What's with me and hot daddies?

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    Jan 13, 2012 4:19 AM GMT
    Is it just me or are some older guys (30's-50's) really hot. i like guys my own age but sometimes an older guy just gets me going. it's kinda made me reconsider my dating age range.
    any other young guys agree?
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    I'm only interested in guys 40+
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:23 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidI'm only interested in guys 40+


    have a cookie, and get back in line
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    mmmm...cookie....
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:46 AM GMT
    so y do u like ur men in their 40's?
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    IamxxMyself saidso y do u like ur men in their 40's?


    They're in a different point in their lives than I am. I don't do well with guys my age or younger who are going through a lot of the same things I am (with who surprisingly I have less in common with).
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    Age is unimportant; I like guys who aren't retarded douchebags.
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    Jan 13, 2012 9:02 AM GMT
    Anduru saidAge is unimportant; I like guys who aren't retarded douchebags.


    So 85 years old is ok with you?
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    Jan 13, 2012 9:11 AM GMT
    JT889 said
    Anduru saidAge is unimportant; I like guys who aren't retarded douchebags.
    So 85 years old is ok with you?
    Speak of the devil.
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    Ariodante said


    They're in a different point in their lives than I am. I don't do well with guys my age or younger who are going through a lot of the same things I am (with who surprisingly I have less in common with).


    I find that the 27- 35 year old guys, who like "older" dudes, are far more mature, reasonable, and kind-hearted than their peers.

    So...with that said-- Ariodante, Mr. MODT (congrats btw, you deserve it..so sexy and smokin hott :icon_smile.gif ) take a pit-stop sometime in Detroit, and take this old man for a spin!
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:44 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    IamxxMyself saidso y do u like ur men in their 40's?


    They're in a different point in their lives than I am. I don't do well with guys my age or younger who are going through a lot of the same things I am (with who surprisingly I have less in common with).


    ... With WHOM I surprisingly have less in common.

    Like Enrgish fail?
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:46 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    IamxxMyself saidso y do u like ur men in their 40's?


    They're in a different point in their lives than I am. I don't do well with guys my age or younger who are going through a lot of the same things I am (with who surprisingly I have less in common with).


    That explains why our conversations are so awkward.
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    Jan 13, 2012 4:48 PM GMT
    Jeandeau said
    Ariodante said
    IamxxMyself saidso y do u like ur men in their 40's?


    They're in a different point in their lives than I am. I don't do well with guys my age or younger who are going through a lot of the same things I am (with who surprisingly I have less in common with).


    ... With WHOM I surprisingly have less in common.

    Like Enrgish fail?


    Hey, he is Mexican. I'm Colombian. I guess your Spanish is more than perfect.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:04 PM GMT
    IamxxMyself saidIs it just me or are some older guys (30's-50's) really hot. i like guys my own age but sometimes an older guy just gets me going. it's kinda made me reconsider my dating age range.
    any other young guys agree?


    Two things I think: 1) Many gay guys are trying to keep themselves looking a little better now, unlike their heterosexual counterparts. 2) As you age yourself, I think you tend to see more of the forest through the trees.

    Since I'm older, I can say that there are a lot of guys your age that have interests in older guys like myself. It's happened many times for me.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:07 PM GMT
    I agree. I tend to be attracted more to guys older than me. Generally it's all about the person though no matter what their age is. Looks are the start, but they have to have more than a pretty face to really catch my interest.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:10 PM GMT
    icon_lol.gif The censor engine turns "retarded douchebags" into "REED." Slightly amusing if anybody here goes to Reed.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:10 PM GMT
    I like older guys, but the association or label 'daddy' freaks me the fuck out.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:13 PM GMT
    Anduru saidAge is unimportant; I like guys who aren't retarded douchebags.



    Retarded douchebags are hot... I am totally into retarded douchebags.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    I like guys who have their stuff together. Age is only a factor for certain a aspect of attraction for me.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    Anduru saidAge is unimportant; I like guys who aren't retarded douchebags.


    Isn't that narrowing down your choices too much?
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:44 PM GMT
    7Famark saidI like older guys, but the association or label 'daddy' freaks me the fuck out.


    It's an expression. I like dominant/muscle and or "daddy" types (could even be younger than I), but it's a state of mind, indicating that I crave the attention and love and I like their mature physical look, not that I want them to literally be my father or think of them as such. It's just for lack of a better descriptive term, I guess. Maybe coach or master or some other term would be better. I just want to be dominated in a loving way.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:47 PM GMT
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    7Famark saidI like older guys, but the association or label 'daddy' freaks me the fuck out.


    It's an expression. I like dominant/muscle and or "daddy" types (could even be younger than I), but it's a state of mind, indicating that I crave the attention and love and I like their mature physical look, not that I want them to literally be my father or think of them as such. It's just for lack of a better descriptive term, I guess. Maybe coach or master or some other term would be better. I just want to be dominated in a loving way.


    It's not, or shouldn't be a blanket expression, in my opinion.

    If you are calling an older guy your 'daddy' to me - that says you have genuine, deep rooted issues going back to your childhood relating to your biological father.

    If you simply are attracted to men that are older than you (as I am) then I think it is simply another varying aspect of attraction. But I DEFINITELY think there is a major distinction between being attracted to older men because you are attracted to them, and being attracted to older men because you actually do have 'daddy' issues.
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    Jan 13, 2012 5:49 PM GMT
    I want a Muscle Daddy! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 13, 2012 6:13 PM GMT
    7Famark saidI like older guys, but the association or label 'daddy' freaks me the fuck out.


    Thank yoooooou! It's just as much of a freak out being on the receiving end!

    Ew.
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    Except maybe in the heat of the moment...
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    Jan 13, 2012 6:20 PM GMT
    I'd LOVE to find me a muscle daddy, but guys like that aren't always interested in guys like me.