Feb 01, 2012 7:07 AM GMT
(how bout blue for a change?)
I've never understood how guys can be attracted to guys that look/act/think just like them.
I remember watching an old Jerry Springer episode where these two crossdressing boys made themselves into identical cholas and were boyfriends. It looked so weird, like twins making out.. Almost narcissistic.
I find differences in couples much more interesting and hot. A tall, a short; an older, a younger; a tan, a pale; a top, a bottom; a skinny, a muscular; a loud, a quiet; a scholar, a labourer; a repressed, a wildcat; a dominant, a submissive; a feminine, a masculine; an extrovert, an introver; a thinker, a feeler; a hairy, a smooth...
But I see a lot of profiles where it starts out (like this is the thing they're just dying to write down before anything else):
Trait 1, trait 2, trait 3, looking for same
I can understand wanting someone who you agree with on a lot of matters so you're not just arguing over everything. Things in common can be shared hobbies. But a couple of the same archetypes getting together just seems megaboring to me.
Now you speak.