Most of these guys are so damned clueless about people being gay that they're floundering to appear inteligent while discussing gays. Usually they come from some religious oriented frame of reference, where their 'lil black book' has them locked into some pretty dark views. their ignorance is quite laughable actually, unless of course their fears turn to violence.
But the biggest joke of all is how 'mr' backman 'is so gay' that he make most of us cringe, do you suppose he's so clueless that he doesn't know that he comes off as gay when talking about gays ? He's a real flamer that is for sure.