Is it OK to date a guy who thinks that you are perfect and can do no wrong ?

  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 28, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    Just wondering..... connie_1.gif
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    Jan 28, 2012 12:22 AM GMT
    eeew

    it's not wrong but it's certainly not a great situation to be in
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    Jan 28, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    No. That would limit the pool of potential dates down to just two guys-- me and my grandpa.
    Ewwww.
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    Jan 28, 2012 2:34 AM GMT
    But once he finds your more about imperfections, he'll realize you are no longer the perfect ideal guy he once fall so hard for. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 28, 2012 2:35 AM GMT
    It's possible, but it would be hard to live up to every expectation. One wrong move could blow it all up. I personally would not enjoy this relationship where I am the subject of infatuation.
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    Jan 28, 2012 2:40 AM GMT
    Call me crazy, but it sounds romantic. I'd never have to worry about how I look or saying something stupid, b/c BAM! I'm perfect!
  • BillyK87

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    Jan 28, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    sounds like serious attachment issues
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    Jan 28, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
    I wouldn't. I have had a guy tell me I was perfect and was the only one for him...before he met me. Needless to say we never met. Now I run at the first sign of crazy in anyone. Infatuation is a sign of mental instability.
  • A_1991

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    Jan 28, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    No, he is probably crazy!
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    Jan 28, 2012 3:43 AM GMT
    malefeet saidJust wondering..... connie_1.gif


    Perfect! ...but then again, look who we're talking about!
    Could be! ......
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 28, 2012 3:43 AM GMT
    huhwhat saidCall me crazy, but it sounds romantic. I'd never have to worry about how I look or saying something stupid, b/c BAM! I'm perfect!


    I agree......and it beggars the question....Why are there so many single gay men?

    ( Because there's only ONE of ME) 9.gif
  • nomadfornow

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    Jan 28, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    That's a lot of pressure to be under. I would be extremely wary.
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    Jan 28, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    Well as long as this doesnt turn into a Lifetime movie and you are always perfect in his eyes then I dont see the issue. Just remember, perfection can be a symptom of the "puppy love" stage of a relationship and when that stage is over there is a lot that can go wrong.
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    Jan 28, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    You can be perfect in his eyes, but if he accepts you for all your imperfections, moods and the like; You're perfect to him.
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    Jan 28, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    WaMu saidYou can be perfect in his eyes, but if he accepts you for all your imperfections, moods and the like; You're perfect to him.


    Awwwwww! THIS!!!!!
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    Jan 28, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    CoolStoryBro saidWell as long as this doesnt turn into a Lifetime movie and you are always perfect in his eyes then I dont see the issue.


    The issue is if it's a Lifetime movie one of you's is gettin' terminal cancer in the end =/
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    Jan 28, 2012 10:44 AM GMT
    WaMu saidYou can be perfect in his eyes, but if he accepts you for all your imperfections, moods and the like; You're perfect to him.



    Which is how Bill felt and still feels about me, and I about him.

    -Doug
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    Jan 28, 2012 11:05 AM GMT
    Think of it as confirmation.
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    Jan 28, 2012 11:59 AM GMT
    Sounds like a guy who has low self esteem issues. I already know I can be wrong so if I were ever with a guy who never saw my wrongs, I'd be turned off and wondering if he's just too desperate and afraid of being alone if he called me out on my bullshit!
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    Jan 28, 2012 12:35 PM GMT
    Will he dump you when he finds out nobody is perfect?
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    Jan 28, 2012 12:54 PM GMT
    Honestly, imperfections make a person, but dont think someone cant love your imperfections. If he can take you as everything you are, why is it desperate? Why is it not romantic?
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    Jan 28, 2012 1:07 PM GMT
    Accepting your imperfections is not desperate. However, not recognizing them is.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 28, 2012 1:13 PM GMT
    CuriousOne saidAccepting your imperfections is not desperate. However, not recognizing them is.


    Perhaps...he is simply......in luv......peace baby! icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 28, 2012 1:15 PM GMT
    CuriousOne saidAccepting your imperfections is not desperate. However, not recognizing them is.


    I can agree with you there
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 28, 2012 1:27 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidUh... I'd probably make him see eventually how fucked up I truly am. If he still clan't comprehend that then... I don't know.


    You have nothing to worry about handsome.... blindfolded-smile.gif