Need advice, real advice please.

  • aldss

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    Jan 30, 2012 10:55 PM GMT
    Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and were so in love its just amazing.

    The thing I need advice on his him and his situation. Basically long story cut short, when my boyfriend came out that he was gay he left everyone behind him since they were all very homophobic and would never support him. This left him being very alone. when we meet he was in collage, and was applying to start university, however one issue that keeps on coming up is the fact that he has no friends, every so often it really gets him down and he cant help but face the truth that if I was to leave him, or we broke up he would be alone, and I mean really alone.

    It hurts so much to think that he would have nobody to talk to if we broke up. I keep on supporting him and telling him that he will make friends of his own in time. I remind him what sort of person he was and how far he has come with coming out and changing his life for the better. However the other day it got to him again and after a long telephone conversation he turned around and said that he has nothing, if we was to break up in ten years he would have nobody if it was to continue the way it did... It pains me so much when he feels like this, I cant help but feel sad and so upset to the point were Ive had nights Ive cried from the thought of him having nobody around him.

    Ive advised him to join a photography course to get out more and meet people, my question to everyone is what can I do to help him, or advice him. I so want him to have his own Real social network. Anyway, any real supportive advice would be great as Ive started running out of hope. His the best thing in the world to me and i dont want to see him in pain anymore.
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    Jan 30, 2012 10:58 PM GMT
    Sounds like you have a long-distance relationship. Do you share your friends with him? Plan on keeping your relationship going to be with each other so friendships spill over?
  • aldss

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    Jan 30, 2012 11:02 PM GMT
    He lives 5 mins away from me, not long distance at all, and yeah my friends are his friends, but when I say that to him he just says. if u walked away who would be there tommro and ive tried very hard for it to spill over but i cant force people to pick up the phone and call him. I wish they would, but other than that my friends love him and he gets on with everyone really well. weve had holidays with them all but its just having his own friends.