It's pretty important to me, but being with my partner for 4 years, I don't really know what romantic means anymore.
He's got different views on things, and I don't usually know what he likes.
Same for him.
An example is that for me, it's really romantic if he picks up a rose and is maybe waiting for me to get home with it in his mouth, and nothing else on. Ok, maybe that's sexy too. What's romantic again? Kidding aside, this isn't something he's likely to do, because he thinks flowers are a waste.
We've gone to Paris and had big fancy romantic dinners. But I don't find stuff like that to actually feel super romantic.
I guess for me, romance ends up being when we have a minute or two alone, maybe even at night when we're on the bed together cuddling, and I feel like I can be vulnerable and not be judged, followed with a kiss. Doesn't happen too often, but it's awesome when it does.