Please stop stressing over guys

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    Jan 30, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    A year from now, you won't even remember him.

    If you do, you'll want a time machine to go back and slap yourself.

    According to Google, 2800000000 men on this planet.

    Move on.

    Be Happy.

    Live before you die.

    That is all. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 31, 2012 12:19 AM GMT
    GrownBoy saidLive before you die


    It would have been sufficient if you had said just that! icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:28 AM GMT
    ENCORE! I totally agree bud!
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:32 AM GMT
    GrownBoy saidA year from now, you won't even remember him.

    If you do, you'll want a time machine to go back and slap yourself.

    According to Google, 2800000000 men on this planet.

    Move on.

    Be Happy.

    Live before you die.

    That is all. icon_biggrin.gif


    A-MEN! Life is way too short to be worrying about the tedious things or wasting your breath!
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    Good thread. Glad this was made!
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:08 AM GMT
    testify! you can't deny
    bahaha
    no but seriously that's a good post, GrownBoy icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:13 AM GMT
    GrownBoy saidA year from now, you won't even remember him.

    If you do, you'll want a time machine to go back and slap yourself.

    According to Google, 2800000000 men on this planet.

    Move on.

    Be Happy.

    Live before you die.

    That is all. icon_biggrin.gif
    BEST THREAD EVER!!!! It is about time someone had enough guts to say this about the dudes that don't wanna act right. icon_smile.gif


    +100
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    Can I turn it into a cockroach and mush it!
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    Getting over a guy is alot easier said than done, lol.

    And statistically, you have adjust your "men on the earth" number by the percentage of gay dudes, then by the ones in your age range, then by someone sane/dating material, then by the amount within a 25 mile distance of you, then by those that would be interested back at you...... You're basically left with a small number - like really small. So when you actually find a guy you fall in love with, you should probably try to make it work, lol.
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    crazycool saidENCORE! I totally agree bud!


    YO where have YOU been? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    I never stress over guys.
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:34 AM GMT
    Why does this feel like some kind of competition? Who's the weak and stupid because they stress over guys and who's strong and better because they don't? There's nothing wrong with stressing over a guy. It is stressful and not easy when you make yourself vulnerable, unless somehow you've managed to overcome all fear(If you have why are you on this site and not helping and telling humanity of how you achieved this amazing feat?) . Or you're just not making yourself vulnerable, in that case you may as well spend time with a rock that's how much connecting and bonding will take place.
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
    xKorix saidWhy does this feel like some kind of competition? Who's the weak and stupid because they stress over guys and who's strong and better because they don't? There's nothing wrong with stressing over a guy. It is stressful and not easy when you make yourself vulnerable, unless somehow you've managed to overcome all fear(If you have why are you on this site and not helping and telling humanity of how you achieved this amazing feat?) . Or you're just not making yourself vulnerable, in that case you may as well spend time with a rock that's how much connecting and bonding will take place.


    I dont stress because I am confident in who I am. I am not the greatest guy in the world. I dont have a great body. I dont have a big dick. I have no ass to speak of. But I am smart, funny, and bring something to the table. Maybe its an age thing. I dont know. I guess if someone doesnt like me or click with me I dont stree about it. Its not like I am going to change who I am for a guy nor would I expect him to change for me. Eventually water seeks its own level and you are with people who you want to be with and those that want to be with you. I am responsible for my happyiness not leaving it to someone else. I just dont stress about it.
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:50 AM GMT
    Fivealive saidCan I turn it into a cockroach and mush it!


    Cockroaches are hard to kill. Kind of like me, I keep coming back, so get used to it.
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    huhwhat saidGetting over a guy is alot easier said than done, lol.

    And statistically, you have adjust your "men on the earth" number by the percentage of gay dudes, then by the ones in your age range, then by someone sane/dating material, then by the amount within a 25 mile distance of you, then by those that would be interested back at you...... You're basically left with a small number - like really small. So when you actually find a guy you fall in love with, you should probably try to make it work, lol.


    If you can't find the guy within a 25 mile distance, then you give up? Well maybe for people who have roots? I could pick up and travel the world if I wanted to, so maybe I didn't factor in everyone's personalities, but I had good intentions..
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:55 AM GMT
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    xKorix saidWhy does this feel like some kind of competition? Who's the weak and stupid because they stress over guys and who's strong and better because they don't? There's nothing wrong with stressing over a guy. It is stressful and not easy when you make yourself vulnerable, unless somehow you've managed to overcome all fear(If you have why are you on this site and not helping and telling humanity of how you achieved this amazing feat?) . Or you're just not making yourself vulnerable, in that case you may as well spend time with a rock that's how much connecting and bonding will take place.


    I dont stress because I am confident in who I am. I am not the greatest guy in the world. I dont have a great body. I dont have a big dick. I have no ass to speak of. But I am smart, funny, and bring something to the table. Maybe its an age thing. I dont know. I guess if someone doesnt like me or click with me I dont stree about it. Its not like I am going to change who I am for a guy nor would I expect him to change for me. Eventually water seeks its own level and you are with people who you want to be with and those that want to be with you. I am responsible for my happyiness not leaving it to someone else. I just dont stress about it.


    Well said! I need to start thinking more like you!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    Oh good, so people will read this and just get over whatever problems they are having ;)

    Pick yourself up by your bootstraps works well for some people but they are usually the ones who didn't get very emotionally invested in the relationship in the first place.
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:59 AM GMT
    You guys need to get over yourselves quite frankly. I may look and be young, but I do understand that love takes work.

    I meant the guys that are wastes of time and people wonder...why didn't he call back,etc not a long-term relationship you're already currently in. This wasn't a set in stone, proven way of life. Am I the authority on love?

    If anybody was going on dates with/talking to a loser, I hoped this would help them.

    I'm sorry I didn't write a flawless manifesto for gay datingicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 31, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    One of the most important things about understanding, is acknowledging you don't know everything about everything icon_razz.gif

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    Jan 31, 2012 3:05 AM GMT
    Your all good bro! Your thread makes sense. You are here to help guys out not bash themicon_smile.gif All you are saying is to forget the negativity and games some guys play when trying to talk them or date them.
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    Jan 31, 2012 3:46 AM GMT
    Dallasfan824 said
    xKorix saidWhy does this feel like some kind of competition? Who's the weak and stupid because they stress over guys and who's strong and better because they don't? There's nothing wrong with stressing over a guy. It is stressful and not easy when you make yourself vulnerable, unless somehow you've managed to overcome all fear(If you have why are you on this site and not helping and telling humanity of how you achieved this amazing feat?) . Or you're just not making yourself vulnerable, in that case you may as well spend time with a rock that's how much connecting and bonding will take place.


    I dont stress because I am confident in who I am. I am not the greatest guy in the world. I dont have a great body. I dont have a big dick. I have no ass to speak of. But I am smart, funny, and bring something to the table. Maybe its an age thing. I dont know. I guess if someone doesnt like me or click with me I dont stress about it. Its not like I am going to change who I am for a guy nor would I expect him to change for me. Eventually water seeks its own level and you are with people who you want to be with and those that want to be with you. I am responsible for my happiness, not leaving it to someone else. I just dont stress about it.


    Well said.
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    Jan 31, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    GrownBoy saidA year from now, you won't even remember him.

    If you do, you'll want a time machine to go back and slap yourself.

    According to Google, 2800000000 men on this planet.

    Move on.

    Be Happy.

    Live before you die.

    That is all. icon_biggrin.gif


    thank you, uggghh some people are so patheticicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 31, 2012 4:03 AM GMT
    I'd say that there is a certain amount of truth to this post... but don't drown in the negative possible connotations. The next one could be great! icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 31, 2012 7:53 AM GMT
    I would give this topic much more credit if it was made by someone prefaced with "I have been stressing over guys and I came to the realization that:"

    As it is, it sounds like someone sick of seeing topics about heartbroken people and instead of actually trying to help resolve things, he's throwing out an oversimple solution of "Just get over it, it doesn't matter (to me)".

    I agree with some of it, except for the part about forgetting people in a year. I remember all of the people who have affected me in life.
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    Jan 31, 2012 8:27 AM GMT
    (: