesn't replace the intimacy between the people involved. When porn becomes indispensable, then you need to step back and assess if it's symptomatic of a deeper problem. Porn should supplement, not supplant.
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    Jan 13, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    It's a huge No.
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    Jan 13, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    My ex MADE porn while we were married.

    I was there when he was doing it.

    It was awesome.
  • btone1456

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    Jan 13, 2012 9:50 PM GMT
    ummmm no. He's a Bel Ami guy and I'm a COLT man. Our porn tastes vary greatly.
  • musclepuppy

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    Jan 13, 2012 9:55 PM GMT
    We have and definitely will in the future - Possible even tonight *rawr* icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 13, 2012 9:57 PM GMT
    It's hot only when the subject matter is something we wouldn't necessarily do, either in that moment or ever, and then its still a fantasy which makes it hot ;)
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:02 PM GMT
    When I was with my last boyfriend we once watched some porn together but it didn't do anything for us and we never watched it *together* again. In my current relationship neither of us watch porn, not together and not by ourselves. I like to think it's because we're very sexually compatible. icon_cool.gif However I think that porn can serve as a a resource of sorts because it can give you ideas on how to try different positions, etc. if you get tired of the same old stuff. icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    Turn on the camera, hook it up to the tv, and be the porn. You don't even have to record it.
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:09 PM GMT
    We watch porn together occasionally... but it always ends with me demanding, "Now do that to me." #bossybottom