Have you ever dated an asshole? I did dated one! Shit!

  • Kobe_Whisky

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    Feb 01, 2012 6:56 PM GMT
    Ok, here is my story I just found out about my ex....
    He go back to his ex, and told me that he was still in love with me. but why he left me? I always ask that question to myself.
    Finally, I found out he chose his ex because his ex can support him every well. So, he asked me to wait for him till i got a good job and work out with great body.
    What the fuck?
  • masculumpedes

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    Feb 01, 2012 8:25 PM GMT
    This kind of stuff happens all the time.....many gay men are materialistic and superficial. icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 01, 2012 11:08 PM GMT
    You dodged a bullet. And whats up with the last comment he gave for you.. You're perfectly fit as it is... Cut your losses and move on.
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    Feb 01, 2012 11:30 PM GMT
    Unfortunately yes i have. I have bad taste in men and sorry to hear that bro.
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    Feb 02, 2012 2:45 AM GMT
    u deserve better,break up with him n find urself a better men out there.
  • monet

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    Feb 02, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    I never dated one but all the people I ever dated did.
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    Feb 02, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    Cooper87 saidu deserve better,break up with him n find urself a better men out there.


    This.
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    Feb 02, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    Unfortunately(and this may say more about me than them), ALL the guys I've either dated or wanted to date turned out to be assholes.
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    Feb 02, 2012 2:58 AM GMT
    Nope, very good judge of character.

    I notice and start to distance myself. When I don't try to contact you as much...you've been exposed.
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    Feb 02, 2012 9:12 AM GMT
    Everyone has dated an asshole. If you think you haven't, YOU were the asshole!
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    Feb 02, 2012 9:32 AM GMT
    Pure saidEveryone has dated an asshole. If you think you haven't, YOU were the asshole!


    Yeah, Pure has nailed it here.
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    Feb 02, 2012 9:55 AM GMT
    Pure saidEveryone has dated an asshole. If you think you haven't, YOU were the asshole!


    I disagree with this completely. I've never dated an asshole and I've never been the asshole. Don't generalize something that clearly doesn't happen to everyone just because it might've happened to you. Some people's luck isn't as good as others.

  • helios01

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    Feb 02, 2012 11:04 AM GMT
    yeah.... Mine asked me to marry him and broke up with me a week later
    then said it was bcuz he needed to get a job and get his life into order and ends up with another guy two months later. Meh. C'est la vie

    better to get over them and move on. Trust me. Better guys out there who dont have to ask mom and dad for money for our dates.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Feb 02, 2012 11:35 AM GMT
    Never make someone a priority in your life who keeps you as an optionicon_exclaim.gif

    Move on- tell him to get his own job.
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    Feb 02, 2012 11:43 AM GMT
    Dude, I've been dumped too. Well, by being distant. I'm still trying to get over it, but he's out of my life. You should do the same.
    BTW, I have him on Skype still, and I just found out that there's an option to change their name. LOL I changed his name to "ASSHOLE" and it surely made me feel better! icon_smile.gif
  • Kobe_Whisky

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    Feb 02, 2012 2:42 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidNever make someone a priority in your life who keeps you as an optionicon_exclaim.gif

    Move on- tell him to get his own job.



    Nice text! i will say that to him for sure! totally right!
  • Kobe_Whisky

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    Feb 02, 2012 2:44 PM GMT
    ry77 saidDude, I've been dumped too. Well, by being distant. I'm still trying to get over it, but he's out of my life. You should do the same.
    BTW, I have him on Skype still, and I just found out that there's an option to change their name. LOL I changed his name to "ASSHOLE" and it surely made me feel better! icon_smile.gif


    hahaha...cool dear! I put mine as "money asshole" cuz someone rich can put money in his hole. he want money inside hole not dick!
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    Feb 02, 2012 10:09 PM GMT
    I agree, you just need to move on. I copied this from another post.
    "Just remember...all it will take is one good guy to come into your life to make you forget all the bad ones"
    Good Luck
  • TheIStrat

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    Feb 02, 2012 10:39 PM GMT
    He probably doesn't know what he wants
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    Feb 02, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    if they are 'exs'... then they are now assholes...LOL
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    Feb 02, 2012 10:56 PM GMT
    Pure saidEveryone has dated an asshole. If you think you haven't, YOU were the asshole!

    "Probably" would have been a good qualifier... but I think you are on to something!
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    Feb 02, 2012 11:03 PM GMT
    I'm gay, that's the only hole I can get...
    Oh as in the person's personality XD jk jk
    I think everyone has, so I agree with the other people who said so icon_biggrin.gif
  • pablotexas777

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    Feb 02, 2012 11:04 PM GMT
    That guy is crazy to let you go! icon_eek.gif