My Bi Life... Is anyone else like me?

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    Jan 19, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    So I define myself as a bi guy and here's the reason.

    When it comes to women I find that I am able to not only had sex with them, but also be in a serious relationship with them.

    But with men I find that I can only be sexually attracted to them. Never could I see myself dating a guy.

    What do you think? Anybody Similar?

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    Jan 19, 2012 11:04 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidI think you're probably straight and just like the way it feels to get it in the ass. Tell you girlfriend you want her to use a strap-on on you.


    Haha, You're so funny.

    But the funny thing is I'm a top, Guess I should have mentioned it.
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    Jan 19, 2012 11:40 PM GMT
    A lot of bi men feel the same way. Not speaking for myself, but I've known many bi men and women who can get off with anyone but only connect emotionally with the opposite sex.

    Nothing wrong there.
  • tazzari

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    Jan 19, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    Be you.
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    Jan 19, 2012 11:46 PM GMT
    yolo93 saidSo I define myself as a bi guy and here's the reason.

    When it comes to women I find that I am able to not only had sex with them, but also be in a serious relationship with them.





    I need to learn to proof read..

    ...I am able to have sex with them, but also be in a serious relationship with them....

    I'm sooo stupid... But you got the point.
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    Jan 19, 2012 11:54 PM GMT
    Sounds like a sex addiction, seek Dr. Phil.

    (I can't believe I just said that..)
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    Jan 19, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidSounds like a sex addiction, seek Dr. Phil.

    (I can't believe I just said that..)


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    Dr. Phil!?!
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    Jan 19, 2012 11:59 PM GMT
    Your name (yolo) stands for You Only Live Once.

    So, marry a woman who allows you to have sex with men.

    After all, yolo. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 20, 2012 12:04 AM GMT
    Exactly...even I'm horrified I suggested it...but I wasn't sure if you were looking for justification or a "remedy"...Dr. Phil was the best I could come up with, lame I know.


    yolo93 said
    ConfederateGhost saidSounds like a sex addiction, seek Dr. Phil.

    (I can't believe I just said that..)


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    Dr. Phil!?!
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    Jan 20, 2012 2:55 AM GMT
    You may just not have been with the right guy.
  • araphael

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    Jan 20, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    I was like you once. For me, because of my upbringing I had it deep in my subconscious that it was natural to love and connect relationally with a female but not necessarily with a male in a intimate way. I imagine that you have some of that going on. Plus, there is a closeness and feeling of being relaxed, yourself, that you can get with having sex with a guy that you can't having sex with a girl. Also, falling in love with a guy may scare you because it will mean that you are totally gay and that may terrify you because of what it may mean to your life and your identity. Just a thought.
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    Jan 20, 2012 6:25 AM GMT
    sounds bi to me.. Im bi-curious and have fooled around with girls and enjoyed it.. even had chemistry with a few. but for falling in love for realz? That happens with me only with guys
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    Jan 20, 2012 6:27 AM GMT
    me, rare breed my friend
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    Jan 20, 2012 6:29 AM GMT
    I know a 23 year old who I've fucked and who has sucked my cock multiple times and loves for me to shoot my load on his face and in his mouth who identifies himself as straight.
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    Jan 20, 2012 6:38 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
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    AMoonHawk saidI think you're probably straight and just like the way it feels to get it in the ass. Tell you girlfriend you want her to use a strap-on on you.


    Haha, You're so funny.

    But the funny thing is I'm a top, Guess I should have mentioned it.

    If you were a top, you'd have not reason to want to be with a guy, unless your obsession is sucking dick


    Again, You're wrong. Just stop.
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    Jan 20, 2012 6:39 AM GMT
    GreenHopper saidsounds bi to me.. Im bi-curious and have fooled around with girls and enjoyed it.. even had chemistry with a few. but for falling in love for realz? That happens with me only with guys


    You're like the same/opposite of me. Haha.
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    Jan 20, 2012 6:44 AM GMT
    yolo93 said
    GreenHopper saidsounds bi to me.. Im bi-curious and have fooled around with girls and enjoyed it.. even had chemistry with a few. but for falling in love for realz? That happens with me only with guys


    You're like the same/opposite of me. Haha.


    Yup haha.. the same/opposite.. I like that term icon_razz.gif A mirror image of sorts?
  • Cuchullain

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    Jan 20, 2012 7:13 AM GMT
    Is it a problem one way or another, or just a curiosity?

    I'm curious if you have good male friends that you love (albeit platonically) or if you're borderline heterosocial?

    I've known a few straight guys that are into only women sexually, but otherwise aren't interested in women at all. Heterosexual but homosocial.
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:19 AM GMT
    GreenHopper saidsounds bi to me.. Im bi-curious and have fooled around with girls and enjoyed it.. even had chemistry with a few. but for falling in love for realz? That happens with me only with guys


    I love that term Bi -Curious, you are Curious the fist time, and if you like it, you are bi, as the curiosity is gone.icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:21 AM GMT
    no matter how long you live and even if you ended up with a guy for the last 30 years of your life, you can never ever be a Bona Fide Homosexual; but we support our half brothers and the flying of the Bisexual Pride Flag, be proude, and have fun.
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:22 AM GMT
    Actually I find myself quite opposite. I'm attracted to men and prefer them over women sexually. But ideally, I see myself in a serious relationship with a women rather a man, married with kids. Give myself a couple years I guess or you could just say I'm living in the norm of how societal structure should look like
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:24 AM GMT
    You can't catch THE BI.

    THE BI
    is genetic.
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:26 AM GMT
    Yep, know how you feel. Been married an number of years...and able to relate emotionally with my wife and enjoy sex with her. However my first sexual experience was with a dude. This was an ongoing sexual relationship that went on for almost a decade from our early teens clear into our early twenties. I'm clearly attracted to both, and have had a few tryst here and there with another guy. I have a best buddy that I've had for 12 years that I'm deeply emotionally attached to and is straight. It's so cool, he knows EVERYTHING about me and we're cool. However as the relationship went on we did get sexual a number of times. He's married too, and we're content with each other. We play pool, watch sports, drink beer together. Hell we know more about each other than our wives do. Yes it's possible to be bi, although it is a mystery to a lot of people on both sides of the aisle on how we manage to strut right down the middle. Just be your self dude, and let life straighten out the rest while it unfolds.
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:47 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    yolo93 said
    AMoonHawk said
    yolo93 said
    AMoonHawk saidI think you're probably straight and just like the way it feels to get it in the ass. Tell you girlfriend you want her to use a strap-on on you.


    Haha, You're so funny.

    But the funny thing is I'm a top, Guess I should have mentioned it.

    If you were a top, you'd have not reason to want to be with a guy, unless your obsession is sucking dick


    Again, You're wrong. Just stop.

    Then you're a troll .. move on to some straight site and cry it to all the little girls that care to listen to it.


    Oooor. You can get out of your feelings. If you don't understand where I'm coming from or even don't like it that's fine. But don't turn into a teenage bitch who just experienced her first period.
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:50 AM GMT
    justadude48 saidYep, know how you feel. Been married an number of years...and able to relate emotionally with my wife and enjoy sex with her. However my first sexual experience was with a dude. This was an ongoing sexual relationship that went on for almost a decade from our early teens clear into our early twenties. I'm clearly attracted to both, and have had a few tryst here and there with another guy. I have a best buddy that I've had for 12 years that I'm deeply emotionally attached to and is straight. It's so cool, he knows EVERYTHING about me and we're cool. However as the relationship went on we did get sexual a number of times. He's married too, and we're content with each other. We play pool, watch sports, drink beer together. Hell we know more about each other than our wives do. Yes it's possible to be bi, although it is a mystery to a lot of people on both sides of the aisle on how we manage to strut right down the middle. Just be your self dude, and let life straighten out the rest while it unfolds.


    Nice! Are you happy so far with the way things have gone?