Anyone into bondage?

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    Jan 25, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    Who's brave enough to admit it on a forum post? Post a pic if you dare!
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    Jan 25, 2012 7:22 PM GMT
    The mere thought that I would be restrained from fighting back or defending myself if the serious need arose, is a turn off.

  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 25, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
    What exactly is...bondage ? icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 25, 2012 9:05 PM GMT
    I like to tie guys up and do naughty things to them.

    The bondage bottom when he is in his headspace is a sight to behold.
  • Trepeat

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    Jan 25, 2012 9:29 PM GMT
    Had an ex who had this set of authentic, fifteenth century, hardcore, iron restraints. Did a couple of fun photo shoots and had some hot play, but they were insanely uncomfortable. I feel bad for the people who were actually once restrained as unwilling sex slaves in those things. icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 25, 2012 9:40 PM GMT
    Oh yes!

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  • Nipmuck

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    Jan 25, 2012 9:47 PM GMT
    Bondage can be an exciting & fulfilling experience if done in a safe, sensible manner.

    Good luck getting any of the guys on this site to admit to bondage. The younger ones, with no experience, may fantasize about it, but they'd be way too scared to participate in it.

    The older guys, who might have some experience, and who may also fantasize about it, are too embarrassed to admit it.

    Bondage is a mainstay of television action shows. Look at the old 1960's westerns. And how many times have Jensen Ackles & Jared Padalecki gotten tied up & gagged in 'Supernatural' ?

    'The 24th Day' is an interesting, gay-oriented film which has a complicated plot, and the bondage is frosting on the cake.

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    Jan 25, 2012 11:15 PM GMT
    Well,,, have to admit, with the right, and trusted partner it can be pretty damn amazing sex.
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    Jan 25, 2012 11:15 PM GMT


    I think it can be plenty hot in theory. If I were one to fuck, I would be afraid of letting a man tie me up though, because I'd be afraid he would cross lines (too much pain, take pics to share, or rob me). It would have to be someone who I think is extremely unlikely to do anything horrible like that.
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    Jan 26, 2012 1:16 AM GMT
    Trust is essential in a bondage scene (or BDSM in general).

    As a Dom I typically sit down with any new submissive I meet to make sure we understand the kinks we will play with, his limits, and develop a loose script for the scene and a safeword, and put it in writing depending upon how the first meeting goes (if we "click" or not).

    Later sessions build upon past sessions as the trust grows, and may even develop into a formal relationship where the submissive is "collared" as a boy to his Sir or in a 24/7 Master and slave living together situation.

    Though for me, I have a couple of regular (among others) who just like being tied up and lashed with a belt, or lightly flogged, or blindfolded while I do things to them .... nothing terribly formal beyond them calling me "Sir" and my referring to them as boys or occassionally something a little more salty.
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    Jan 26, 2012 2:01 AM GMT
    Trepeat saidHad an ex who had this set of authentic, fifteenth century, hardcore, iron restraints. Did a couple of fun photo shoots and had some hot play, but they were insanely uncomfortable. I feel bad for the people who were actually once restrained as unwilling sex slaves in those things. icon_confused.gif


    Yeah people who are used for sex against their will are generally said to have been raped. You, I, and most others besides tend to agree that real rape is a bad thing.
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    Jan 28, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    AlphaTrigger saidTrust is essential in a bondage scene (or BDSM in general).

    As a Dom I typically sit down with any new submissive I meet to make sure we understand the kinks we will play with, his limits, and develop a loose script for the scene and a safeword, and put it in writing depending upon how the first meeting goes (if we "click" or not).

    Later sessions build upon past sessions as the trust grows, and may even develop into a formal relationship where the submissive is "collared" as a boy to his Sir or in a 24/7 Master and slave living together situation.

    Though for me, I have a couple of regular (among others) who just like being tied up and lashed with a belt, or lightly flogged, or blindfolded while I do things to them .... nothing terribly formal beyond them calling me "Sir" and my referring to them as boys or occassionally something a little more salty.


    Marry me... please, Sir.

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