Call... not to call?

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    Jan 25, 2012 3:47 PM GMT
    So I went on a date the other night with a great guy. Had a a lot of fun just talking for like 2 hours. But when we left each other, we never said anything about getting in contact again. We both have each other's numbers but I'm wondering since I set up the first one should I wait on him to set up the next if he even does contact me? I really like the guy but I don't want to be that over bearing person

  • Jan 26, 2012 7:47 AM GMT
    usually do the rule of 2 with this one..

    If you dont hear from him in 2 days, do a temperature check and text him. No response after a full day? Give him a call. If he doesnt answer, u gotta let him go
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    Jan 26, 2012 7:49 AM GMT
    phoenixsuns0550 saidusually do the rule of 2 with this one..

    If you dont hear from him in 2 days, do a temperature check and text him. No response after a full day? Give him a call. If he doesnt answer, u gotta let him go


    Yeah, that's a pretty good rule-of-thumb for this scenario.
  • Suetonius

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    Jan 26, 2012 8:11 AM GMT
    Watch the movie Weekend (not the one by Goddard). These guys talked for hours and hours, and then . . .
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    Jan 26, 2012 8:27 AM GMT
    Interesting theory... i do indeed call every other day or so... its wierd if they stop responding... usually when I date, if Im not interested I will simply let them know instead of not respond
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    Jan 26, 2012 9:47 AM GMT
    Well, it sounds like you both left that first date either a bit lukewarm about each other or the date, or you're both pretty passive guys. It sounds like 2 days/nights have already passed since that date and it just doesn't sound like something was so special between the two of you that prompted either of you to contact the other. Maybe it's just me, but if I'm really into someone, I call or message them either the same day/night or the very next just to thank them for a great date and that I look forward to the next. And I do expect the same if they felt that way about me.

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    Jan 26, 2012 10:52 AM GMT
    Suetonius saidWatch the movie Weekend (not the one by Goddard). These guys talked for hours and hours, and then . . .



    Good movie.
  • kemoze

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    Jan 27, 2012 7:53 AM GMT
    AEDUDE25 saidSo I went on a date the other night with a great guy. Had a a lot of fun just talking for like 2 hours. But when we left each other, we never said anything about getting in contact again. We both have each other's numbers but I'm wondering since I set up the first one should I wait on him to set up the next if he even does contact me? I really like the guy but I don't want to be that over bearing person



    dude.. he might be asking the same question now , and he might be waiting for u to call him !!!! damn, just call or even better if u text, that guy sounds good as u said, why dont u just text him. and see if he is interested to meet again.. pls for the sake of you. dont miss this chance.