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ErikTaurean saidThat depends on what you mean by Pretty Much. Racist? Probably not, predjudice, probably.

On a side note, as important as this topic is, I can not believe I contributed to what I have discovered is a nearly year old thread that ended in June of last year and was just resurrected a few days ago. Hence forth:

Whereas Real Jock is a gay health & life site and

Whereas said members of the site often use the muscle located on their shoulders above the neck,

It is therefore decreed that no thread shall be resurrected that is over a year old. It is required that a new thread with same topic be started. Such threads are too long and no one as that kind of time to read that many posts.

LOL If they start a new thread, someone else will just bitch that a thread just like that was already done, and then provide the link! LOL

bostudent87 saidi'm pretty much only attracted to white guys, does that mean i'm a racist?

I guess that would depend on why you're only into white guys.

I think asian guys are sooo sexy. They have sexy bodies and beautiful bone structure, lips and eyes. some of them are very sensitive and a lot more caring than most white guys. The accent is cute too. you are all missing out

I didnt realiize how old this thread was haha. So ill have the final say which is asians are sexy as hell

Feels like i shud have a chip on my shoulder after reading all this. But i'll take the higher road & pretend that everyone's good & kind @ heart & tries 2 treat everyone the same. It's a shame that everyone can't see a human being first b4 race, age, weight, sex & all the baggage that certain people marginalize others over, but i guess that's life.....I'm not one 2 judge. I have my preferences too (see my profile).....Just know every human born on this earth has the right 2 love themselves & be loved. And 2 enjoy all the pleasures that life has 2 give as much as the next human.....I choose 2 see thru rose-colored glasses than not.....

There is????

RoccoGiovanni saidHalf Asian... and i like em white as my rice!

There has however been ONE exception to that rule... and that is z-squared or z-drew or whatever he is going by these days...

But he's a hybrid too... ::shrugs::

Haha. And hybrids are totally hot.

spgem saidFeels like i shud have a chip on my shoulder after reading all this. But i'll take the higher road & pretend that everyone's good & kind @ heart & tries 2 treat everyone the same. It's a shame that everyone can't see a human being first b4 race, age, weight, sex & all the baggage that certain people marginalize others over, but i guess that's life.....I'm not one 2 judge. I have my preferences too (see my profile).....Just know every human born on this earth has the right 2 love themselves & be loved. And 2 enjoy all the pleasures that life has 2 give as much as the next human.....I choose 2 see thru rose-colored glasses than not.....

Kudos to you!

Just add AGE to that list of things guys use to marginalize others and I agree.

I assume everyone is a good person, kind and fair until they prove otherwise.
As is clear in my profile, I prefer Asian men but still treat everyone with respect and kindness.

Vlas saidProbably not the best one to respond since I do like Asian men, but usually only Asian Americans. I have a reeeeally strong aversion to Asian accents... some people might find it cute but to me it just makes me feel like I'm talking to my dad/uncle. Instant limp.

:-) You've been assimilated into the mainstream....

i think asian guys can be hot

i don't see myself as having a asian aversion but it isn't very often that i'll meet one towards whom i'll be sexually attracted. i've dated a vietnamese before so its not like i'm "gross, asians"

i did have a convo with a friend once that admits to not liking asians one bit. he says he wouldn't mind being friends with one but he would never date or have sex with one. he's reasoning was unfortunately solely based on the fact that asians have smaller penises and my friend is kind of a size queen. he also said something about the shape of their face and something. personally, i found his argument rather offensive.

i have to say though, i think (physically) asians have two things going for them. they tend to have awesome skin and very nice tight bubbly asses

musicdude saidi don't see myself as having a asian aversion but it isn't very often that i'll meet one towards whom i'll be sexually attracted. i've dated a vietnamese before so its not like i'm "gross, asians"

i did have a convo with a friend once that admits to not liking asians one bit. he says he wouldn't mind being friends with one but he would never date or have sex with one. he's reasoning was unfortunately solely based on the fact that asians have smaller penises and my friend is kind of a size queen. he also said something about the shape of their face and something. personally, i found his argument rather offensive.

i have to say though, i think (physically) asians have two things going for them. they tend to have awesome skin and very nice tight bubbly asses

wish my ass was bubbly but I do agree on the skin ;)

The answer is simple: Those who are into Asian are too busy surfing and hooking up on an gay site in an Asian language.

Remember, English is not the only language is this world. Most Asians and Asian-seekers are multilingual!

BabiGayPimp saidMercy me! What is with this mass aversion that so many gay men of every race seem to have towards the erotic and aesthetic offerings of Asian/Pacific islander men? I've dated many asians of various persuasions and have rarely been disappointed. There's so much variety. I am just not understanding this? What is it? I'm particularly interested in hearing from asians not attracted to asians. And don't give me a load of sociological/anthropological hooey. Lay it out to me (nuts, bolts and butts), and don't skimp on the details!

Offerings.

What is this? Some sort of crazy ritual where the Asians are served up to us like sushi?

Most of the time I enjoy thinking about eating pie- but sometimes I like to think about eating cake.

I don't mind waffles either.

Some of the reason that Asian guys get passed over is because they can be pretty racist themselves which at least explains why they sometimes don't get approached by other minorities. A lot of asian guys are so interested in locking down a white guy that theirs is the only opinion they care about.

EMSman saidIt comes down to sexual preference. If a guy does not turn a man on then he does not turn a man on.

If it happens that so far, all the Asian men he has met have not turned him on, then so be it.

...but I think it is far better to remain silent than to say 'No Asians, no....insert any other race)

It IS offensive to Asian men or men from any other race to be singled out...as soon as I read 'No (insert race)' - my immediate reaction is 'what a dickhead' and wipe the guy.

Racism of any form is insidious and damaging.

I personally have always been attracted to them physically as well as always been intrigued by their culture. It's definitely not because Im racist toward other ethnicities or anything but Im just simply attracted to them more so than any other=)

Ugh not this thread (and the thousands like it) again...

I think the biggest problem with gaysians is that most perpetuate the stereotype of being ultra femme and queeny (or being ultra femme and fobby).

I'm typically only into fit/athletic types, and all the Asian guys that fit that profile have been straight, and if they were gay, they'd typically only be into white guys.

Woe is me

redheadguy saidI think this Asian aversion is very obvious when you look at what some gay men write in their profiles on such sites as Gaydar and Manhunt.

Usually, this deep-seated racism is expressed like this:

"Not into Asians".

or

"Sorry, no Asians, just a preference"

So, effectively these people are writing off a whole race (although I'm not sure South East Asians are the same as those from Kenya but anyway).

It is reminiscent of those signs that used to be put on the doors of London boarding houses by landladies who knew no better in the 50s and 60s: "No blacks, no Irish, no dogs".

Why can't guys say something like "generally I'm attracted to caucasian men" rather than write off whole races. But I guess that would involve too much thought.

LAST 3 PARAGRAPHS: 1. KENYA? I THOUGHT THAT WAS IN AFRICA! LOL .2 WHAT? THEY DIDN'T EXCLUDE THE JEWS AND ITALIANS?! 3. YOU CAN'T CHANGE A LEOPARD'S STRIPES OR SOME PEOPLE'S SENSITIVITIES [OR LACK THEREOF]. SOME PEOPLE DON'Y HAVE ENOUGH SENSE TO COME IN OUT OF THE RAIN -- OR PROTECT THEIR OWN WND THEIR CHILDREN'S SAFETY WHILE CROSSING THE STREET...... AND ANYWAY I USUALLY DON'T DO "WHY" QUESTIONS!.

atl2atx85 saidUgh not this thread (and the thousands like it) again...

I think the biggest problem with gaysians is that most perpetuate the stereotype of being ultra femme and queeny (or being ultra femme and fobby).

I'm typically only into fit/athletic types, and all the Asian guys that fit that profile have been straight, and if they were gay, they'd typically only be into white guys.

Woe is me

Agreed. There seems to be a large asian population that is attracted white as well as other ethnicities and not their own. However, not all asians are fems and there is a quite a handful of masc asian men out there. Perhaps having dated a few asian men in the past, some were fem and some were masc, really bi curious, not out, on the DL...too much hassle unfortunately. I honestly think asian men are hot, the ones that are athletic and fit.

charmr saidLAST 3 PARAGRAPHS: 1. KENYA? I THOUGHT THAT WAS IN AFRICA! LOL .2 WHAT? THEY DIDN'T EXCLUDE THE JEWS AND ITALIANS?! 3. YOU CAN'T CHANGE A LEOPARD'S STRIPES OR SOME PEOPLE'S SENSITIVITIES [OR LACK THEREOF]. SOME PEOPLE DON'Y HAVE ENOUGH SENSE TO COME IN OUT OF THE RAIN -- OR PROTECT THEIR OWN WND THEIR CHILDREN'S SAFETY WHILE CROSSING THE STREET...... AND ANYWAY I USUALLY DON'T DO "WHY" QUESTIONS!.

fizzle saidi think asian guys can be hot

So interesting how a thread can go dormant for a year and then all of a sudden, it's BACK!

I'm glad my partner doesn't have Asian Aversion!

I really have no idea why a lot of Asians like other races...I am Asian btw lol

I am attracted to mostly Asians, but mostly anyone who is easy on the eyes *sigh*

Anyway, yeah...and NO not all of us have small penises because I have met plenty of men who are not Asian who have small dicks and Asians who have larger ones ;p