Making time

  • 4another

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    Jan 30, 2012 6:51 AM GMT
    I already know what the answer is to my question, just need to vent and maybe get some validation.

    When you're into a guy, regardless of what's going on in your life, you make time for them right? Even if it's just enough time to send/reply to a text message, you still do it?...

    In the past two weeks I've been chatting with two guys who made first contact with me (so they were obviously interested) but who both disappeared and/or flaked when it came time to meeting up. I asked one of them pretty bluntly if I should just leave him alone since he didn't seem all that interested anymore, and his lame ass excuse was that he's busy.

    The other guy I just deleted from my phone. If he wants to chat he knows my number.

    I'm tired struggling to keep conversations going with douchebags.

    I don't understand why gays whine and cry that they just want a relationship but no one seems interested in one.

    /blanket rant over
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    Jan 30, 2012 6:59 AM GMT
    4another saidI already know what the answer is to my question, just need to vent and maybe get some validation.

    When you're into a guy, regardless of what's going on in your life, you make time for them right? Even if it's just enough time to send/reply to a text message, you still do it?...

    In the past two weeks I've been chatting with two guys who made first contact with me (so they were obviously interested) but who both disappeared and/or flaked when it came time to meeting up. I asked one of them pretty bluntly if I should just leave him alone since he didn't seem all that interested anymore, and his lame ass excuse was that he's busy.

    The other guy I just deleted from my phone. If he wants to chat he knows my number.

    I'm tired struggling to keep conversations going with douchebags.

    I don't understand why gays whine and cry that they just want a relationship but no one seems interested in one.

    /blanket rant over


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    Jan 31, 2012 4:17 AM GMT
    4another saidI already know what the answer is to my question, just need to vent and maybe get some validation.

    When you're into a guy, regardless of what's going on in your life, you make time for them right? Even if it's just enough time to send/reply to a text message, you still do it?...

    In the past two weeks I've been chatting with two guys who made first contact with me (so they were obviously interested) but who both disappeared and/or flaked when it came time to meeting up. I asked one of them pretty bluntly if I should just leave him alone since he didn't seem all that interested anymore, and his lame ass excuse was that he's busy.

    The other guy I just deleted from my phone. If he wants to chat he knows my number.

    I'm tired struggling to keep conversations going with douchebags.

    I don't understand why gays whine and cry that they just want a relationship but no one seems interested in one.

    /blanket rant over


    Sometimes people really are busy, but it's a confusing game...I'd rather just say we'll meet up at such a time to hang out and talk in person, so many rules, etc, I'd want them to be as excited to text me as I am them...or...just pick up the phone.

  • Jan 31, 2012 6:09 AM GMT
    dont matter if my head is spinning at work, a thousand things on plate and then other stuff, i always find time for the person that i'm dating and interested in even if its just simply texting them throughout the day but im a big sapp for the night phone call and recapping your day with your mate

    I lose sleep or change my schedule or give up things I do regularly for someone that I'm in a relationship with or exclusive with. Thats just my nature

    not many guys are like that. Unfortunately, lots of men think "me,me,me". Why do you think women rant about men and the lesbian rate is increasing icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 01, 2012 1:35 PM GMT
    If someone's really interested, he will make time.