Am I getting played?

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    Feb 01, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    I met this guy about 2 weeks ago. He has a roommate go he says is an ex dating partner but claims not to have had sex with him ever since he met me. He was showering after we had both worked out and I grabbe his phone to look at his text messages and in his text messages were text messages sent to his roommate that were the same things he tells me: love ya mister, babe, I miss you, etc. I feel like I'm being plate but he claims that he is attracted to me and that he wants me in his life as at least his friend. That's he's not ready to start a relationship and that he wants me to be his best friend. I have a crush on him but claims that his roommate would flip if he saw me hanging out at their house. Should I stop talking to the guy? I don't really know him and he keeps reassuring that he likes me and that he cares for me.... I'm confused and mentally exhausted from getting all these signs. Any advice?
  • Dominican_Gen...

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    Feb 01, 2012 7:54 AM GMT
    Walk away. Smells like you will be the third wheel in that relationship.
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    Feb 01, 2012 8:02 AM GMT
    Rcky saidHe was showering after we had both worked out and I grabbe his phone to look at his text messages and in his text messages were text messages sent to his roommate that were the same things he tells me: love ya mister, babe, I miss you, etc. ...Should I stop talking to the guy?

    Yep, but because I question whether YOU are ready for a BF yet, not because of the relationship with his ex. If I ever caught a guy I just met going through my text messages while I was in the shower he would be instant history.
  • Nizzo

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    Feb 02, 2012 5:39 AM GMT
    I would spy too. Haven't you heard the quote "trust but verify.". :-)