Which do you like better Fem guys or Masculine guys?

  • HotCrisis17

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    Jun 23, 2008 4:36 AM GMT
    Me I like masculine guys. Some fem guys are ok to be around but after awhile they just tend to get on my nerves icon_rolleyes.gif. What are your thoughts?
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    Jun 23, 2008 4:46 AM GMT
    I've never been into fem guys. Gay acting does nothing for me, or guys heavily into the gay community. I'm into regular guys whom live in the real world.
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    Jun 23, 2008 4:49 AM GMT
    I can't say that that I prefer one type over the other. I've been equally obsessed with "masculine" jock types and "fem" pretty boys, depending upon the person and the context.

    It's more important for me that a man or boy is a simply an excellent representation of what he is suited for based on physiology, temperament and stage of life.

    I will say that the "fem" persona is best practiced by those still within that youngish age quadrant, when the soft skin and dewy eyes can support that projection.

    As they "grow up," some boys might need to butch up. Like Wilson Cruz, who has gradually progressed from one end of the spectrum to the other.

    Check out this "then and now" photo

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    Jun 23, 2008 4:49 AM GMT
    I am not going to knock either. Never dated a feminine guy so I am not going to dis them.
    Then again, haven't dated much period. lol
    Usually give every guy a chance.
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    Jun 23, 2008 4:50 AM GMT
    I like people, not stereotypes.
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    Jun 23, 2008 4:55 AM GMT
    TigerTim saidI like people, not stereotypes.


    What he said. If you walk around with the mentality that you "aren't into" masc/fem guys, then you're missing out big time.icon_rolleyes.gif
  • NYCguy74

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    Jun 23, 2008 5:00 AM GMT
    BabiGayPimp said
    As they "grow up," some boys might need to butch up. Like Wilson Cruz, who has gradually progressed from one end of the spectrum to the other.

    Check out this "then and now" photo

    cruz_l.jpg





    The pic on the left is not really a then, It's a character he used to play on TV, nothing to do with him at all.
  • HotCrisis17

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    Jun 23, 2008 5:20 AM GMT
    Hmmm yea sterotypes suck, but whenever I see a gay guy on T.V or something like that it's always that really fem sterotype.icon_mad.gif
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    Jun 23, 2008 5:34 AM GMT
    Real men don't obsess over this fantasy issue.
  • Salubrious

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    Jun 23, 2008 5:34 AM GMT
    I don't really dislike femme guys per se, but then again I don't really know what would qualify someone as butch or femme definitively. Is the bear guy that fixes cars for a living but also loves fashion and interior design butch or femme? Everyone has both sides to them.
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    Jun 23, 2008 5:37 AM GMT
    HotCrisis17 saidHmmm yea sterotypes suck, but whenever I see a gay guy on T.V or something like that it's always that really fem sterotype.icon_mad.gif
    Why do they do that. They helppeole think all homosexuals are like that. I love it when str8s tell me. "Well you don't aced very gay!"

    But I am just myself. I Seem more str8, and there's no acting there, just being me. Sometimes for fun, I try to camp it up, but am not very good at gay acting.

    But I've been sucking cock since five, so it would be imposible to be 100% without any gay traits. But they don't rule.
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    Jun 23, 2008 5:50 AM GMT
    I like men who can hold there own.
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    Jun 23, 2008 6:00 AM GMT
    Come back Chris Crocker all is forgiven?

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    Jun 23, 2008 6:13 AM GMT
    TigerTim saidI like people, not stereotypes.


    I agree.
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    Jun 23, 2008 6:21 AM GMT
    the fact that a guy is "masculine" or "feminine" is irrelevent, ultamatley its his personality, character wich is the most important....aesthetically if he has a nice ass and can handle a HUGE @#%$ is all that mattersicon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jun 23, 2008 6:29 AM GMT
    Pattison saidI've never been into fem guys. Gay acting does nothing for me, or guys heavily into the gay community. I'm into regular guys whom live in the real world.


    Yup! I agree except I don't care for overly masculine guys either.... I prefer a normal, average guy who is not afraid to show emotion and is a kind, sensitive person.
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    Jun 23, 2008 6:38 AM GMT
    Lenne saidI like men who can hold there own.


    Hold their own what?

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    Jun 23, 2008 6:47 AM GMT
    Not gonna lie - I prefer masculine men. love feminine men but i am not attracted to them - even if they are super handsome and jacked. just being honest...
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    Jun 23, 2008 7:16 AM GMT
    funny pictures
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    Jun 23, 2008 7:23 AM GMT
    Are you talking about appearance or how they act since they are both connected to the individual.

    I like a guy who is comfortable with himself and who I can be comfortable with. I've seen femmy looking guys who had butch mannerisms and really buffed out guys who acted like 12 year old girls with skinned skins. Quite the funny world we live in.

    I like the average fit to athletic/musc guy who is free of stereotypes and isn't all girly acting or too butch for his own good. In short, I just like a normal man.
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    Jun 23, 2008 8:19 AM GMT
    DanteCAI am not going to knock either. Never dated a feminine guy so I am not going to dis them.
    Then again, haven't dated much period. lol
    Usually give every guy a chance.


    Never dated period. icon_cry.gif So I don't really know for sure either.

    But I do prefer masculine, though my definition of masculine does not necessarily mean Rambo-esque. Just somewhere in between or towards the masc end.

    Case to point, I saw The Mostly Unfabulous Life of Ethan Greene last week, and the main character was HOT, the moment he opened his mouth though... icon_cry.gif Bleh.

    But yeah, never say never. (Hey! I just said it twice! icon_biggrin.gif)
  • DiverScience

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    Jun 23, 2008 1:11 PM GMT
    I find people personally attractive on an individual basis. If you mean physically, I tend to be turned on by more larger guys. If you mean action-wise... ::shrugs::


    Individuals are hot, stereotypes are not. And for all of you bemoaning the "oh all the gay guys on tv are stereotypes..." I call bullshit. Of course they're stereotypes, so are the straight people. TV shows are built on stereotypes. And you, who're objecting so bloody strongly, throwing hissy fits about "fems" you're just being another stereotype. Get over yourselves.
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    Jun 23, 2008 1:28 PM GMT
    I like guys who have the balls to be themselves -- wherever they fall on the continuum between femme and butch -- and the confidence not to care what people think of it.
  • DiverScience

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    Jun 23, 2008 1:29 PM GMT
    z_squared saidI like guys who have the balls to be themselves -- wherever they fall on the continuum between femme and butch -- and the confidence not to care what people think of it.


    Agreed
  • Teacherguy

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    Jun 23, 2008 1:31 PM GMT
    HotCrisis17 saidHmmm yea sterotypes suck, but whenever I see a gay guy on T.V or something like that it's always that really fem sterotype.icon_mad.gif


    Well i think they do this because its none threatning to people...its funny, silly,....even asexual...and stereotypes are often used in plays, tv, books, because the character doesn't need much explaining..the audience already has an idea of what the character is going to be like.

    Would be nice to see realistic gay characters on tv..but then again..what is realistic?...the gay community is extreemely diverse with all its characters..i think we should embrace them all...fem, masc...who cares...as long as your happy.