luislalo3 saidi have a straight friend that i used to like. He knows im gay and we playfully flirt around. We have gotten close in our relationship but am starting to confuse our friendship for more. i wanna keep our friendship but dont know what to do.
The simple answer to your question is don't confuse the two
. You say he's straight right? that's an important fact in all of this. He knows that you're gay and he flirts but that doesn't mean he wants to hook up with you, or any other guy. Straight guys often flirt. That's their nature because practicing their flirting, with males or females, will improve their chances of ultimately catching the female
they want. Read Darwin man. I'm sorry to burst that potential nuclear fantasy bubble you've created in your head about you and him. Just remember you said that he's straight!! Now, yes you may be the one guy that could turn him towards boys, but most straight guys do not turn that quickly. He has a whole lot of other stuff playing in the background of his mind: family, potential future kids, future jobs, etc. So, keep the friendship first and formemost. Let him move you guys to a different place in your relationship, don't you try to do it. Just my advice. (from a formerly straight guy).