How not to look needy

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    Jan 28, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    Haha ok so I need your advice once again guys hehe, I'm really new to this dating world. So, my question is how not too look too needy? like should i text or call or wait for him to do it. Or what? haha
    Thanks guys!
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    Jan 28, 2012 5:34 AM GMT
    Make your main preoccupation you. Your job, your education, your plans for the future. If you make that your main focus you won't have idle time on your hands to drive someone away with too much needy attention.
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    Jan 28, 2012 5:40 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidMake your main preoccupation you. Your job, your education, your plans for the future. If you make that your main focus you won't have idle time on your hands to drive someone away with too much needy attention.


    Great advice.
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    Jan 28, 2012 5:43 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidMake your main preoccupation you. Your job, your education, your plans for the future. If you make that your main focus you won't have idle time on your hands to drive someone away with too much needy attention.



    Solid plan....


    Or if you put a bacon wrapped cookie on a stick, Ari will come running in! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 28, 2012 5:46 AM GMT
    Fivealive said
    Ariodante saidMake your main preoccupation you. Your job, your education, your plans for the future. If you make that your main focus you won't have idle time on your hands to drive someone away with too much needy attention.



    Solid plan....


    Or if you put a bacon wrapped cookie on a stick, Ari will come running in! icon_biggrin.gif


    But I'll leave as soon as I devour it icon_sad.gif

    NOW, if he focuses on making of himself a master chef with a successful bakery and pork goods business he could retain me for life icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 28, 2012 5:50 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidMake your main preoccupation you. Your job, your education, your plans for the future. If you make that your main focus you won't have idle time on your hands to drive someone away with too much needy attention.


    Yeah right man! Thanks a lot for the advice icon_biggrin.gif

    BTW my cooking skills suck really suck, so I guess I can't retain you for life haha
  • araphael

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    Jan 28, 2012 6:22 AM GMT
    Just be yourself. The guy who is interested in you and worthy to be with you will not view you as needy or anything. Just a normal person who is cute who he would like to spend time with. But that's just my opinion, not everyone has to have the same opinion as me.