What's up with hook up site guys?

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    Jun 23, 2008 8:55 PM GMT
    I have met quality guys on hook-ups sites. I'm generally looking for friends with benefits. With some guys we exchange a few chat lines, stats etc. and they email ..."Come on over bud..my place is at ............" ,.which is so cool. However, there are other guys that hit on me up for weeks telling me they want to meet up, over and over but they never respond directly to to my response which is a simple, "Invite me over" or "When, Where? "....I am kinda new to the M to M thing so I was wondering if this is some kind of fantasy exchange thing that goes on in those sites and the guys that do it never go beyond talking about it.
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    Jun 24, 2008 12:51 AM GMT
    Alpha13 saidI have met quality guys on hook-ups sites. I'm generally looking for friends with benefits. With some guys we exchange a few chat lines, stats etc. and they email ..."Come on over bud..my place is at ............" ,.which is so cool. However, there are other guys that hit on me up for weeks telling me they want to meet up, over and over but they never respond directly to to my response which is a simple, "Invite me over" or "When, Where? "....I am kinda new to the M to M thing so I was wondering if this is some kind of fantasy exchange thing that goes on in those sites and the guys that do it never go beyond talking about it.


    ALPHA....YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO COLUMBUS, OH, for a HOOK UP! Tell me when and I will meet you at Port Columbus Airport http://www.port-columbus.com/home.asp ...really.
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    Jun 24, 2008 1:02 AM GMT
    I myself. have never hooked up with anyone from the net. But I do find it a good place to debate gay issues. By doing so, not only do I challenge others, but myself.

    With that said. I've meet some truly nice guys here whom I'd love too meet for dinner, next time I'm in the USA, or Canada. But not sure if dinner counts as a hook up?
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    Jun 24, 2008 1:26 AM GMT
    I've done a few hookups online, non in the last 4 years, so I can't recall how they played out, but I know that since it was a hookup I wasn't going to allow my pride to be as easily hurt as I would have it been a date. But I don't put to much credibility on the first impressions I get online. The best and final way in getting to know someone best is in person. I know quite a few great people whom have laid out shotty dating profiles. I think I lost track your statement before... haha.