No Close Guy Friends?

  • MrPapo317

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    Jan 22, 2012 11:16 PM GMT
    So what do you think about a guy that has no close guy friends. His close circle are all girls. he gets along with their husbands and boyfriends but only due to their relationship.

    Do any of you not have close guy friends gay or straight?
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    Jan 22, 2012 11:39 PM GMT
    It's all good.

    Some guys get along better with girls, some women get along better with men. Some lesbians only have gay friends.
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    Jan 22, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    Eh.
    I'd be concerned if a guy didn't have any close friends or if all his close friends were a bad influence on him.

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    Jan 23, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    I have three close guy friends.
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    Jan 23, 2012 1:22 AM GMT
    Fivealive saidI have three close guy friends.

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    Jan 23, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    I'm the opposite, I can't stand girls and have no girl friends.
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    Jan 23, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
    No. To be fair I don't have any friends that are guys or girls. Its all good though
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    Jan 23, 2012 2:24 AM GMT
    It is really hard for me to find guy friends. I mean I meet some nice straight guys but i wouldnt consider them 'friends', more like acquaintances. Most of the guys i meet that find out I am gay automatically think that i want to suck their dick or something of that nature.

    I only have two close guy friends (one of them being gay). Most of my friends are girls.
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    Jan 23, 2012 2:27 AM GMT
    I have no close friend whatsoever locally...could be cause I just moved here. icon_lol.gif

    However, back home I have no discrimination for friends. They range from gay, bi, straight, male, and female.
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    Jan 23, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    I have both male and female friends, but I think I have more male friends. However, when it comes to my dating or love life, it is usually easier for me to tell it to a girl friend.
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    Jan 23, 2012 4:57 AM GMT
    bhp91126 saidIt's all good.

    Some guys get along better with girls, some women get along better with men. Some lesbians only have gay friends.



    Lesbians & Gay Men are like oil & water. How the hell they even can be friends is beyond me. This is true about the butch lesbians for sure.
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    Jan 23, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    MolaMola saidEh.
    I'd be concerned if a guy didn't have any close friends or if all his close friends were a bad influence on him.



    +1.
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    Jan 23, 2012 5:34 AM GMT
    What if you have no close friends? icon_cry.gif

    And yes, I moved.
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    Jan 23, 2012 5:44 AM GMT
    Snype saidWhat if you have no close friends? icon_cry.gif

    And yes, I moved.
    Move enough and you'll get used to it.
    After all, in this age of instant communication, it's easy to stay in touch with previous friends. icon_biggrin.gif
  • BlueMoose

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    Jan 23, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
    I think it's important to have both guy and girl friends. Each give you different views on life.
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    Jan 23, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
    All of my close friends are computers.
  • aiko14

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    Jan 23, 2012 6:42 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Snype saidWhat if you have no close friends? icon_cry.gif

    And yes, I moved.
    Move enough and you'll get used to it.
    After all, in this age of instant communication, it's easy to stay in touch with previous friends. icon_biggrin.gif

    facebook.... amen
  • rdberg1957

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    Jan 23, 2012 6:57 AM GMT
    My closest friends are older men. I have a friend who is gay who is 73, a former priest, now married who is 68, and a friend I hang out with on Saturdays who is 61. I am 54. I don't have any close women friends, although I have had close women friends earlier in my life. I am not sure why people decide to become friends. I have another gay friend who is 44, but he moved away with his partner and our contact is limited to pokes on Facebook.icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 23, 2012 10:20 AM GMT
    To have friends you have to be one.

    but that is way to much work.
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    Jan 23, 2012 10:30 AM GMT
    My closest friends are girls and gay guys.... and I feel totally OK with that. I have never had straight guys as close friends and I doubt I can ever have any, because we usually come from totally different worlds.

    However, I must point out that for me "close friends" are simply people who I get along with, we can party together, I can share most of my thoughts, experiences and concerns etc. I don't rely on them for life or feel like I can't live without them... the whole concept of "your best friends are half of your world" is not correct for me.
    I am my whole world... best friends and boyfriends are just a nice addition to it.
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    Jan 23, 2012 2:30 PM GMT
    I have a healthy Mix of Guys and Girls... and even dare I say a Few lesbian friends. icon_eek.gificon_cool.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jan 23, 2012 2:39 PM GMT
    Ryan_Andrew said
    bhp91126 saidIt's all good.

    Some guys get along better with girls, some women get along better with men. Some lesbians only have gay friends.



    Lesbians & Gay Men are like oil & water. How the hell they even can be friends is beyond me. This is true about the butch lesbians for sure.


    Meh, we have good friends that are a lesbian couple. What we don't have is another gay male couple that we're very close to. I go clubbing with one M/M couple but my BF doesn't like them (or clubbing). The majority of our male friends are straight, plus a handful of single gay guys.
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    Jan 23, 2012 2:42 PM GMT
    A few female aquaintances but my close friends are all straight males.
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    Jan 23, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    My two best friends are male: one gay one straight. I think a guy needs close male friends... especially gay guys. The gay community can be so toxic and treacherous that I think it's almost vital to have male companionship that doesn't have that "gay culture" or sexual dimension.