Lol. I've only gone to a few gay bars and I can witness to your observations; these were mine: 1) most of the guys in there were ugly and just looking for a hookup with a fine guy by some prayer or chance, 2) the good looking guys who did come there were so in to looking good in the club, for what I reason I still don't understand because they usually didn't leave with anybody (they looked too good to actually have sex which is what they pretended they came there for), and 3) the guys who were completely insecure and who wanted to hook up with a good looking guy but were paralyzed by a fear of rejection so they never approached guys they seemed to be interested in. Oh yeah, then I met the bartenders, most of whom seemed to act straight but were working in a gay bar. Still haven't figured that one out yet since I went to those bars. I think the good looking guys don't go to gay bars or something, which may explain why I've only been to a couple, lol.