What s wrong with me? I just cant find a boyfriend.

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    Jan 19, 2012 1:49 PM GMT
    What s wrong with me? I just cant find a boyfriend.
    Ok yes I like older men 35+ and I am 29. I have a job, car, am a home owner but still no luck with a bf.
    I see lots of other older hot men here have a very young guys who has nothing to offer, that s just no fair.I couldnt help but wonder - Is there anybody for me?
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    Jan 19, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    in2oldermuscle saidWhat s wrong with me? I just cant find a boyfriend.
    Ok yes I like older men 35+ and I am 29. I have a job, car, am a home owner but still no luck with a bf.
    I see lots of other older hot men here have a very young guys who has nothing to offer, that s just no fair.I couldnt help but wonder - Is there anybody for me?
    How do you know they have nothing to offer? There's more to a relationship than material things.
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    Jan 19, 2012 3:57 PM GMT
    You are totally handsome. Continue focusing on being the right person and spend time looking for the right person who will bring you the right relationship.

    While "hot" gets a person attention, relationships are way more than that.
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    Jan 19, 2012 4:00 PM GMT
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    Jan 19, 2012 4:13 PM GMT
    It's not the end of the world, dude. Buck up. Enjoy your singlehood and make the most of it. When the time (and guy) is right, you'll know and so will he.

    Those who desperately seek to be in relationships often have them short-lived.
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    Jan 19, 2012 4:24 PM GMT
    boyfriends are overrated. . .

    I was with a guy for over 2 years back in 2008 thru 2011.
    Now that I'm out of the relationship, I'm actually glad and cannot imagine going back into one right now.

    Enjoy just doing you. Dont worry about having a bf. They're overrated and not worth the annoyance of doing boyfriend-ish stuff. .
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    Jan 19, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    Maybe you're looking too hard.
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    Jan 19, 2012 4:30 PM GMT
    Who WOULDN'T want to be with damn near 30 year old man who whines that his life sucks despite the fact that he has a job, a car and owns his own home and does nothing to change anything except post egotistical, selfish questions querying the opinions of random strangers?
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    Jan 19, 2012 4:30 PM GMT
    Give you some time. As people say, looking too hard isn't good. You could try & meet some guys, but don't rush in the "getting in couple" thingie, you'll just get depressed over time. Take this time and enjoy it and take care of yourself. Being with someone is important but taking care of yourself is far more important.
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    Jan 19, 2012 4:58 PM GMT
    did you just define yourself by the things you have/own?
    maybe that's the reason you're alone...
    there's more to attraction than a car or a mortgage
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    Jan 19, 2012 5:02 PM GMT
    xrichx said
    in2oldermuscle saidWhat s wrong with me? I just cant find a boyfriend.
    Ok yes I like older men 35+ and I am 29. I have a job, car, am a home owner but still no luck with a bf.
    I see lots of other older hot men here have a very young guys who has nothing to offer, that s just no fair.I couldnt help but wonder - Is there anybody for me?
    How do you know they have nothing to offer? There's more to a relationship than material things.


    Well said Rich.

    Also, if these hot older guys are devoting themselves to guys who on all levels have nothing to offer as you say then that's great because they're not wasting your time. Who'd would want to be in relationship with a person who values so little?


    Haaretz saidWho WOULDN'T want to be with damn near 30 year old man who whines that his life sucks despite the fact that he has a job, a car and owns his own home and does nothing to change anything except post egotistical, selfish questions querying the opinions of random strangers?


    Haaretz.. oh you're too much icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 19, 2012 5:06 PM GMT
    in2oldermuscle saidWhat s wrong with me? I just cant find a boyfriend.
    Ok yes I like older men 35+ and I am 29. I have a job, car, am a home owner but still no luck with a bf.
    I see lots of other older hot men here have a very young guys who has nothing to offer, that s just no fair.I couldnt help but wonder - Is there anybody for me?


    Honestly? Stop acting desperate. If you don't enjoy being with yourself, why would anyone else?
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    Jan 19, 2012 6:58 PM GMT
    stop being picky
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    Jan 19, 2012 7:02 PM GMT
    be-vewy-vewy-quiet-demotivational-poster
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    Jan 19, 2012 7:09 PM GMT
    Ladybugs...
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    Jan 19, 2012 7:30 PM GMT
    Chill out, relationships take time and you want to make sure you're with a good partner. Give some guys a chance and you can define what you really want along the way. You will be surprised at what you find. Don't stress it.
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    Jan 19, 2012 8:16 PM GMT
    let's see... i have a job, a car, and my own place... and so did every guy i ever dated... in fact, i think most guys have jobs and cars and places to live... what else can you do for me?
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    Jan 19, 2012 8:28 PM GMT
    Turin saidstop being picky



    +1.....you probably eliminate most of the candidates right off the bat that leaves you with just a small number to choose from
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    Jan 19, 2012 8:48 PM GMT
    I was asking this a few months ago. I felt I wanted someone to tell me the exact time place and location . Didn't happen. I found someone who looked cute on one websitevand did lots of cool things. We went on a date once. Didn't last long. Messages a lot.but in the end. Didn't work. I felt like I was introducing him to how be my boyfriend. Was strange didn't see him again.

    BUT

    On occupied, I looked and looked and saw a few cute guys, not many replies. Except! I found one profile that listed all the qualities I wanted in a guy, genuine, honest, hardworking, thoughtful, smart! It was too good to be true. The profile didn't have a picture even. But it sort of mirrored my own profile. So I messaged him and said how much I liked his profile and how great it was. We swapped photos.... And he's beautiful very sexy. One of the most wonderful guys I've ever met IN life! We talk about everything. Except he lives in Amsterdam, we Skype every week, text each other, encourage each other to work hard, talk about our personal problems and look after each other. We're building s friendship, we know we're attracted to each other. We talk about god , religion, kids, marriage, Christianity, Islam, he's out. He tells me about his family, upbringin! Everything I ever wanted in a man.


    it works because we want the same thing. Planning my trip to amsterdam or he's coming here. We're gonna try and be friends fir a long time, supporting each other through life. Both living our lives and helping each other do that, find this x

    Yes I was looking,,, I didn't know how or where. It was a random profile with no, pic on a site I've never had any luck on. Purely random. Look for what you want and search according to that. Look for what is going to give you lasting happiness. Think deep and know deep. There's someone out there looking for the same. Be specific, you'll get through all the crap profiles. But also be open!

    Be yourself! That's what's going to make you most happy! icon_biggrin.gif good luck.
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    Jan 19, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    When I read about your accomplishments, I don't read it where it sounds materialistic, I read it as you are a driven individual to attain most in life what makes you happy... And that is very attractive...
    I don't believe anything is wrong with you... It takes time to find someone who may compliment your life... Just take a deep breath and sit back and enjoy life at the moment... I am sure someone will come when you least expect it...

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    Jan 19, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    Do you really need one? and if so, why?
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    Jan 19, 2012 9:54 PM GMT
    Are you as muscular as the guys you want?
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    Jan 19, 2012 10:02 PM GMT
    k3l3k0 saiddid you just define yourself by the things you have/own?
    maybe that's the reason you're alone...
    there's more to attraction than a car or a mortgage


    amen sister

    everyone is about this shit and its annoying. Im pretty sure I have it more together with my pennies than some dudes who are rollin in dough.
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    Jan 19, 2012 10:08 PM GMT
    bachian saidAre you as muscular as the guys you want?


    this is also why your alone, as am I. This is how guys think.
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    Jan 19, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    k3l3k0 saiddid you just define yourself by the things you have/own?
    maybe that's the reason you're alone...
    there's more to attraction than a car or a mortgage


    Totally Agreed-Love Has NO LIMITS including age or and material things!Love is NOT and Auction Item...icon_evil.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_cool.gif