I NEED YOUR HELP!

  • Kobe_Whisky

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    Jan 21, 2012 11:10 PM GMT
    I have found a right guy that I love the most and wanna spend my life with. He felt the same way, and he loved me more. We've been together for 6 months, and we decided to get married.
    However, my boyfriend told me that he was ready clear with his ex who studying in Australia. Anyway, when my boyfriend told his ex about our plan for married. my boyfriend's ex started to play drama and tried to kill himself cuz he said he still love my boyfriend. They lived with each other for 4 years.
    That's guy is so drama and cry for begging my boyfriend to come back to him. he did something stupid like taking pills or giving up the class.
    My boyfriend's feel guilty about that, and my bf tried to explain with that guy but it didnt work. Right now, that guy told my bf that he got something with brain so he couldnt think too much and asking my bf to come back.
    I dont know what do while my bf love me so bad, and he gets upset everyday about that.
    me and my boyfriend say goodbye to each other while we love each other so much because he feel pity on his ex. That's so hurt for me!
    My boyfriend always say to me PLEASE DONT LEAVE ME! but he dont know how to deal with his ex.
    sigh....
  • Kairr

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    Jan 22, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    This sure is a pain in the ass situation... I think you should let him settle it out and tell him to be cautious.
  • BmwKid92

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    Jan 22, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
    ready for real advice, let that guy kill himself in australia, your bf shouldnt care cause of you, sure he feels guility but hes now making 2 people stressed out, X the problem, they broke up, that random needs to move on
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    Jan 22, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    Your boyfriend/fiance is a shit stirrer. Who tells their X they are getting married to someone else?

    All ties should have been cut way back when. For fuck's sake, you guys are 2 continents away from each other and it has that much power?

    Tell the X, if he doesn't want those Australian men, I'll take em. Send me a ticket tomorrow I'm ready!
  • mybud

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    Jan 22, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
    Man up..tell him...he needs to make a decision it's the ex or you....if he picks the ex...pack your shit and move out....
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    Jan 22, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    What.
    Shouldn't this be sorted out before you decide to marry someone?

    And not saying theres a set amount of time, but 6 months and you want to marry the guy? Wait
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    Jan 22, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    If I had a student loan for every ex that said they would kill themselves?
    Wait...I think I do.

    The distance thing is a real problem as I suggest you work together with your (what are you lesbians...6 months?) husband and get him help.
    Personally, I would hunt the ex down and kill him myself...
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    Jan 22, 2012 4:56 AM GMT
    Kobe_Khy saidWe've been together for 6 months, and we decided to get married.

    6 months is too soon. Look at what you are going thru. You dont know him. Cool your jets.
  • Kobe_Whisky

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    Jan 24, 2012 8:10 PM GMT
    Here is the last story of my love, I hope you guys knew about my complicated problem about me and my boyfriend because of my boyfriend's drama.
    Today, my bf'ex was sent to hospital cuz he took too much sleeping pills so it effect the brain. My bf was shock and so nervous about his ex.
    my bf decide to stay with him and said sorry to me but he is still in love with me so bad.
    We cried for 3 hours for our saddest ending with love. That's so horrible and cruel for us.
    My boyfriend's ex warm my boyfriend that if myboyfriend still wanna meet or stay with me. He will kill himself again, and me and my boyfriend will regret that.
    Oh my God, me and my boyfriend so sad and cry a lot.
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    Jan 24, 2012 8:26 PM GMT
    .....lol?
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    Jan 24, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    Gaydar said.....lol?


    what do you mean "lol"!!!!
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    Jan 24, 2012 8:51 PM GMT
    Ruskach said
    Gaydar said.....lol?


    what do you mean "lol"!!!!


    lol
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    Jan 24, 2012 8:51 PM GMT
    your ex-boyfriend's ex is so way over the edge
    i mean like get it together, he's just using pity to get his way and your bf is so dumb to fall in the trap
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    Jan 24, 2012 8:51 PM GMT
    archon said
    Ruskach said
    Gaydar said.....lol?


    what do you mean "lol"!!!!


    lol


    YOU TOO!icon_evil.gif
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    Jan 24, 2012 8:53 PM GMT
    1. Grammar *edit* ;o
    2. 6 months? slooow down.. icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 24, 2012 8:54 PM GMT
    azimmwax said1. Grammer.
    2. 6 months? slooow down.. icon_confused.gif


    Think you mean grammar. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 24, 2012 9:00 PM GMT
    Oh my God, epic grammer fail.
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    Jan 24, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
    Gaydar saidOh my God, epic grammer fail.


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    Jan 24, 2012 9:04 PM GMT
    azimmwax said
    Gaydar saidOh my God, epic grammer fail.


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    Scott Pilgrim gif gets you a pass.
  • Kobe_Whisky

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    Jan 24, 2012 9:21 PM GMT
    Ruskach saidyour ex-boyfriend's ex is so way over the edge
    i mean like get it together, he's just using pity to get his way and your bf is so dumb to fall in the trap



    yeah..it's a drama or trap. I really dont know what to do now. I feel so sorry for my boyfriend if he still live wit that guy. It's like living in hell. Why two guy love each other but cant live together. That's completely suck!
  • Kobe_Whisky

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    Jan 24, 2012 9:22 PM GMT
    archon said
    Ruskach said
    Gaydar said.....lol?


    what do you mean "lol"!!!!


    lol



    Is it funny? Thx you!