Does trouble follow you?

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    Jan 25, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    I feel like everywhere I go, I get into some kind of trouble. Either I speak my mind or just not say anything at all, I get in trouble. I can't find a middle ground at all.

    This is just one of the many examples. Over the summer I met someone, went out for drinks and talked a bit about our lives. After a few drinks, well you know where it led to. That day I get a phone call from my ex asking me what I was doing. I told him none of your business so he asked questions about what my date, works in, how old, where from, etc. Well he put 2 n 2 together and figured it out. I was confused because I clearly asked the guy if he knew my ex and he said NO. After the phone call, i called the guy and asked again and he finally came out with the truth.

    He says that he has been dating my ex for a while and that my ex would talk so highly about me, he just wanted to know who i was, how i was, etc. Well it hurt my feelings that someone would do that.

    Three weeks ago, I saw the guy at the bar and I was just upset and I went up to him in front of his friends and my friends asking him how the porn business was. Boy he was not happy. A couple days later, I get a message from my ex saying to stop fighting with people. Apparently the guy told my ex what I did.

    So this past weekend, again I was at the bar and saw the lil guy. I had to speak up and tell him to fight his own battle instead of running and crying to other people. It didnt go so well, he pushed me, I pushed back, i turn around, he smashed a beer bottle on my head, he jumped on me and I had him in a choke hold so he would not hit me anymore.

    Besides a scratch, a bruise on my lip and a bump on the back of my head, my body ached all over because we just fell to the ground. I didnt hit back because i know my strength and it would considerably do major damage and I dont want a record. I was gonna file a police report and hand everything to the family attorney. After I spoke to my attorney, I decided not to tarnish this guys record and let it go. I would let karma handle it.

    I know I am half at fault because I spoke my mind but I didnt expect a beer bottle to hit me. I am just so frustrated with this whole situation. I want my life to change.
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    Jan 25, 2012 4:17 AM GMT
    I don't think you're wrong. That dude deserved it. He obviously had an agenda. And he wanted to create drama. And your ex is a cunt for defending him.
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    Jan 25, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    Good for you for having self control.

    Now I have a question...

    Why do you still communicate with your ex? (considering it doesn't seem like a good thing)