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This is in regard to RJ member Spiritreaver

One of the sweetest and most inspirational guys --a guy who epitomizes RJ, and fitness, and changing your life, and being a glorious, well-rounded, well adjusted gay guy---is having a one of those times in life that makes you question. I'm starting this thread so each of us who've basked in his 'spirit' can let him know how much we've appreciated all he brings to our great community.

Dude: you're probably a year or two ahead of me on my fitness goals, and I've really appreciated being able to walk in your footsteps and envision the "new me" through your proxy. Moreover, I've loved your unique and nearly magical balance of masculine and adorable cuteness...your personality comes out in each post you write, and it's beautiful.

So, I'm really sorry that life is really dragging you down right now. Big and sincere hugs to you as you're there for your mom and your family --I can only imagine what a blessing it is to everyone to have a man with your heart there to do whatever can be done at this time.

And to the rest of RJ: Spiritreaver has made an impression on many of us...this is your chance to send some of that energy back, when maybe it's really needed.

Don't leave!

<3 !!!

short and sweet...

Hey Korey!
I realized I haven't stalked you in awhile, but, I just want you to know I love you and I appreciate you very much being here in RJLand, not only as an inspiration, but as a genuine person who got his head on straight.
I honestly don't know what's going on with your life right now, but a dear friend said you're at a time right now where you need some support.
Korey all I can give you are my best hopes and wishes for you and your family, and I hope that would be more than enough.
Be strong buddy, take care.

HUGS&XOXOXO
Rudy

Quickly caught up with the situation, quickly replying just to say if people are giving you grief for not being at their beck and call when you have other stuff to deal with then that is their problem not yours!

You don't owe them anything so they should either accept that or quit bugging you. It really annoys me when people think that people they know on the Internet are public property. You have to prioritise your real life and real friends should get that.

Hope your mama makes a swift recovery matey, look after her!!

I learned a phrase a long time ago that helps me through things. Hope it works for you.

Remain calm, and carry on.

Your a nice guy. Please stay around with us

Edward

Yeah he's a sexy lil fucker.

I love you Korey. It's just that simple. I'm always here for you ^_^

If you wanna talk you know how to find me



-E

{{{insert Okie hug here}}}

I haven't had the same experience with you as others have had, but your transformation is inspiring.

Remember you can't be everything to everybody, so just be the best person you can be for yourself. The ones that truly care about you will still stick with you no matter what.

I wish you peace at the moment.

What's the point of thread?

Guy101 saidWhat's the point of this thread?

Yourname is horny for Spiritreaver, hehehehe...

That's kinda what I was thinking.

Guy101 saidNot to sound mean or anything but couldn't a personal email have been just as effective? What was the point of thread again?

Is there something wrong with showing support for someone who is going through a difficult time? Do all the threads have to have negativity and bickering? I think this is a nice gesture.

onaquest said

Guy101 saidNot to sound mean or anything but couldn't a personal email have been just as effective? What was the point of thread again?

Is there something wrong with showing support for someone who is going through a difficult time? Do all the threads have to have negativity and bickering? I think this is a nice gesture.

A personal email does just that and everyone goes through difficult times in their life. Your point?

A personal e-mail is fine, but this is for multiple people to comment.

Why is it an issue for you that people are trying to be positive and supportive?

onaquest saidA personal e-mail is fine, but this is for multiple people to comment.

Why is it an issue for you that people are trying to be positive and supportive?

Threads are what the OP makes it. If it's not of interest, no one responds. Why do folks ask questions of why a post is originated all the time? Every post I've started lately someone asks "why", like there should be some all-important reason for a post. I assume most threads are a total waste of time, and if I get a gleam of relevance or enlightenment from it then I consider that a miracle.

onaquest saidA personal e-mail is fine, but this is for multiple people to comment.

Why is it an issue for you that people are trying to be positive and supportive?

It's not an issue. Stop assuming what you don't know. I merely asked a question as to what was the point of this thread meaning I'm inquiring. I would've been none the wiser of the situation at hand if not for the OP (I'm still not) so with him opening the door by creating this thread it begs for anyone not in the know to ask publicly.

So again I ask what's the point to this thread?

Sorry you seem a bit slow on the uptake, Onquest, and also seem to think there's a negative agenda behind my words. Maybe you should learn to approach with caution and certainty before jumping to conclusions. Your assumption of me inquiring isn't very supportive or positive.

How do you like them apples?

Celticmusl said

onaquest saidA personal e-mail is fine, but this is for multiple people to comment.

Why is it an issue for you that people are trying to be positive and supportive?

Threads are what the OP makes it. If it's not of interest, no one responds. Why do folks ask questions of why a post is originated all the time? Every post I've started lately someone asks "why", like there should be some all-important reason for a post. I assume most threads are a total waste of time, and if I get a gleam of relevance or enlightenment from it then I consider that a miracle.

I wasn't questioning the OP.

I was questioning the ugly comments made about the OP and why people were posting supportive comments to someone who is going through a difficult time.

Sometimes the OP's intent gets skewed by people who want to turn everything ugly. It's sad.

Guy101 said

onaquest saidA personal e-mail is fine, but this is for multiple people to comment.

Why is it an issue for you that people are trying to be positive and supportive?

It's not an issue. Stop assuming what you don't know. I merely asked a question as to what was the point of this thread meaning I'm inquiring. I would've been none the wiser of the situation at hand if not for the OP (I'm still not) so with him opening the door by creating this thread it begs for anyone not in the know to ask publicly.

So again I ask what's the point to this thread?

Sorry you seem a bit slow on the uptake, Onquest, and also seem to think there's a negative agenda behind my words. Maybe you should learn to approach with caution and certainly before jumping to conclusions. Your assumption of me inquiring isn't very supportive or positive.

How do you like them apples?

The answer is in the what's on your mind thread and if I misunderstood your intent, I apologize. I can be adult enough to admit when I'm wrong. I will also not start name calling.

onaquest said

Guy101 said

onaquest saidA personal e-mail is fine, but this is for multiple people to comment.

Why is it an issue for you that people are trying to be positive and supportive?

It's not an issue. Stop assuming what you don't know. I merely asked a question as to what was the point of this thread meaning I'm inquiring. I would've been none the wiser of the situation at hand if not for the OP (I'm still not) so with him opening the door by creating this thread it begs for anyone not in the know to ask publicly.

So again I ask what's the point to this thread?

Sorry you seem a bit slow on the uptake, Onquest, and also seem to think there's a negative agenda behind my words. Maybe you should learn to approach with caution and certainly before jumping to conclusions. Your assumption of me inquiring isn't very supportive or positive.

How do you like them apples?

The answer is in the what's on your mind thread and if I misunderstood your intent, I apologize. I can be adult enough to admit when I'm wrong. I will also not start name calling.

Technically, you did start name calling by painting a negative look on my comment but we won't go there. Don't think viewing my profile gives you an insight about me. You'd be wrong there too.

Korey,

Sorry that you are going through less than stellar times. I hope you stay around for a very long time to come. Young men like yourself can be an inspiration, even to us old geezers. lol I enjoy your input in the forums.

You're in my thoughts....

sahem62896 said{{{insert Okie hug here}}}

Korey.. You know I'm just "down the street" from you and always only a phone call away... Sorry to hear about your Mom's health issues and I understand how overwhelming it can be to try and keep up with mail.
Time to simplify your life right now. Step back from all the social networking and I do mean ALL and go see your mother.. She needs you!
We like you... but she needs you.
We're not going anywhere.. and when life gets a bit more calm.. then drop back in and say hi. Just put your profile on silent if you need to so you don't wrack up anymore emails while you're away.
Go see your mom ; )

Celticmusl said

Guy101 saidWhat's the point of this thread?

Yourname is horny for Spiritreaver, hehehehe...

No,, he just has a bigger heart than most.
Dave's a diamond in the rough!

TheGuyNextDoor said

Celticmusl said

Guy101 saidWhat's the point of this thread?

Yourname is horny for Spiritreaver, hehehehe...

No,, he just has a bigger heart than most.
Dave's a diamond in the rust!

Well said... :-)