Threesome with another top

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    Jan 14, 2012 9:47 PM GMT
    Hi all,

    I recently had a threesome with my bf and another friend and it was one of hte hottest experiences I ever had, I wanted to see if anyone else has had a similar experience.

    I'm 23 twink/ avg build top and the bf is 20yo twink btm, we are very open and had been wanting to have a threesome with another top. I love to dominate my bf, but lately I have had the urge to see him get fucked by another guy. My friend (24y.o jock top) had expressed much interest in my bf after discussing it so we decided to make it happen.

    Once things started, it was clear that my bf was extremely hot for him. He was much larger than me (I'm 6.5, he was almost 9). At first this kind of bothered me, but after seeing my bf suck our two cocks, the size difference kind of turned me on. My bf was clearly more into sucking his larger one, and the odd thing is that it didn't bother me.

    Eventually it came time to fuck and I went first. He sucked my friends cock teh entire time, and didn't moan as much for me as he usually does. It was clear that these two were starting to lose control and my friend wanted to fuck him, so after about 5 mins I pulled out and he put a condom on. I knew it wouldn't be too much of a problem for my bf because his ex was 8in. As they started to fuck, it was almost as if I wasn't there. They went at it like rabbits.

    At this point, I was incredibly turned on but at the same time jealous. My friend was dominating my bf in a way that I never could, he was moaning like a bitch the whole time and his hole was actually gaping every time my friend pulled out and went back in (it doesn't do that for me). They asked me if I wanted to join back in but I just wanted to jerk off on the edge of teh bed. My bf eventually came with no hands (something I rarely can make him do), and they continued to fuck for another 5 mins or so.

    After it was all over, I began to think about it. Is it ok for me to be turned on by this? I really want to see it happen again, and this time I want to just watch them fuck. I asked my bf and he said that he would be willing to do it again if it was ok with me.

    Anyone else have a similar experience?
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    Jan 14, 2012 9:58 PM GMT
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  • rogerfederer

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    Jan 14, 2012 10:37 PM GMT
    this sounds a good bit like a troll. But anyway, personally how the hell are u not jealous...if i may ask? Ya boyfriend basically just proved to u he doesn't even need you and that you will never satisfy him the way another guy can. Wouldn't the appropriate response be that of anger?

    Additionally, it seems like you're not so much into a "loving" relationship as you are in a "lustful" relationship. If your in a relationship, call me old fashioned, but sex should be between you and your boyfriend. Gettin jock buddy to join in is basically shouting "im not satisfied with my sex life anymore and im bored!"

    Idk what kind of delusion you living in, but you shouldn't be that much concerned about how it turns you on as you should b that your emotional relationship will suffer.

    As Psychology Today put it with the open relationship thing....

    "no it can't work. At least not for the long haul. Sooner or later someone will start forming an outside attachment that will threaten the marriage, or one partner will tire of hearing of the other's experiences. There's no question that monogamy is honored as much in the breach as in the observance... At the very least, as with any relationship, you would need to set up some ground rules that protect both of you, your health, your home life, and the great relationship you profess to have. If you are so creative, why don't you put that energy into the existing relationship and use the trust between you as a springboard for endless inner and outer exploration and excitement? Of course, it takes guts; it's much easier to look outside for excitement than to find the source within."

    seriously seems like something is the matter. cuz i dnt care if im hung like a hermit crab...if my boyfriend wants king kong dick in his ass he better look like braking up with me first
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    Jan 15, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    rogerfederer saidthis sounds a good bit like a troll. But anyway, personally how the hell are u not jealous...if i may ask? Ya boyfriend basically just proved to u he doesn't even need you and that you will never satisfy him the way another guy can. Wouldn't the appropriate response be that of anger?

    Additionally, it seems like you're not so much into a "loving" relationship as you are in a "lustful" relationship. If your in a relationship, call me old fashioned, but sex should be between you and your boyfriend. Gettin jock buddy to join in is basically shouting "im not satisfied with my sex life anymore and im bored!"

    Idk what kind of delusion you living in, but you shouldn't be that much concerned about how it turns you on as you should b that your emotional relationship will suffer.

    As Psychology Today put it with the open relationship thing....

    "no it can't work. At least not for the long haul. Sooner or later someone will start forming an outside attachment that will threaten the marriage, or one partner will tire of hearing of the other's experiences. There's no question that monogamy is honored as much in the breach as in the observance... At the very least, as with any relationship, you would need to set up some ground rules that protect both of you, your health, your home life, and the great relationship you profess to have. If you are so creative, why don't you put that energy into the existing relationship and use the trust between you as a springboard for endless inner and outer exploration and excitement? Of course, it takes guts; it's much easier to look outside for excitement than to find the source within."

    seriously seems like something is the matter. cuz i dnt care if im hung like a hermit crab...if my boyfriend wants king kong dick in his ass he better look like braking up with me first


    You're not getting it, Roger. "Cuckolding" is all about either watching your partner have sex with another person, or getting turned on by having sex with another person's partner.

    In South Florida years ago, there was this Sherrif's deputy who was whoring out his wife and watching from inside the bedroom closet as guys would bang his wife. It had nothing to do with their relationship, now anything to do with their sexual relationship with each other. It was all about the kink and their freaky turn on.

    Sexual pleasure is 90% "between the ears", and only 10% physical.
  • daveindenver

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    Jan 18, 2012 4:00 PM GMT
    NOt sure if roger really gets it.
  • rogerfederer

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    Jan 18, 2012 4:12 PM GMT
    i get it and im saying the fetish is not very healthy for the relationship. that was my point. but hey, if ya partner wants to fuck guys with gigantic knobs that makes yours look like mitochondria then go for it. i hope it makes u feel all sexy and hot to know your partner likes him more than you
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    Jan 18, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    rogerfederer saidi get it and im saying the fetish is not very healthy for the relationship. that was my point. but hey, if ya partner wants to fuck guys with gigantic knobs that makes yours look like mitochondria then go for it. i hope it makes u feel all sexy and hot to know your partner likes him more than you


    I can see both perspectives.

    I think you're focusing on the cock size a bit too much though. Would you be jealous of a dildo that was bigger than your cock, if it gave your partner pleasure? The dildoes I've got are bigger than my dick but it's a huge turn on to use them on my partner as part of our sex life.

    Though I do realise that a dildo is not the same as introducing another man completely!

    If it works for you in your relationship then that's all that matters. Relationships are about many aspects, not just the sexual - maybe he does prefer getting fucked by the other guy for the purely physical sensation, but he still prefers sex with you overall for the love and intimacy. If you can get your head around that and you're happy with it then go ahead!
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    Sep 19, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    My BF and I have had a couple of amazing threesomes, and we met some guys in a threeway-relationship recently, and we really liked how fun to be around and hot the three of them seemed.

    I posted an ad about a third BF. Then I posted a forum about our ad responses

    [url]http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2679448
    [/url]
    I very much love my BF of 10 years, and we are very well-balanced and have always known from when we first started dating that sex is something that is fun to explore. (and we really love sex LOL).

    Our first threesome was at a 3-day weekend house party. A really hot guy, built 6'3" really hit it off with us and started flirting with us. My BF and I discussed having a threesome with him. Then we hung out with him at his own house, and he was showing us some porn sites, and all of a sudden dropped his pants. We were so excited after being turned on by him the previous day that we had a really hot time with him for the rest of the weekend. Right before we started making out, I mentioned that I heard that sometimes someone feels left out in a threeway, but we really equally all enjoyed each other. We must have done every position and scenario possible.
    We had a second one with a very cute sweet younger guy with a beard, but my BF wasn't as into the third guy as much as I was. I was disappointed in that, because I really liked him.
    Then we had a third boyfriend very cute, blond, 6' but a lot younger than us for a while, while he was in the city for school. and it was really enjoyable for the few weeks while he was with us. The two of them spent a lot of time together, and they always made me feel included. I loved coming home to the two of them and kissing them both. Sex was smoking hot too.
    Now we'd like to date a third guy to see if we click.
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    Sep 22, 2012 3:21 PM GMT
    big members strong point..
    yo bf's got fairly busy with the huger

    normal that 2 tops there, and 1 should be more dominating.
    if they are on an even, then yo boy should be do DP
  • Buddha

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    Aug 04, 2015 8:54 PM GMT
    Wait I actually saw a tumblr for this exact fetish:

    http://fuckmytwinkboyfriend.tumblr.com/

    Yes you can thank me, the tumblr-fairy, granting all urls for your fetishes.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Aug 12, 2015 1:39 PM GMT
    Once you agree to a threesome, you are opening your hitherto supposedly monogamous relationship. This will work for some guys, and will never work for the others.

    If you happen to see a relationship as something based upon the idea of owning each other, threesomes are not going to work for you because your mind set is not that of sharing.

    If you see sexual aspect of your relationship as something that is fun and games, outside the usual boundaries, threesomes may work for you.

    The notion that the third guy is 'bigger' is largely irrelevant. If a bottom guys craves the size only, he will go for it, and will never stop. Sure, there is a chance that an even 'bigger' dude is lurking just around the block. In other words, a total size queen is not your BF material.

    The threesomes may function as relationship enhancers, too. So, you are a smaller, possibly less attractive top for the rest of the world. Your BF sticks with you because he recognizes that there is more to a relationship than just sex and size alone. So, this other dude, does not get all he wants, though he may be getting some with your permission.

    You are in a relationship with someone because you recognize that he and you fit together. Not because you are sure that you or he could not have done better in choosing your respective partners in the departments of looks and size.

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    Jun 03, 2016 12:58 AM GMT
    SilverRRCloud said If a bottom guys craves the size only, he will go for it, and will never stop. Sure, there is a chance that an even 'bigger' dude is lurking just around the block. In other words, a total size queen is not your BF material.

    SC


    I view relationships as the act of support and love for one another. If my partner craved hung guys to pound him, I would support that. And because of my support and love, I could know that my partner would always return to me. Its allowing certain freedoms in a relationship, and i think thats ok.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Jun 03, 2016 6:25 AM GMT
    psxxxx said
    SilverRRCloud said If a bottom guys craves the size only, he will go for it, and will never stop. Sure, there is a chance that an even 'bigger' dude is lurking just around the block. In other words, a total size queen is not your BF material.

    SC


    I view relationships as the act of support and love for one another. If my partner craved hung guys to pound him, I would support that. And because of my support and love, I could know that my partner would always return to me. Its allowing certain freedoms in a relationship, and i think thats ok.


    I missed a beat here. What I was trying to say was that a dude who is a size queen is NOT your best monogamous LTR BF material. If you have an open relationship, the chances are that the size will matter to a degree but that the rest will prevail in its importance for both guys.

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