asnextdoor saidI know exactly what you mean. I have had 18-20 year old guys hit me and they are overweight and when you say no, they flip and send back a big hate message. One them called me fat and shallow.
You know, there was a thread here about ummmm...something to do with "You think it's attractive in another person by your flaws." The problem is that, they have control over their weight. Truly, if you're big, you have control over that, but for whatever reason they just choose to not work on that.
I dunno, if it was me, I'd be flattered, even if they send me hate messages.