Do old guys have no idea of what young guys find attractive?

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    Jan 31, 2012 11:08 AM GMT
    Seriously... out-of-shape older guys (Exhibit D) have a bad habit of creeping on me at the bar. I try to be as nice as humanly possible, which, for me, is actually pretty nice (albeit a tad conceited). However, sometimes, certain ones of them will blatantly hit on me, try to kiss me, etc.

    When that happens, I push the corpulent cretaceous creature away and give a grossed-out look to his prehistoric posse, many of whom laugh since the regular bar-goers among them know the kind of guys I go home with. Is it good for business? ...Better question: do I care?

    On here as well, older guys creep on younger guys frequently. One profile of an obese 50-something who lists his bloated blubber-body as "beefy" has a hotlist of over 1000 hot young guys (Exhibit A), and says the following on his guys I'm looking for section:

    "Younger masculine "normal" men up to mid 40's (white guys preferred -- no guarantees if not white) ... jocks, musclemen, and military can step front and center! Young men who seek loving submission to an older Master/Sir/Coach/Dad who want the firm guidance of an older man to lead him."

    1) You don't have any guys looking to "step front and center". You are desperate and creepy, and you are going for guys way out of your league. Get real.

    2) Sending me a creepy message... not cool, bro. I would post it but admin likes to delete the threads in which I do that.

    3) Get to the gym before arteriosclerosis gets ya.
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    Jan 31, 2012 11:45 AM GMT
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    It really is annoying when guys like this who want more than a chat get pissed off if you don't reply to their messages. There is no obligation to do so. Then those that offer to pay you money to meet them/sex them. If my profile was an escort one, fine, but it clearly isn't. *Blocked*
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    Jan 31, 2012 11:45 AM GMT
    yes everyone has experienced this.

    I fail to see what the point is?
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    Jan 31, 2012 12:21 PM GMT
    _SAGE_ said
    It really is annoying when guys like this who want more than a chat get pissed off if you don't reply to their messages. There is no obligation to do so. Then those that offer to pay you money to meet them/sex them. If my profile was an escort one, fine, but it clearly isn't. *Blocked*


    I hate the ones that offer money... like, seriously? If I desperately wanted money, I would fuck hot guys in porn. I wonder, assuming most guys react as you and I do, why these desperate dinos keep trying?
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    Jan 31, 2012 12:26 PM GMT
    Firebrand said
    _SAGE_ said
    It really is annoying when guys like this who want more than a chat get pissed off if you don't reply to their messages. There is no obligation to do so. Then those that offer to pay you money to meet them/sex them. If my profile was an escort one, fine, but it clearly isn't. *Blocked*


    I hate the ones that offer money... like, seriously? If I desperately wanted money, I would fuck hot guys in porn. I wonder, assuming most guys react as you and I do, why these desperate dinos keep trying?


    For the same reason that sketchy characters send random messages saying "Sup: wanna fuck?" or just dick pictures or "wanna roll up on this dick??" or "I'll give you a blowie, no strings."

    Because some percentage of the time it works. If it didn't work, people wouldn't do it.
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    Jan 31, 2012 12:31 PM GMT
    Larkin said
    Because some percentage of the time it works. If it didn't work, people wouldn't do it.


    Do people not realize they have hands that have no risk for STI transmission? Gay people sometimes... /facepalm
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    Jan 31, 2012 12:47 PM GMT
    You have got to be yanking our chain again. This unabashed arrogance that you portray just seems so over the top. We get it, you don't like guys you are not attracted to hitting on you. Oh poor pitiful you, lol.


    And you better watch out, karma is a bitch and there is plenty of time for it to screw you over.
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    Jan 31, 2012 12:58 PM GMT
    Firebrand said
    _SAGE_ said
    It really is annoying when guys like this who want more than a chat get pissed off if you don't reply to their messages. There is no obligation to do so. Then those that offer to pay you money to meet them/sex them. If my profile was an escort one, fine, but it clearly isn't. *Blocked*


    I hate the ones that offer money... like, seriously? If I desperately wanted money, I would fuck hot guys in porn. I wonder, assuming most guys react as you and I do, why these desperate dinos keep trying?


    I guess Larkin has a point, if they play the law of averages some young dude somewhere will eventually be horny/desperate enough to comply I guess.

    Still, i'd have thought having some dignity, respect and a sense of decorum in going about it would be a much more successful route than the ''here is my dick pic, send yours, where are you, want to come over now? I'm very generou$$?'' type messages icon_rolleyes.gif They give a bad rep/image to the much larger number of older guys who are decent.
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    Jan 31, 2012 12:58 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidYou have got to be yanking our chain again. This unabashed arrogance that you portray just seems so over the top. We get it, you don't like guys you are not attracted to hitting on you. Oh poor pitiful you, lol.

    And you better watch out, karma is a bitch and there is plenty of time for it to screw you over.


    Karma isn't real.

    btw, yourname - I know all old guys aren't creepy. Some are really nice and completely respectful.
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    Jan 31, 2012 12:59 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said


    And you better watch out, karma is a bitch and there is plenty of time for it to screw you over.


    This.
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:03 PM GMT
    _SAGE_ said
    Still, i'd have thought having some dignity, respect and a sense of decorum in going about it would be a much more successful route than the ''here is my dick pic, send yours, where are you, want to come over now? I'm very generou$$?'' type messages icon_rolleyes.gif They give a bad rep/image to the much larger number of older guys who are decent.


    I want to meet the people who say yes to these dinos... I know one, he's a porn star and only does it for money. (He's attractive and can get basically whoever he wants) Not sure if he counts.
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:17 PM GMT
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    dudewithabeard saidYou have got to be yanking our chain again. This unabashed arrogance that you portray just seems so over the top. We get it, you don't like guys you are not attracted to hitting on you. Oh poor pitiful you, lol.

    And you better watch out, karma is a bitch and there is plenty of time for it to screw you over.


    Karma isn't real.

    btw, yourname - I know all old guys aren't creepy. Some are really nice and completely respectful.


    Karma may or may not be real, but accidents which cause immobility, thyroid conditions as well as any number a medical issues can cause you to gain weight as well wreak havoc on your body. And of course, as you know, you will be old one day.

    and just so you know, there are as many young skinny twinks who have daddy fantasies as there are old heavier dudes who have little boi fantasies. Trust.
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:19 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    Karma may or may not be real, but accidents which cause immobility, thyroid conditions as well as any number a medical issues can cause you to gain weight as well wreak havoc on your body. And of course, as you know, you will be old one day.

    and just so you know, there are as many young skinny twinks who have daddy fantasies as there are old heavier dudes who have little boi fantasies. Trust.


    I'm pretty obviously not a skinny twink lol
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:23 PM GMT
    Firebrand said
    _SAGE_ said
    Still, i'd have thought having some dignity, respect and a sense of decorum in going about it would be a much more successful route than the ''here is my dick pic, send yours, where are you, want to come over now? I'm very generou$$?'' type messages icon_rolleyes.gif They give a bad rep/image to the much larger number of older guys who are decent.


    I want to meet the people who say yes to these dinos... I know one, he's a porn star and only does it for money. (He's attractive and can get basically whoever he wants) Not sure if he counts.


    I can totally understand if a sex-worker does so. Money talks and would be the sole objective.

    I'd would be very surprised if your friend is as willing to hook up with the same type of clientèle 'off the clock' though, as it were. But, horses for courses, I guess.
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:25 PM GMT
    Skinny twink...lmao. I like the way this day is starting.
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:26 PM GMT
    Firebrand said
    dudewithabeard said
    Karma may or may not be real, but accidents which cause immobility, thyroid conditions as well as any number a medical issues can cause you to gain weight as well wreak havoc on your body. And of course, as you know, you will be old one day.

    and just so you know, there are as many young skinny twinks who have daddy fantasies as there are old heavier dudes who have little boi fantasies. Trust.


    I'm pretty obviously not a skinny twink lol


    But you have the soul of a skinny twink.
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:27 PM GMT
    Firebrand said
    dudewithabeard said
    Karma may or may not be real, but accidents which cause immobility, thyroid conditions as well as any number a medical issues can cause you to gain weight as well wreak havoc on your body. And of course, as you know, you will be old one day.

    and just so you know, there are as many young skinny twinks who have daddy fantasies as there are old heavier dudes who have little boi fantasies. Trust.


    I'm pretty obviously not a skinny twink lol


    no, but you are 22 year old boy icon_smile.gif a very cute one, but one none the less.

    (btw, I am going to start trolling/stalking you and sending you uninvited sexually explicit emails requesting you to do this old man a favor.. all in hopes of being the target of one of you arrogance filled threads. ;)
  • mikey_101

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    Jan 31, 2012 1:35 PM GMT
    I think its each to their own for this one.

    If you dont take kindly to someones advances (wither they be beautiful and young, or old and creepy), then you just firmly and politly say no.

    Its quite simple.

    OP - does this happen at work? I seam to remember you had the same thread, swaping old and creepy for Asian.

    Maybe people see you as a piece of avaiable ass?

    I would take it as a compliment......

    At which point does someone become 'old'? Remember this is relative - you will be constantly reassesing what 'old' is in terms of your own age.

    You are 22 from your profile... no longer a wee laddie, perhaps its time that you grew up?
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:39 PM GMT
    He's got a point. Maybe you are sending out the wrong message to these people that you don't want hittin on you?


    mikey_101 said
    Maybe people see you as a piece of avaiable ass?
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:57 PM GMT
    Which is more relevant really? That they're old or that they're busted?

    I've dated or slept with guys in their 40s or 50s. But they also had amazing physiques.
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    Jan 31, 2012 1:58 PM GMT
    I shouldn't be seen as available... I never smile at work, and if anyone asks, I have a boyfriend. Like, people should be put off enough by my uninviting body language.
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:00 PM GMT
    Larkin saidWhich is more relevant really? That they're old or that they're busted?

    I've dated or slept with guys in their 40s or 50s. But they also had amazing physiques.


    The flab is way more relevant. Fatty = automatic no thanks.
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    Jan 31, 2012 2:03 PM GMT
    Firebrand saidI shouldn't be seen as available... I never smile at work, and if anyone asks, I have a boyfriend. Like, people should be put off enough by my uninviting body language.


    Well maybe your not spelling it out properly... you need a you cruise you loose t-shirt?
  • Buddha

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    Jan 31, 2012 2:11 PM GMT
    I think it's okay to be blatant about not being interested. I'm not very good at telling people that I'm not interested, because everytime it happens I imagine myself on the other end of it. But eventually I realized that if you don't explicitly say you're not interested, you'll just string the person along and that's probably worse. I agree however that some people don't know how to read body language, or they're just ignoring it.
  • Kwokpot

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    Jan 31, 2012 2:16 PM GMT
    You know, it happens the other way too. I reagularly get IM's here on RJ to cam with 18-22 yrs olds which doesn't interest me in the least. Sure, I'll chat with them about love, friendship, advice, but cam? They kinda disapear after that.