My first time

  • Neels

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    Jan 16, 2012 1:25 PM GMT
    Hi all! I'm a "straight" guy never had a sexual encounter with another guy before but decided to give it a go.just as a experiment, so me and a guy I know are going to have a well you know.I'm going to do it once and that is it.can anyone give me any advice please on what not to do.and what is fun to tryicon_confused.gif he is also straight and we are just doing this out of curiosity.

    Thanks
  • Buddha

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    Jan 16, 2012 2:01 PM GMT
    Uh... do whatever you've been fantasizing of? I mean if you've been thinking about it I'm guessing something must've come to mind?
  • araphael

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    Jan 16, 2012 2:09 PM GMT
    Since its your first time, I wouldn't try to do too much. I mean, give each other a handjob or try a little sucking. Nature will take care of the rest. Have fun. Oh yeah, if you like it, you'll probably try it again, so be prepared.
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    Jan 16, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    Nothing to really 'prepare' for other than to be relaxed and at ease with each other. If you're gonna get all freaked out and uptight, it's not worth trying. Have a few beers or something first.

    What I can tell you is, it's everything you think it might be... and more.

    Enjoy!
  • Neels

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    Jan 16, 2012 4:05 PM GMT
    Brazen68 saidNothing to really 'prepare' for other than to be relaxed and at ease with each other. If you're gonna get all freaked out and uptight, it's not worth trying. Have a few beers or something first.

    What I can tell you is, it's everything you think it might be... and more.

    Enjoy!

    Thanks guys! I think the beers beforehand sounds like a good idea!!
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    Jan 16, 2012 4:07 PM GMT
    Oh yeah, drink. Also, don't RUSH the sex. Be gentle with each other. Explore each other's bodies and be tender. If you hammer into each other, it'll suck.
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    Jan 16, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    Neels saidHi all! I'm a "straight" guy never had a sexual encounter with another guy before but decided to give it a go.just as a experiment, so me and a guy I know are going to have a well you know.I'm going to do it once and that is it.icon_confused.gif he is also straight and we are just doing this out of curiosity.

    Thanks


    I said the very same words not so many years ago.......I implore you, please reconsider....your life will never be the same....forever depending on the kindness of strangers...back alley tete-a-tetes.....sleazy motel rooms ....it's all too sordid to go into the details.....icon_redface.gif

    It's too late for me, but I beg you to resist the temptation while there is still hope for you................icon_cry.gif

  • Neels

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    Jan 16, 2012 7:50 PM GMT
    turbobilly said
    Neels saidHi all! I'm a "straight" guy never had a sexual encounter with another guy before but decided to give it a go.just as a experiment, so me and a guy I know are going to have a well you know.I'm going to do it once and that is it.icon_confused.gif he is also straight and we are just doing this out of curiosity.

    Thanks


    I said the very same words not so many years ago.......I implore you, please reconsider....your life will never be the same....forever depending on the kindness of strangers...back alley tete-a-tetes.....sleazy motel rooms ....it's all too sordid to go into the details.....icon_redface.gif

    It's too late for me, but I beg you to resist the temptation while there is still hope for you................icon_cry.gif

    You know maybe you are right! I love girls I'm just curios but i still wanna be able to look myself in the mirror the next morning.Thanks for your honesty my friend!
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    Jan 16, 2012 8:16 PM GMT
    Neels saidHi all! I'm a "straight" guy never had a sexual encounter with another guy before but decided to give it a go.just as a experiment, so me and a guy I know are going to have a well you know.I'm going to do it once and that is it.can anyone give me any advice please on what not to do.and what is fun to tryicon_confused.gif he is also straight and we are just doing this out of curiosity.

    Thanks


    obvious Troll is obvious...

  • Jan 16, 2012 8:16 PM GMT
    just because you wanna explore and be curious there is nothing wrong with that. dont hold your self back from seeing what else is out there. if you and your friend are both willing to try it then try it like the others said go slow and dont just jump in to the sex aspect. start by drinking like they said and it will all go into play. if you both are feeling it then nature will take its course
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    Jan 16, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
    At 37 with a curiosity for gay play, I find it hard to believe you're that much into women but find it sort of cool that you and your buddy are willing to explore. This kind of openness would probably help a lot of other guys to understand, not only their own sexuality (gay or stricon_cool.gif but appreciate others as well.

    Be sure to let us know how it went and what you both thought afterwards.
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    Jan 16, 2012 8:19 PM GMT
    campbell_guy26 saidjust because you wanna explore and be curious there is nothing wrong with that. dont hold your self back from seeing what else is out there. if you and your friend are both willing to try it then try it like the others said go slow and dont just jump in to the sex aspect. start by drinking like they said and it will all go into play. if you both are feeling it then nature will take its course


    it doesn't exist a straight who is curious about fucking a guy duh....
  • Suetonius

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    Jan 16, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
    On the off chance that this is not a troll post (now how likely is that?), buy The Joy of Gay Sex - it has all anyone could possibly want to know about gaysex.