how do i make an overture or subtle pass?

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    Jun 28, 2008 12:23 AM GMT
    ok...here's the scenario. There is a handsome guy working at one of those US Post Office outlets inside of a gift shop that is nearby so I have gone in there to send packages, etc...every other week, roughly. I have basically had "chit chat type " conversations...nothing substantial with this guy, but I would certainly like to. He is always friendly and pleasant.

    Today I decided I would say something more so as I was about to leave I said, "You look pretty buff...Do you do personal training in your spare time?" He just smiled and said "nah...I just work out". And I said, "oh..well you certainly look like it". Lame, right? So should I say something more next time I go in there? It is a little awkward because I only see him in this work environment and there is usually a co-worker that is working in the next station next to him so he's not alone. If he was, I'd probably feel more able to have a conversation if there weren't customers around.

    So any suggestions as to what to say next? I have no idea if he is straight or gay. Heck, even if he is straight, I'd still like to get to know him better because he seems like a really cool and nice guy.
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    Jun 28, 2008 1:36 AM GMT
    Ask him out for drinks. "You want to get a beer sometime bud?" Invite him to a sports bar to watch is favorite team. Get him out of that work environment.
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    Jun 28, 2008 4:31 AM GMT
    Why don't you ask him if he can stomach being around someone who uses terms like "Balack Yomama"?
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    Jun 28, 2008 4:37 AM GMT
    Whatever you do, make sure you punctuate it by suggestively sucking on a lollipop, with your hips cocked just so.

    ...

    OK, maybe not.

    K

    PS I usually get Jeff's jokes, but I admit that last one zoomed over my empty head.
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    Jun 28, 2008 5:17 AM GMT
    He may just be a friendly guy.
    Resist the urge to misread his every gesture.
    It may just be wishful thinking on your part.
    However...

    Next time you see him, ask him what are some cool places around to hang out at?
    The type of places he mentions may tip you off.
    Also, ask him if he wants to hang out sometime to let you know and then slip him a card w/ your phone# on it.
    If you hear from him, you'll know what to do next.
    If you hear nothing, take the hint.
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    Jun 28, 2008 9:51 AM GMT
    iguanaSF said
    PS I usually get Jeff's jokes, but I admit that last one zoomed over my empty head.


    It zoomed over mine too... icon_confused.gif OMG is my IQ draining away with all the coffee I've been drinking? icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 28, 2008 2:14 PM GMT
    Sedative said[quote][cite]iguanaSF said[/cite]
    PS I usually get Jeff's jokes, but I admit that last one zoomed over my empty head.


    It zoomed over mine too... icon_confused.gif OMG is my IQ draining away with all the coffee I've been drinking? icon_eek.gif[/quote]

    I made a nickname for my favorite politician running for President and he took offense to it. Can you guess who it is? Some people can't take politically incorrections and go off the deep end. Geesh...as Balack says to Hildog supporters 'get over it already".
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    Jun 29, 2008 10:00 PM GMT
    You: "Hey Mr. UPS guy. I've got this package for you. Special delivery."

    Him: "Oh my! It's very big. I've got the perfect place for you to stick it."

    *groovy porn music*





    ... works every time.
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    Jun 29, 2008 10:05 PM GMT
    Easy... ask him where he works out and if you could be a guest. Harmless, but direct
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    Jun 30, 2008 1:09 AM GMT
    KentuckyTuss saidYou: "Hey Mr. UPS guy. I've got this package for you. Special delivery."

    Him: "Oh my! It's very big. I've got the perfect place for you to stick it."

    *groovy porn music*


    LOL too good icon_smile.gif