water, water everywhere...

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    Jun 26, 2008 7:13 PM GMT
    Does anyone else find it odd that there are tons of hotties on this website, but NONE of them are in your city? lol Seriously, I could waste hours just hitting refresh on the home page and checking out profiles of some really sexy guys, but when I search in my city or surrounding area, it's Loserville all the way! I hope I'm not the only one with this dilema. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Tritimium

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    Jun 26, 2008 9:06 PM GMT
    DOH! I was about to start gushing about water issues (it's my job).

    I guess this is what RJ and aeroplanes are for?icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 26, 2008 9:15 PM GMT
    Especially in New York..
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    Jun 26, 2008 9:37 PM GMT
    I didnt do an indepth, detailed search but the guys that come up on a Greensboro search dont look that bad...

    so what's the problem again?
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    Jun 26, 2008 10:44 PM GMT
    Caslon4000 saidso what's the problem again?



    I know, I know...

    The grass isn't green enough there.
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    Jun 26, 2008 11:25 PM GMT
    it's the same complaint everyone has...

    i find that people within your own city - especially if there's a small active RJ community there - seem more interested in chatting with people in other cities.
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    Jun 26, 2008 11:57 PM GMT
    The grass is always greener in anyone elses yard....icon_cool.gif

    edit on spelling....
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    Jun 27, 2008 12:05 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidThe grass is always greener is anyone elses yard....icon_cool.gif


    Don't know about that, looking at everyone elses lawn in the street, mines certainly looking the greenest right now, just wish it was a little more warm and sunny so I could go lay on it!
  • EricLA

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    Jun 27, 2008 12:07 AM GMT
    There are Angelenos here, but I guess I'm not their type.
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    Jun 27, 2008 12:15 AM GMT
    lilTanker said[quote][cite]Sporty_g said[/cite]The grass is always greener is anyone elses yard....icon_cool.gif


    Don't know about that, looking at everyone elses lawn in the street, mines certainly looking the greenest right now, just wish it was a little more warm and sunny so I could go lay on it![/quote]

    Winter in Sydney, AU, not sure I would want to lay out in the yard with the Sydney Funnel spyders and the snakes and viscious ants, etc....still,all the same, I'd give it a try with YOU! ....LOL!!!...yeah, I saw one too many National Geographic specials on the "top 10 deadly critters of down under...."
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    Jun 27, 2008 12:32 AM GMT
    HAHAHAHA were I live red back spiders are EVERYWHERE!!!!

    But its not so bad, you just need to be careful about picking stuff up off the ground when its been sitting there for a while.

    Also need to be a litle careful in the bathroom too, they like the warmth that the heater in there gives off!

    other then that though, we don't have any problems with snakes, we do get huntsman spiders but there not at all bad, they have no real interest in you, there just big and go crunch under foot hehehe, mind you, I did scream like a girl when one jumped at me once!

    hehehe its cold here, its not nice, I wanna be somewhere warm!
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    Jun 27, 2008 12:36 AM GMT
    In all honesty, I know what you mean. I see guys regularly at my gym that are on RJ and have been to my profile repeatedly and I see them at the clubs, etc. and they have NEVER said "HI!" or even acknowledged me...One guy is a personal trainer@lifetime, with some awesome friends and buds...but I don't get so much as a "head nod" at the gym or in the clubs, nothing! Others in the gym...I would never want to disrupt their workout and you just leave them alone.....others I WOULD love to meet, but I have to wonder if they are real people, because they have a "last active" date of months ago or last visited me, of months ago or never......and the only time anyone tried to have a Columbus meet up , was in mid April, and NO one showed up....guess I will drop back to plans "B" and "C" to meet the man of my dreams... I guess RJ members are great talkers on line but just too busy to be "personal and real"....that's fine.icon_cool.gif
    Really makes you wonder when you read all of the profiles and so many mention just how "chill", "low-key", "relaxed", "casual", "real", "easy-going", "down to earth", etc, guys could really be this way and still be so single and unavailable at the same time....Things that make you say "H-MMMMMMM"?icon_cool.gif
  • Timbales

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    Jun 27, 2008 12:38 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidThe grass is always greener is anyone elses yard....icon_cool.gif


    The grass is always greener over the septic tank.
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    Jun 27, 2008 12:42 AM GMT
    I beg to differ, Toronto has a plethora of sexy RJ members, but not many participate in the forums though. Sadly one of our chattier members is now in Houston becoming Texafied (I know this is not a word but cut me some slack).

    I wish RJ was around when I was lonely and single, things may have been more pleasant.
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    Jun 27, 2008 12:44 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidHAHAHAHA were I live red back spiders are EVERYWHERE!!!!

    But its not so bad, you just need to be careful about picking stuff up off the ground when its been sitting there for a while.

    Also need to be a litle careful in the bathroom too, they like the warmth that the heater in there gives off!

    other then that though, we don't have any problems with snakes, we do get huntsman spiders but there not at all bad, they have no real interest in you, there just big and go crunch under foot hehehe, mind you, I did scream like a girl when one jumped at me once!

    hehehe its cold here, its not nice, I wanna be somewhere warm!



    OK..if you say so...but, I just checked the weather and it is supposed to be 59 degrees F right now and into the upper 60's this weekend...COLD? WINTER? These temps do happen in Ohio in SUMMER...although not just this moment.... 90's right now and a T-storm coming!
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    Jun 27, 2008 1:34 AM GMT
    OOOH Big woop, you get cold weather too.. WOW how shocking.. terrible.. really.. icon_razz.gif

    I am just a warm fella, anything hot and its fun icon_razz.gif

    I don't know why, but this winter, I'm suffering more then usual, I'm cold, I LOT more cold then I used to be, I'm actually wearing jumpers almost constantly now!
  • Timbales

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    Jun 27, 2008 1:36 AM GMT
    60f is so not cold.

    20f is cold.
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    Jun 27, 2008 1:44 AM GMT
    Timberoo said60f is so not cold.

    20f is cold.


    Yes. minus 6 degrees celsius is cold.

    Its currantly 15 degrees celsius here (59f)

    But its all relative and only going to get worse.

    I don't like winter, its cold and I've no one warm to cuddle up too damn it!!

    I want summer back, I want to strip off at the beach and lay in the sun and be all warm and toasty and I wanna watch the hot guys playing games in there nice tight shorts!!!!
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    Jun 27, 2008 1:56 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidIn all honesty, I know what you mean. I see guys regularly at my gym that are on RJ and have been to my profile repeatedly and I see them at the clubs, etc. and they have NEVER said "HI!" or even acknowledged me...One guy is a personal trainer@lifetime, with some awesome friends and buds...but I don't get so much as a "head nod" at the gym or in the clubs, nothing! Others in the gym...I would never want to disrupt their workout and you just leave them alone.....others I WOULD love to meet, but I have to wonder if they are real people, because they have a "last active" date of months ago or last visited me, of months ago or never......and the only time anyone tried to have a Columbus meet up , was in mid April, and NO one showed up....guess I will drop back to plans "B" and "C" to meet the man of my dreams... I guess RJ members are great talkers on line but just too busy to be "personal and real"....that's fine.icon_cool.gif
    Really makes you wonder when you read all of the profiles and so many mention just how "chill", "low-key", "relaxed", "casual", "real", "easy-going", "down to earth", etc, guys could really be this way and still be so single and unavailable at the same time....Things that make you say "H-MMMMMMM"?icon_cool.gif


    Then they are fools - because you are a total catch and a great guy to boot! icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 27, 2008 2:12 AM GMT
    rwking saidDoes anyone else find it odd that there are tons of hotties on this website, but NONE of them are in your city? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Hence the admins need to come up with a new hub that has FORUMS catered to specific areas. I.e.:

    "LOCAL FORUMS

    -New York
    -L.A.
    -Northwest (wash, ore, idaho)
    -Mid-Atlantic (penn, maryland, etc.)
    -Florida
    -Chicago
    -Mid-west (colorado, nebraska, etc)
    -Southern States (alabama, texas, etc.)
    -B.C.
    -Toronto
    -Quebec
    -Other"

    That would be fun. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 27, 2008 2:27 AM GMT
    Sorry, but I don't do other..

    I'd need one of my own, Sydney, Australia
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    Jun 27, 2008 2:34 AM GMT
    There are a few attractive men, in my city. However, most did not supply photos with their profiles.

    The gay community is small in Edmonton, perhaps some are embarrased to be on such a website, and get noticed.
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    Jun 27, 2008 2:42 AM GMT
    jakebenson said Hence the admins need to come up with a new hub that has FORUMS catered to specific areas.


    That would be the day I quit RJ for good. The whole pleasure of the forums is that the guys are from everywhere bUT here. I'm not looking to date anyone, so why would I have to be confined to the locals?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jun 27, 2008 2:44 AM GMT
    Well I think you have to define "loserville". BTW, I hate that term.. Are you implying the guys near you aren't good looking or are not grounded or what?

    There are always "diamonds in the rough", you just have to be able to see them.
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    Jun 27, 2008 4:38 AM GMT
    Too much eye candy where I am!

    So I wear Sunglasses all the time even when I go to Bed Ha Ha!