1Hey9Over9There1 saidSo my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now. We haven't really had any fights and such because he's very mature and a very nice person in general. The thing is, we are both tops. So basically, we just don't have the actual sex. Has anyone been in the same situation? If so, what happens in the long run? Also, if you haven't been in this situation, what do you think will happen?
Just curious for your opinion
Hmmmm, you used some interesting terms to describe your BF. I see you're in Germany. Is your BF Caucasian? How old is he? What does your BF being a 'tough hunk' have to do with whether he tries bottoming? You want us to give advise, but you don't discribe your feelings about it, or your personality;instead, you talk about your BF. Why is that?
He's half Italian half German, looks like a latino. He's 29. I guess, he just doesn't seem like he would ever bottom. I mean, I think eventually I will let him try it and maybe I will start to like it. I don't think I need to describe my personality for you guys to give me this kind of advice. I talk about my bf because I love him and I love talking about him.
that's a very passive-agressive attitude you have, and yes it does matter what your personality and/or feeelings about it with regards to giving helpful advise.
Your response above seems that you've already resgined the fact that your BF won't enjoy bottoming and YOU will have to eventually be the bottom and just get used it it. You never siad you've talk to your BF about trying bottoming, so why the assumptions?
I also asked about your BF's age and ethnicity, because YOU are Asian, I don't want you to 'believe' any of the stereotypes regarding what GAMs should or shouldn't be.
The best advise I could give is you should have a calm, heart to heart talk about it with your BF. Don't make it a grim or angry discussion, but try to get his feelings about your sexual compatibility and whether he feels your sexual relationship is satisfying for him. You should also be prepared to share your feeling s on the subject with him.