why can't be friends

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    Jan 24, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    Why majority of the gay guys here or on any site can't be friends with another guy? The first judgement and evaluation they do is always based on sex appeal and physical attraction.
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    Jan 24, 2012 10:39 PM GMT
    We can be friends. We would just like to look at a prettier picture while talking to our friends.

    We's all a bit shallow.
  • Delivis

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    Jan 24, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    Youre on a dating site.

    If you want friends go somewhere that has nothing to do with dating and find people of like mind and of like interest.

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    Jan 24, 2012 10:47 PM GMT
    So what does the "friends" option mean in the "what are you looking for" section?


    Delivis saidYoure on a dating site.

    If you want friends go somewhere that has nothing to do with dating and find people of like mind and of like interest.

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    Jan 24, 2012 10:52 PM GMT
    Friends send their friends money through PayPal. Be my friend <3
  • Generaleclect...

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    Jan 25, 2012 12:07 AM GMT
    I don't think the majority of guys do this, but there are some who aren't totally honest with what they want - and are looking for friends who might become more. And of course that means they have to look good.

    But maybe there are people who are THAT shallow when it comes to platonic friends.
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    Jan 25, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
    Oh, and friends don't let friends have ugly friends. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 25, 2012 12:18 AM GMT
    Why sentence you can't verb position correctly in?
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    Jan 25, 2012 12:55 AM GMT
    is good the question you ask.


    MsclDrew saidWhy sentence you can't verb position correctly in?
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    Jan 25, 2012 1:38 AM GMT
    Maybe because the messages you send to people nearly half your age are like this:

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    Jan 25, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    MsclDrew saidWhy sentence you can't verb position correctly in?


    Actually laughed out loud to this icon_lol.gif Thanks MsclDrew!!
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    Jan 25, 2012 1:43 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidMaybe because the messages you send to people nearly half your age are like this:

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    Please don't make reference to age as if sleeping with someone half your age is unacceptable and lame. Besides, sleeping with someone and being friends with someone are different things.
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    Jan 25, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    ricky1987 saidPlease don't make reference to age as if sleeping with someone half your age is unacceptable and lame. Besides, sleeping with someone and being friends with someone are different things.


    ...are you really attracted to not-fit people twice your age?

    ...didn't think so. NEXT.

    Oh, and his message ain't one of friendship, dear.
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    Jan 25, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    Firebrand said
    ricky1987 saidPlease don't make reference to age as if sleeping with someone half your age is unacceptable and lame. Besides, sleeping with someone and being friends with someone are different things.


    ...are you really attracted to not-fit people twice your age?

    ...didn't think so. NEXT.

    Oh, and his message ain't one of friendship, dear.


    I have been attracted to people twice my age and actually dating a guy who happens to be 18 years older than me, though he is in good shape but my point is that and theOP didn't ask you for frendship anyway, sleeping with someone is different than being friends with someone. I am sure everyone has friends they don't sleep with.


    AND

    I think public display of someone's private message is not really the kindest thing.
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    Jan 25, 2012 1:57 AM GMT
    ricky1987 said
    I have been attracted to people twice my age and actually dating a guy who happens to be 18 years older than me, though he is in good shape but my point is that and theOP didn't ask you for frendship anyway, sleeping with someone is different than being friends with someone. I am sure everyone has friends they don't sleep with.

    AND

    I think public display of someone's private message is not really the kindest thing.


    The OP claims no one wants to be his friend, but he isn't trying to be friends. He's blatantly hitting on people who are way out of his league.

    Also, boo fucking hoo about posting private messages? If someone's creepy, they're gonna get shit for it.
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    Jan 25, 2012 2:00 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidAlso, boo fucking hoo about posting private messages? If someone's creepy, they're gonna get shit for it.
    feel free to post them all over the facebook group hehehehehehehrherheheehrhehrhehhorf
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    Jan 25, 2012 2:07 AM GMT
    Firebrand said
    ricky1987 said
    I have been attracted to people twice my age and actually dating a guy who happens to be 18 years older than me, though he is in good shape but my point is that and theOP didn't ask you for frendship anyway, sleeping with someone is different than being friends with someone. I am sure everyone has friends they don't sleep with.

    AND

    I think public display of someone's private message is not really the kindest thing.


    The OP claims no one wants to be his friend, but he isn't trying to be friends. He's blatantly hitting on people who are way out of his league.

    Also, boo fucking hoo about posting private messages? If someone's creepy, they're gonna get shit for it.


    You are nobody to judge who is in who's league. You don't like someone, move on but giving anyone a hard for it is just bullying, my guess is that it won't make sense to you.

    Anyway, that is not the topic.
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    Jan 25, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    ricky1987 said
    You are nobody to judge who is in who's league. You don't like someone, move on but giving anyone a hard for it is just bullying, my guess is that it won't make sense to you.

    Anyway, that is not the topic.


    Actually, I am able to judge... everyone can judge whether or not someone is in someone else's league. And this crude, classless hitting-on behavior of his has no place, regardless of his appearance. Like, I'm not gonna go for an out-of-shape old guy, for one, and for two, being that forward is just fucking desperate. I don't have to dignify or tacitly condone his behavior by not speaking out against it. Enjoy your dinosaur rape lmfao
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    Jan 25, 2012 2:16 AM GMT
    Firebrand said
    ricky1987 said
    You are nobody to judge who is in who's league. You don't like someone, move on but giving anyone a hard for it is just bullying, my guess is that it won't make sense to you.

    Anyway, that is not the topic.


    Actually, I am able to judge... everyone can judge whether or not someone is in someone else's league. And this crude, classless hitting-on behavior of his has no place, regardless of his appearance. Like, I'm not gonna go for an out-of-shape old guy, for one, and for two, being that forward is just fucking desperate. I don't have to dignify or tacitly condone his behavior by not speaking out against it. Enjoy your dinosaur rape lmfao


    Exactly! Your behaviour is the classiest. Totally!


    A polite end of discussion.
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    Jan 25, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    ricky1987 said
    Exactly! Your behaviour is the classiest. Totally!

    A polite end of discussion.


    Much better than your lack of standards... lmao. As I said before, enjoy your dinosaur rape. That's probably all you're able to get.
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    Jan 25, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    ricky1987 said
    I will do that with my loving and caring boyfriend while you bitch and moan about rules and standards.


    My loving and caring boyfriend is 100 times hotter than yours, without question. Having standards can yield excellent results... you should try it sometime.
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    Jan 25, 2012 2:24 AM GMT
    Firebrand said
    ricky1987 said
    Exactly! Your behaviour is the classiest. Totally!

    A polite end of discussion.


    Much better than your lack of standards... lmao. As I said before, enjoy your dinosaur rape. That's probably all you're able to get.


    and I must add a consensual and enjoyable one while you bitch and moan about who should be in what league.

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    Jan 25, 2012 2:27 AM GMT
    ricky1987 said
    Firebrand saidMaybe because the messages you send to people nearly half your age are like this:

    graphicblol.jpg



    Please don't make reference to age as if sleeping with someone half your age is unacceptable and lame. Besides, sleeping with someone and being friends with someone are different things.

    I dont think Firebrand's point was age or sleeping. It was the hypocrisy of bemoaning not being able to be friends, when the OP obviously sent a decidely sexually explicit email to another guy

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    Jan 25, 2012 2:30 AM GMT
    Caslon18453 said
    I dont think Firebrand's point was age or sleeping. It was the hypocrisy of bemoaning not being able to be friends, when the OP obviously sent a decidely sexually explicit email to another guy
    kitty


    YAY KITTY
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    Jan 25, 2012 2:31 AM GMT
    What is this? I made a great many friends on RJ.. I'm not even looking for dates on here.. those come on their own