I feel like an 80 years old...


  • Feb 05, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    I am only 34, in a loving monogamous relationship for 10 years, and hoping to become a father. I started out as a bottom and switched to top. Nothing seems to excite me much. People talk about open relationship but I find that messy and troublesome.

    I still have the sex drive and jerk off multiple times per day. Maybe I am just tired of anal sex? I never heard of someone too lazy to have sex... Anyone has similar experience? Just feel like an 80 years old.
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    Feb 05, 2012 1:05 AM GMT
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    Feb 05, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Tada!!

    You said you felt like an 80 year old and one magically appears!

    *wanders off*
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    Feb 05, 2012 2:54 AM GMT
    I don't understand. Boyfriend wants to and you don't? You want to, just not with him? If you can crank one out a few times a day it doesn't sound like you don't have the energy for sex, it sounds like you're struggling with attraction to your partner. Has something changed about him, or you?
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    Feb 06, 2012 2:38 PM GMT
    Don't all "married couples" (gay and straight) go through this? Maybe you need to rekindle the romance a little, do something different. Love doesn't just happen. After the initial lust phase, you have to work on it.

    I wouldn't include a third-party to spice up your sex life. It just complicates things.


  • Feb 07, 2012 3:45 AM GMT
    Well he doesn't take much initiatives but I think we both have a good time when we have sex.

    I guess I am tired of initiating? But then I don't really want to have sex with anyone else. Is that what monogamous relationship mean? So if we really live till 80, averaging sex lets say 30 times per year, and assuming sex ends when you hit 75... so still 1200 times... guess it is not that bad...