What to expect after first time receiving?

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    Jan 14, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    I'm 21 and I've never received before but I'm very into the idea of it and always wanted to.

    I've been with my guy for 4 months now and although I trust him because he's understanding and sweet, I'm kind of scared because he's 7 inches long. I'm not sure about thickness but his member is not super thin or overly fat. I'd say proportional?

    I just want to know what kind of pain I should expect during and after sex. How intense will the pain most likely be? I'm also asking about the pain after the sex that day and as well as days following.

    I know it takes time to get used to it, and I accept that. I just want to know what to expect. =)
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    Jan 15, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    He won't call.

    That hurts.
  • Nizzo

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    Jan 15, 2012 3:07 AM GMT
    Don't sike yourself out. Just enjoy and relax. Maybe get something to sip on to relax your nerves.
  • jackthejock

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    Jan 15, 2012 7:07 AM GMT
    You may be sore the next day, but it doesn't really last longer than that. The first time you shit after it will probably hurt and don't be shocked or afraid if you see a little spotting of blood on the toilet paper. I'd recommend neosporin plus pain relief and just dab a little bit on before and after you use the toilet. But again, the pain isn't really bad it's not like you're going to have trouble sitting down or anything.

    also search this forum for other threads about first time bottoms, I know there are tons because I've personally responded to several with tips on how to make bottoming more comfortable.
  • Suetonius

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    Jan 15, 2012 8:24 AM GMT
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jan 15, 2012 9:43 AM GMT
    7 is not big unless he's 7" wide as well.icon_idea.gif Let him rim you first and to make it fair tell him he's next!!
  • el_pdm

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    Jan 15, 2012 6:22 PM GMT
    I thought I would be squealing in pain but it was amazing.

    Relax. Breathe. Enjoy. Obviously, be safe as well.

    As for what to feel afterwards? In my case it was I HAVE to do that again!
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    Jan 17, 2012 5:01 PM GMT
    My first reaction was one of shame and disgust, because I began my journey as a gay man many years ago, before I admitted to myself I was gay. So my first experience was cluttered with mental confusion. But, it did feel GREAT physically.
  • Ridiculance

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    Jan 20, 2012 12:34 AM GMT
    Some pressure in your stomach. Lol. Well that's what I felt. And it feels pretty great. Just make sure you're clean inside and out beforehand so you don't make a mess. Just relax, breathe, and talk to your boyfriend. Communication is key icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 21, 2012 11:10 PM GMT
    first time is always tricky , if you r not ready waite , no pressure
  • Koaa2

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    Jan 22, 2012 1:11 PM GMT
    Have a good lube close by and use lots, maybe have him start with a finger or 2 to loosen you up a bit. You could also get a small dildo to play with prio to the real thing. Relaxe, take it slow, and you will love it.