When a guy seems interested in you then ignores you, but ignores you when he stands near you...but stares at you from a distance.

  • dangler12

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    Jan 20, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    Is this a sign he is not into you? I am confused by this behavior. I seem to experience a lot. What does this mean? I would like to talk to him, but he seems unapproachable, so I don't bother. Why do guys do this? It goes on for months and months and months...is this his way of saying 'i don't like you'?
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    Jan 20, 2012 6:58 AM GMT
    This seems to be the hot topic theme amongst the faceless empty profiles tonight.....

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    Jan 20, 2012 7:19 AM GMT
    Short answer: Yes he's into you, or want's to be you. Now, make sure you clear the browser history before your parents wake up.
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:19 AM GMT
    He hates you.

    He told me.
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:21 AM GMT
    I do that a lot in the gym. It doesn't get you anywhere in terms of meeting people. WTB balls so I can talk to people, or somehow not appear intimidating.
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:42 AM GMT
    It means he's f&cked up..
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    Jan 20, 2012 7:44 AM GMT
    We're working on this in therapy. Hopefully I make changes by the end of this semester...been in therapy since June.

    Things I'd like to change:
    1) thinking too much/mind reading other people's thoughts and worrying what they're thinking
    2) anxiety about falling asleep and then not sleeping at all that night for fear of oversleeping the next morning (I think I have a short circuit because that seems cyclical)
    3) Being more social.
  • d_1M

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    Jan 20, 2012 7:54 AM GMT
    lol this sounds like something i would do, some times im just dreaming awake, and people think im staring but most of the time im hehe
    when im close if they dont brake the ice i act like never seen them b4 i guess im shy, introvert or who in du hell knows but i dont know lol
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:06 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidHe hates you.

    He told me.


    O. M. G. -- he told YOU too??!?!?!?!?! I told him to keep that to himself!!!!!!

    HE is SUCH a fucking gossip!!!!

    WHAT a bitch....
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:07 AM GMT
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    Ariodante saidHe hates you.

    He told me.


    O. M. G. -- he told YOU too??!?!?!?!?! I told him to keep that to himself!!!!!!

    HE is SUCH a fucking gossip!!!!

    WHAT a bitch....


    He was really tight lipped at first, but I managed to spread him open and get what I wanted.

    And he liked it.
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:09 AM GMT
    Oh man, the amount of times I've done this...

    I'm always like: "I love you. But don't fucking touch me!"

    And then my head turns 360 degrees. And explodes.
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:11 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante saidHe hates you.

    He told me.


    O. M. G. -- he told YOU too??!?!?!?!?! I told him to keep that to himself!!!!!!

    HE is SUCH a fucking gossip!!!!

    WHAT a bitch....


    He was really tight lipped at first, but I managed to spread him open and get what I wanted.

    And he liked it.


    Oh - don't fall for THAT routine!!!!! He ALWAYS plays tight-lipped and tries to get you to force him to spread, but it's all an act!!!!

    I mean did you SEE how WIDE he spreads?!?!?!?!?!

    He obviously has had practice....
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:12 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante saidHe hates you.

    He told me.


    O. M. G. -- he told YOU too??!?!?!?!?! I told him to keep that to himself!!!!!!

    HE is SUCH a fucking gossip!!!!

    WHAT a bitch....


    He was really tight lipped at first, but I managed to spread him open and get what I wanted.

    And he liked it.


    Oh - don't fall for THAT routine!!!!! He ALWAYS plays tight-lipped and tries to get you to force him to spread, but it's all an act!!!!

    I mean did you SEE how WIDE he spreads?!?!?!?!?!

    He obviously has had practice....


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    Jan 20, 2012 8:14 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante saidHe hates you.

    He told me.


    O. M. G. -- he told YOU too??!?!?!?!?! I told him to keep that to himself!!!!!!

    HE is SUCH a fucking gossip!!!!

    WHAT a bitch....


    He was really tight lipped at first, but I managed to spread him open and get what I wanted.

    And he liked it.


    Oh - don't fall for THAT routine!!!!! He ALWAYS plays tight-lipped and tries to get you to force him to spread, but it's all an act!!!!

    I mean did you SEE how WIDE he spreads?!?!?!?!?!

    He obviously has had practice....


    ..icon_exclaim.gif

    that whore icon_confused.gif


    And he LIKES it...icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:14 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante saidHe hates you.

    He told me.


    O. M. G. -- he told YOU too??!?!?!?!?! I told him to keep that to himself!!!!!!

    HE is SUCH a fucking gossip!!!!

    WHAT a bitch....


    He was really tight lipped at first, but I managed to spread him open and get what I wanted.

    And he liked it.


    Oh - don't fall for THAT routine!!!!! He ALWAYS plays tight-lipped and tries to get you to force him to spread, but it's all an act!!!!

    I mean did you SEE how WIDE he spreads?!?!?!?!?!

    He obviously has had practice....


    ..icon_exclaim.gif

    that whore icon_confused.gif


    And he LIKES it...icon_wink.gif


    ..I liked it too icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:16 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante saidHe hates you.

    He told me.


    O. M. G. -- he told YOU too??!?!?!?!?! I told him to keep that to himself!!!!!!

    HE is SUCH a fucking gossip!!!!

    WHAT a bitch....


    He was really tight lipped at first, but I managed to spread him open and get what I wanted.

    And he liked it.


    Oh - don't fall for THAT routine!!!!! He ALWAYS plays tight-lipped and tries to get you to force him to spread, but it's all an act!!!!

    I mean did you SEE how WIDE he spreads?!?!?!?!?!

    He obviously has had practice....


    ..icon_exclaim.gif

    that whore icon_confused.gif


    And he LIKES it...icon_wink.gif


    ..I liked it too icon_redface.gif


    Yeah...he told me.

    Did he tell you about that guy he hates?
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:20 AM GMT
    Grow a pair and just go up to him and say hi.
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:21 AM GMT
    OR....he's not looking at you at all and its' just your self-absorbed attitude that thinks he is looking and staring at you. The only true way to find out is to be the first to strike up the conversation.
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:21 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante said
    Cash said
    Ariodante saidHe hates you.

    He told me.


    O. M. G. -- he told YOU too??!?!?!?!?! I told him to keep that to himself!!!!!!

    HE is SUCH a fucking gossip!!!!

    WHAT a bitch....


    He was really tight lipped at first, but I managed to spread him open and get what I wanted.

    And he liked it.


    Oh - don't fall for THAT routine!!!!! He ALWAYS plays tight-lipped and tries to get you to force him to spread, but it's all an act!!!!

    I mean did you SEE how WIDE he spreads?!?!?!?!?!

    He obviously has had practice....


    ..icon_exclaim.gif

    that whore icon_confused.gif


    And he LIKES it...icon_wink.gif


    ..I liked it too icon_redface.gif


    Yeah...he told me.

    Did he tell you about that guy he hates?


    He tried to mumble something out but his mouth was full at the time...>_>
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    Jan 20, 2012 8:49 AM GMT
    It's called "creepiness"
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    Jan 20, 2012 12:57 PM GMT
    It's just feigned disinterest. That's what people do when they're interested but mask it for fear of rejection.
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    Jan 20, 2012 1:09 PM GMT
    I don't even waste my time with such silliness. I expect a guy who is interested in me to actually show it by having the balls to approach me both on and offline. If not, then I don't even register them. There's no need to since they aren't acting like men and that's pretty much what I'm attracted too. Go big or go home I say.

    When I see something of interest I introduce myself to it and whatever happens happens. If you think this dude is interested in you but he's being a nelly about it then you have two options:

    1. - Ignore the dude since he's got a vagina. No one wants to deal with a bitch.

    or

    2.- You've noticed that he's taken an interest in you from afar but seems timid so bring it to his face and engage him. Once you take the edge off by opening the door up for him it's all on him after that. Does he step through or does he stay out in the cold. Hopefully he doesn't wait too long to decide. The door has a time limit.
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    Jan 20, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    dangler12 saidIs this a sign he is not into you? I am confused by this behavior. I seem to experience a lot. What does this mean? I would like to talk to him, but he seems unapproachable, so I don't bother. Why do guys do this? It goes on for months and months and months...is this his way of saying 'i don't like you'?



    listen grow some balls and just approach him, i get told that i seem unapproachable and when people talk to me they are like wow you are wayyyy nicer then what you look. you got to learn to take risk and if he don't like you back move on.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 20, 2012 4:09 PM GMT
    You need to continue playing hard to get. Masculine manly men just love guys who act like helpless, shy coquettes...how do you think so many straight women get their man? icon_wink.gif
  • shehri

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    Jan 20, 2012 4:36 PM GMT
    GreenHopper saidIt means he's f&cked up..

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