Sleeping with someone vs. "Sleeping with someone"

  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Jan 26, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    I know I'm probably in the minority here, but while I love sex with a hot man, I really prefer to sleep alone.

    My bf, otoh, loves to cuddle, which I enjoy, but my best sleep is had when I'm in my king sized bed alone (wearing either a pair of small briefs or nothing if you're curious icon_smile.gif).

    Anybody else?
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    Jan 26, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    Bodies are so warm, and men are so hot, having a hot male near me while I sleep is almost as hot as the sex had before hand. Being able to reach over in the middle of the night and grab your man's chest or arms, or hair, or ass, or what have you is tops.
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    Jan 26, 2012 3:46 AM GMT
    Nope cuddle up with me all night, either me in your arms or you in my arms. Hate sleeping alone, sure every now and then it is nice but over all prefer a man in bed with me, sadly that is hardly ever the case icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 26, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    same!
    eww i feel oppressed when a guy is in my bed
    i feel like kicking him out
    we had fun with each other, you got what you wanted and i got what i wanted, now please go
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    Jan 26, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    I need my cuddling before I pass out to sleep. Once you get used to it, it's super nice sleeping with a guy in your arms.
  • nomadfornow

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    Jan 26, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
    I have very rarely had it. But on those rare occasions, the feeling of that arm reaching around and pulling me in close... well, there's really been nothing else quite like it.
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    Jan 26, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    There isn't anything better than sleeping with my boyfriend. There is something about being able to reach out and touch him during the night, and when he wakes up and just kisses me on the cheek - well like Nomadfornow said - there's just nothing else quite like it.
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    Jan 26, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    I love to cuddle, but need my space to sleep. We can sleep in the same bed if it's big enough.

    Just don't snore icon_evil.gif

    Or hog the covers icon_evil.gif

    Or move around icon_evil.gif
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    Jan 26, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
    I like warmth and contact.
  • danielek

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    Jan 26, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    Haven't 'slept' with a lot of men....but I find it hard to sleep with someone else. Maybe it's just from having slept alone for most of my life.
  • calibro

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    Jan 26, 2012 5:08 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidI love to cuddle, but need my space to sleep. We can sleep in the same bed if it's big enough.

    Just don't snore icon_evil.gif

    Or hog the covers icon_evil.gif

    Or move around icon_evil.gif


    iz sowwy
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    Jan 26, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    calibro said
    Ariodante saidI love to cuddle, but need my space to sleep. We can sleep in the same bed if it's big enough.

    Just don't snore icon_evil.gif

    Or hog the covers icon_evil.gif

    Or move around icon_evil.gif


    iz sowwy


    iz ok. I cut chu and you iz learned.
  • Salokin

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    Jan 26, 2012 5:14 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    calibro said
    Ariodante saidI love to cuddle, but need my space to sleep. We can sleep in the same bed if it's big enough.

    Just don't snore icon_evil.gif

    Or hog the covers icon_evil.gif

    Or move around icon_evil.gif


    iz sowwy


    iz ok. I cut chu and you iz learned.


    This was freaking adorable icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 26, 2012 5:19 AM GMT
    It's all about touch, comfort and sharing the moment. Romantic, sensual and sexual... I miss it.
  • LJay

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    Jan 26, 2012 5:34 AM GMT
    Since it doesn't happen to me, it's hard to complain. Oh, well...

    Though according to the science guys, we all sleep better separately.
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    Jan 26, 2012 5:48 AM GMT
    i agree, ive never had a bf that has slept over everyday but im not used to it
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    Jan 26, 2012 6:15 AM GMT
    I had an ex who used to kick in his sleep. I was glad to have a California King Bed at the time.

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    Jan 26, 2012 6:19 AM GMT
    SOMETIMES I prefer to sleep alone after sex (AKA IF HE SNORES)

    gawd
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    Jan 26, 2012 6:21 AM GMT
    danielek saidHaven't 'slept' with a lot of men....but I find it hard to sleep with someone else. Maybe it's just from having slept alone for most of my life.


    Starting from the same point of not being with a lot ... I still prefer the rare opportunity to have another warm body in the bed. I don't care if he hogs the blanket, moves, snores.
  • Suetonius

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    Jan 26, 2012 8:03 AM GMT
    And when the dog (large) tries to get between you on the bed . . .
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    Jan 26, 2012 8:11 AM GMT
    It takes me a couple weeks to get used to sharing a bed to sleep with a new guy.
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    Jan 27, 2012 12:51 PM GMT
    SwimBIkeRun949 saidI know I'm probably in the minority here, but while I love sex with a hot man, I really prefer to sleep alone.

    My bf, otoh, loves to cuddle, which I enjoy, but my best sleep is had when I'm in my king sized bed alone (wearing either a pair of small briefs or nothing if you're curious icon_smile.gif).

    Anybody else?


    I'm glad I'm not the only who prefers sleeping alone on most days. I have a bf now and we sleep in the same bed for half nights of the week, and the other half of the week we sleep alone.

    I really think for me it has depended on what I'm used to. When I was in my very long term relationship prior to this one, I always wanted him to cuddle with me all night and all day. After that relationship, I spent a lot of time alone, and now I just prefer to fall asleep alone.