Better at Bottoming or Sex in general....

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    Feb 02, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    I guess I'm a fairly newbie bottom, I have bottomed only enough times to count with my fingers in the last two years, which is probably unheard of for someone my age. Be that as it may, I have had good experiences and not so good experiences. Here's what I've found just by doing it...

    In order for it not to be messy I have to fast for the better part of a day. I have tried douching a couple times and all that does is give me really runny diarrhea, making bottoming impossible.

    Doing it doggy style tends to not feel good. I only really like getting fucked in missionary, also whenever I get fucked doggy I loose my erection. I am very visually stimulated and I like looking at the guy who is fucking me.

    The idea of being versatile or topping is not appealing at all to me.

    So my first question is 1) How can I clean without getting the runs? 2) How can I get better at doggy style and keep my errection? 3) What sort of things can I do to please my fuck buddy (or Boyfriend, if or when that happens)?


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    Feb 02, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    Tips for what you said. Douche to stay clean, dont worry about staying hard. Some bottoms (like me) dont stay hard while having sex and I do not like my dick played with while bottoming. Too much going on for me to handle really. But when I bottom, I find that after the top is done one stroke or two and I am done too.

    As for how to get better, same way with everything. Do it... a lot.
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    Feb 02, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
    Knock on wood, but I never really have too much problems. If I'm on the hunt for dick, I'll usually not eat for most of the day. And I pretty much stay hard the entire time a guy is fucking me. Very rarely do I lose an erection. If that happens it means I'm not really enjoying the sex, which is rare. And I also don't like a top playing with my peewee. Once they touch it I can cum really quick so I would much rather have control of my cock.
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    Feb 02, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidKnock on wood, but I never really have too much problems. If I'm on the hunt for dick, I'll usually not eat for most of the day. And I pretty much stay hard the entire time a guy is fucking me. Very rarely do I lose an erection. If that happens it means I'm not really enjoying the sex, which is rare. And I also don't like a top playing with my peewee. Once they touch it I can cum really quick so I would much rather have control of my cock.


    Lucky you. But you would say fasting is the way to go then huh? So no spontaneous sex then?
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    Feb 02, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    eat normally... buy a vaginal syringe.... use that to douche, and lots of lube, on it, in it... BTW, i prefer missionary too... only cause i like to see who's with me, especially when he's fuckin me.. icon_cool.gif although, i dont mind me standing, fully bent over at the waist, for doggy.. LOL... (nice mental pic eh)
    anyway, everything you want to do, or don't want to do....is normal.for YOU!!
    dont get hung-up...
    good luck.
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    Feb 02, 2012 5:34 AM GMT
    http://www.streemmaster.com/men/index.php

    Best douche on the market. I stand by it. :-)

    And its hit or miss with me when getting it doggy style. Just make sure to have fun.
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    Feb 02, 2012 6:37 AM GMT
    Nizzo saidhttp://www.streemmaster.com/men/index.php

    Best douche on the market. I stand by it. :-)

    And its hit or miss with me when getting it doggy style. Just make sure to have fun.


    I've tried a similar product though and it really gave me the runs, it was a shower douche as well. How much water should I use if I'm going to attempt to use a shower based one again? The guy who I've been playing with is 8 inches and really thick, I mean I really like taking it, but in order for there not to be any extras I always have to fast a head of time with him.
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    Feb 02, 2012 7:54 AM GMT
    re: the runs.
    Don't put your body upside-down when you douche. You don't want the water wandering that far up you because it will just wash stuff down that would never have come down that soon. It also can leave pockets of water inside you that will flush down later and you'll need to empty again.

    You should only be douching the bottom part of your colon (the rectum), which is usually pretty clear anyway.
  • takashi

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    Feb 02, 2012 10:47 AM GMT
    I use an enema. Its like a water balloon with a nozzle. I fill it up with warm water and fill myself up, usually three cleanings should do the trick. But the body is a chemical factory so sometimes you need more.

    When you clean yourself is also important. Best after a nice long bowel movement, after that its usually easy. If you try doing it without this bowel movement you are in for the long haul. I try to actually start fasting or be careful of what I eat the evening before any sex. I go on a liquid diet, soup, veggie juice, etc. If you eat meat the day before then you have to eat a lot of veggies with it and/or fiber like fiber rich bread. Obviously, this means I am not too spontaneous, but still I do pace myself with my diet.

    Doggy style can be painful depending on the angle of insertion. I think the top goes deeper in this position and hits whatever there is to hit and that can be painful. When we to doggy, I have to bury my face in a pillow to muffle my screaming! Unfortunately, my top actually likes seeing me like this…
    I enjoy doing it sideways, like spooning, its similar to doggy as its from the back but not painful, just as filling. Its also easy to kiss the top, just turn your head and suck face. This position also allows me to join in on the humping. I pull back when my top pulls out and hump back in to him as he pushes in, creating a sexy rhythm. I can really feel him traveling in and out of me, so intense!
    I do not mind my top touching me while fucking me. He puts lube on his hand and gives me a hand job while fucking me, out of this world!



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    Feb 03, 2012 1:44 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidre: the runs.
    Don't put your body upside-down when you douche. You don't want the water wandering that far up you because it will just wash stuff down that would never have come down that soon. It also can leave pockets of water inside you that will flush down later and you'll need to empty again.

    You should only be douching the bottom part of your colon (the rectum), which is usually pretty clear anyway.


    Well I've never put my body upside down to douche, wouldn't even know how to do that lol. How does one only douche the rectum?
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    Feb 03, 2012 9:02 AM GMT
    The rectum is just inside your anus (where the cock will be). You don't need much water, as it is collapsed by default. The more water you put in, the higher it will fill and the further it will pull stuff not ready to come down yet.
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    Feb 03, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidThe rectum is just inside your anus (where the cock will be). You don't need much water, as it is collapsed by default. The more water you put in, the higher it will fill and the further it will pull stuff not ready to come down yet.


    So again how much water, 1 cup, 2 cups? a quart? more? Just once, twice, three times? Also how long does it usually take to clean? Last time I felt like I was sitting on the toilet for hours.
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    Feb 04, 2012 11:58 AM GMT
    OMG not hours!

    One cup would be more than enough. shake your hips, squirt, repeat once or twice until only water comes out.

    No sex right away, let the excess water absorb so it doesn't thin out the lube.
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    Feb 04, 2012 5:05 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidOMG not hours!

    One cup would be more than enough. shake your hips, squirt, repeat once or twice until only water comes out.

    No sex right away, let the excess water absorb so it doesn't thin out the lube.


    Thanks, how long should I wait before having sex?