Im sorry all Real Jockers, i have to do this.... Petey

  • Dbrad3693

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    Jan 27, 2012 1:06 AM GMT
    So interesting sorry for all of you that are about to read this.... (im sorry, many of you know me for my stance on drama, but i have to get my message across to someone and this is the only way to do it)

    Story: So back a few months ago or so I met this wonderful guy on RJ. (Not uncommon, there are many wonderful guys on this site icon_smile.gif ) Anyway, for the sake of arguement and to protect the guilty i wont use his RJ name or real name, So Ill just refer to him as Petey. Anyway. so i met Petey, he was a great guy, really nice, friendly, and hot as hell.
    We talked a lot on RJ, he hot listed me and I to him, buddy listed and IM each other. It was nice nothing serious because he lives in a state that nieghbors Ohio. So as we talk and I get to know him better we exchange cell phone numbers. While continuing to talk and flirt. (Again nothing serious, he is a cool guy, but close to a decade older than me and once again a state away. So logiclly it couldnt work)
    Anyway, as I get to know Petey more, I decide to tell more about me. My likes and dislikes and a few other personal things. As he did back. (Once again, i thought he was genine.) He texted me all the time, more than i did to him believe it or not. In most cases I was the one that he to end the convo.
    Well one day, I decided to text him. No response. (Think nothing of it) Then I get a short response from him saying he was at his parents house. and that was it nothing. No responses back. Texted him every other week. Until one day, i saw Petey on RJ. I mailed him, nothing. I dont care at this point, whatever....
    The part that makes me this firey is today, I heard from Petey, he Hot listed me and sent me a photo comment on my shirtless pic.... I get excited and a bit confused... So i message him.... "Hey Petey, remember me lol". The Bastard blocks me. (As for the photo comment dont look because when he blocked me you guys cant see it) only me..... WTF. This guy talked to me more than I to him.... Im upset because it so random acts of meaness. and i didnt do anything...
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    Jan 27, 2012 1:50 AM GMT
    I am sorry to hear about that. Don't worry aout it, this has happened to me a few times as well. It sounds like he was talking to you until he got bored and moved onto talking to someone else. There are some members, but not all, that just like to talk to random people just because they are bored. He is probably talking to somebody else right now and will soon end up stop talking to him too because that is just the kind of guy he is. Like all social networking sites, there are some really good members and some really bad members. You will find a really good member, just give it time. You can find some good friends on this website, and possibly even more. Just don't be distraught over that one bad member.

    Best Wishes
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    Jan 27, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Sounds to me like you were being "groomed" and when he figured out he wasn't going to be getting nudie pics or webcam shots with you he moved on.

    You didn't send him any did you?

    Or it could be you did send them , he got what he wanted.. and zoom he's gone
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    Jan 27, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Hey now, don't be knockin' the unstables! He seems more like a punk bitch than unstable.

    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidHe sounds unstable. Run for the nearest exit and don't look back.
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    Jan 27, 2012 1:57 AM GMT
    I stopped reading and went to see your shirtless picture. Thank you for putting it up.
  • nomadfornow

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    Jan 27, 2012 2:07 AM GMT
    Unfortunately, there are a lot of characters like this floating around the interwebz. I think it's happened to most of us at some point. All you can do it chalk it up, put it behind you, and do your best not to let the experience turn you into a cynic. There really are a lot of great guys here.

    And yes, the shirtless pic is very nice!
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:10 AM GMT
    Guys are assholes, get used to it. /:

    Anyways he probably wanted nudes from u got impatient n just gave up.
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:12 AM GMT
    I'm picking up some sort of negative overtone in your statement.

    I'm guessing you don't like 'em tough and mean?


    i_VAN saidGuys are assholes, get used to it. /:
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:16 AM GMT
    Don't give it a 2nd thought. Otherwise, you'll drive yourself crazy (and it sounds like the crazy one was him).
  • tuffguyndc

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    Jan 27, 2012 2:16 AM GMT
    LOL sounds like Petey is a pompous ass. I say remove him from your hot list and buddy list. Delete his number from your phone and forget you ever met him
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidI'm picking up some sort of negative overtone in your statement.

    I'm guessing you don't like 'em tough and mean?


    i_VAN saidGuys are assholes, get used to it. /:
    quite the contrary, that makes me want them even more....I don't think that's healthy :i
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc saidLOL sounds like Petey is a pompous ass. I say remove him from your hot list and buddy list. Delete his number from your phone and forget you ever met him


    No dont forget that you ever met him. Remember that you met him and remember to look for the signs to avoid others like him.
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    It has happened to me several times.

    People I have chatted with a few times suddenly block me. I have no idea why. I have even messaged a couple to ask why. I mean if I have done something wrong - or annoyed you - or something, I would like to know so I don't make the same mistake again in the future.

    I have even had a couple say bad things about me to others that I really don't understand.

    You just have to realize that online world and real world aren't the same. I am learning to just let it go and move on - just like he did. His loss.
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    What's unhealthy about it?

    I like 'em tough and mean.

    i_VAN said
    ConfederateGhost saidI'm picking up some sort of negative overtone in your statement.

    I'm guessing you don't like 'em tough and mean?


    i_VAN saidGuys are assholes, get used to it. /:
    quite the contrary, that makes me want them even more....I don't think that's healthy :i
  • NerdLifter

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    Jan 27, 2012 2:30 AM GMT
    I send you <3 Dbrad. icon_sad.gif Sorry this happened to you.

    When someone does this to another person, it's hard to process, especially for us younglings. Take some comfort, in it's not you, it's him; he was pursuing conversation with you for god knows what reason. Likely he was not the most mentally healthy individual.
  • Webster666

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    Jan 27, 2012 2:42 AM GMT
    I don't understand why people do that.
    It's so mean.
    Almost all of us want somebody special to care about, and to have that returned.
    Anywhere along the line, if he changed his mind, he could have (and should have) said so, instead of just cutting you off at the knees.
    Be thankful that you found out that he was a jerk, before you actually met.

    Hugs.
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
    The manner of his response is a reflection of his character. Don't you dare think that there is something wrong with you or that you did something wrong.

    Keep connecting with other guys and learn from this experience.

    *Hugs*
  • waccamatt

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    Jan 27, 2012 2:52 AM GMT
    I've met a lot of flaky people through the years and you will meet a lot in the years to come. For this reason I know not to get too excited until I get to know somebody in person. I'm sorry this happened to you, but consider yourself lucky that you didn't waste your time meeting this fellow. You're an incredibly hot guy and there will be many worthy men wanting to beat your door down.
  • Dbrad3693

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    Jan 27, 2012 2:52 AM GMT
    Hey guys, I just wanna thank you for all your support icon_smile.gif It means a lot icon_smile.gif
    But to answer most of your questions, I did send some pics that I shouldnt of sent to him,,,,,, I regret it now, lessen learned i guess
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Dbrad3693 saidHey guys, I just wanna thank you for all your support icon_smile.gif It means a lot icon_smile.gif
    But to answer most of your questions, I did send some pics that I shouldnt of sent to him,,,,,, I regret it now, lessen learned i guess


    We all have Brad,

    Just feel a little better knowing that you are like a mini porn star now, like all of us here on realjock.
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    You dodged a bullet man. That drama llama self-selected out of your friend/dating pool.
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    Jan 27, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    Send those pics to me, please.

  • waccamatt

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    Jan 27, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    Larkin saidYou dodged a bullet man. That drama llama self-selected out of your friend/dating pool.


    A drama llama, huh? I'm going to have to remember that one. icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 27, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    Nuh uh. I'm still a nude-pictures virgin!


    Chainers said like a mini porn star now, like all of us here on realjock.
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    Jan 27, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    There is a lesson in all of this, and you are smarter for it.

    Don't sweat it, and if you can, don't allow his shallowness stop your openness to move on ... Jim