Married Jocks on the DL

  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 24, 2008 7:40 PM GMT
    Any one here aside from me? Anyone in NYC?
  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 24, 2008 7:54 PM GMT
    this post can be about guys who want to talk about what it is like to be married and on the DL
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:13 PM GMT
    bijockmuscle saidAny one here aside from me? Anyone in NYC?


    Your (unverified) profile lists:

    "Relationship Status: Open Relationship (play together only)"

    How is that on the DL? icon_lol.gif
  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 24, 2008 8:16 PM GMT
    joescorpio1970 said[quote][cite]bijockmuscle said[/cite]Any one here aside from me? Anyone in NYC?


    Your (unverified) profile lists:

    "Relationship Status: Open Relationship (play together only)"

    How is that on the DL? icon_lol.gif[/quote]

    b/c no one has to know about it...obviously aside from the guy i am with...
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:19 PM GMT
    joescorpio1970 said[quote][cite]bijockmuscle said[/cite]Any one here aside from me? Anyone in NYC?


    Your (unverified) profile lists:

    "Relationship Status: Open Relationship (play together only)"

    How is that on the DL? icon_lol.gif[/quote]

    what should I put as relationship status????icon_question.gif
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:20 PM GMT
    So are you saying that you are married to a woman or you have a guy partner whom you are playing with others with?
  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 24, 2008 8:21 PM GMT
    jjdayz saidSo are you saying that you are married to a woman or you have a guy partner whom you are playing with others with?


    i personally am married to a woman but this forum topic is open to anyone
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:21 PM GMT
    K, this aussie feels stupid (Probably because I am) but, what the hell does DL mean?
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:23 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidK, this aussie feels stupid (Probably because I am) but, what the hell does DL mean?


    DL stands for Down Low which is basically saying discreet and no one knows and wants to keep it that way
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:24 PM GMT
    Are you married to a woman and looking to fool around with guys on the side? OK I got my answer above

    And this has never made sense to me...
    Relationship Status: Open Relationship (play together only)

    I always thought a closed relationship meant you only had sex with your partner

    And an open relationship meant the two of you had sex independently with others

    It seems Open Relationship (play together only) is third type. Ok, I guess I just figured it out. It's a third type that we just dont have a term for. Maybe, "swinger relationship," but that sounds anachronistic, doesnt it. Who says "swinger" anymore?
  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 24, 2008 8:25 PM GMT
    dhinkansas saidI'm curious what it's like from your standpoint? I did this once awhile back, so I am not one to cast stones since I was the one the married guy was coming over to see. I have after the fact wondered how the married guy reconciles fun is fun in his head. And I don't mean to be confrontational...I'm just curious to see it from your point of view.


    not sure what you are asking me...I love woman but i secretly have a thing for muscular good-looking men...my standards for being with a woman are much lower than a guy...i am looking for something obviously that my wife can not give me (no fault of her own)
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:26 PM GMT
    Hmm, so really your not into gay sex, youre into muscles?
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:26 PM GMT
    bijockmuscle said[quote][cite]lilTanker said[/cite]K, this aussie feels stupid (Probably because I am) but, what the hell does DL mean?


    DL stands for Down Low which is basically saying discreet and no one knows and wants to keep it that way[/quote]

    Ah, how deceptive!
  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 24, 2008 8:27 PM GMT
    jjdayz saidHmm, so really your not into gay sex, youre into muscles?


    well i dunno but i like gay sex with muscular dudes
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:27 PM GMT
    bijockmuscle saidnot sure what you are asking me...I love woman but i secretly have a thing for muscular good-looking men...my standards for being with a woman are much lower than a guy...i am looking for something obviously that my wife can not give me (no fault of her own)


    So when you and your wife play together, is the third party usually a woman or a man or either?
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:28 PM GMT
    And is it really true that there are a lot of straight married men who like to play around with their straight married buddies? My partner's best friend used to be married and always says that he messed around with alot of his buddies who were married also..... i never believed him, sounds too much like something every gay man thinks/says about the 6 pack of beer being the difference between gay and st8
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:29 PM GMT
    I sense an interesting thread...

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    Jun 24, 2008 8:29 PM GMT
    Caslon4000 said[quote][cite]bijockmuscle said[/cite]not sure what you are asking me...I love woman but i secretly have a thing for muscular good-looking men...my standards for being with a woman are much lower than a guy...i am looking for something obviously that my wife can not give me (no fault of her own)


    So when you and your wife play together, is the third party usually a woman or a man or either?[/quote]

    yeah i changed my status b/c wasn't sure what to put but my wife and i don't bring anyone in (although I'd love to bring in another woman (or man but she don't know i have these feelings) and she doesn't like woman sexually)).
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:30 PM GMT
    bijockmuscle saidnot sure what you are asking me...I love woman but i secretly have a thing for muscular good-looking men...my standards for being with a woman are much lower than a guy...i am looking for something obviously that my wife can not give me (no fault of her own)


    Oh no, careful hunny, we aren't allowed bisexual men on this forum, you either straight or gay, you can't be both.

    Make a choice mate, I can already hear the stamped of gay men swishing there way in here, flexing there fingers, preparing to rip you apart for claiming you even like women and are not just simply gay!!!!

    Might I suggest.... "RUN"
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:30 PM GMT
    Are you sure she doesnt like women? I see st8 women making out all the time when they get drunk.
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:31 PM GMT
    jjdayz saidAnd is it really true that there are a lot of straight married men who like to play around with their straight married buddies? My partner's best friend used to be married and always says that he messed around with alot of his buddies who were married also..... i never believed him, sounds too much like something every gay man thinks/says about the 6 pack of beer being the difference between gay and st8


    ideally i would love to fool around iwth other married men whom i have no relationship with outside of the sex...i.e. never want to be with one of my true friends...but there is a lot of DL married guys which is why i made this post to find some...it is hard for us b/c we don't want to lose what we got
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:32 PM GMT
    lilTanker said[quote][cite]bijockmuscle said[/cite]not sure what you are asking me...I love woman but i secretly have a thing for muscular good-looking men...my standards for being with a woman are much lower than a guy...i am looking for something obviously that my wife can not give me (no fault of her own)


    Oh no, careful hunny, we aren't allowed bisexual men on this forum, you either straight or gay, you can't be both.

    Make a choice mate, I can already hear the stamped of gay men swishing there way in here, flexing there fingers, preparing to rip you apart for claiming you even like women and are not just simply gay!!!!

    Might I suggest.... "RUN"[/quote]

    well than are as narrow minded as homophobes
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:32 PM GMT


    HA!!! now that is the truth. I think its ok for people to be st8 or gay or bi, i just don't think its ok for you to be more then one at a time. I guess i have a serious morality problem that wouldnt allow me to marry someone and have sex with someone else..
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:33 PM GMT
    jjdayz said

    HA!!! now that is the truth. I think its ok for people to be st8 or gay or bi, i just don't think its ok for you to be more then one at a time. I guess i have a serious morality problem that wouldnt allow me to marry someone and have sex with someone else..


    and FYI, because i discoverd how sensitive some can be on this site, this comment was not directed at "you" specifically, the "you" was meant as people in general.
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    Jun 24, 2008 8:34 PM GMT
    jjdayz said[quote][cite]jjdayz said[/cite]

    HA!!! now that is the truth. I think its ok for people to be st8 or gay or bi, i just don't think its ok for you to be more then one at a time. I guess i have a serious morality problem that wouldnt allow me to marry someone and have sex with someone else..


    and FYI, because i discoverd how sensitive some can be on this site, this comment was not directed at "you" specifically, the "you" was meant as people in general.[/quote]
    never took it personally