Does good looking factor fade?


  • Feb 05, 2012 2:11 AM GMT
    I am not a hot guy so I don't have the honor of dating a very hot one.

    For the lucky ones out there who have dated a very good looking guy, do you find them over time not that exciting anymore? I am not talking about aging, weight gain, cheating, bad sex techinque, or nasty personality, etc. Just simply the good looking factor fades to boredom...

    I always thought if someone is very good looking with a nice body, you will always want to have sex with them?
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    Looks only matter for about five minutes. I've been with very hot guys and it gets old very quickly if there's not anything good inside to last. Most of my long-lasting relationships are with guys that aren't "hot" but have good souls. It's the only thing that lasts. If a guy doesn't have a good soul, and that's what you're ultimately after, it's just not going to last. It's much like a porno you use to jack off to. It's good for the moment but that's about it.
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    No, it lasts absolutely forever. Furthermore, the truly good looking never age. If you see someone you thought was good looking aging it means they were a hag to begin with.
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidNo, it lasts absolutely forever. Furthermore, the truly good looking never age. If you see someone you thought was good looking aging it means they were a hag to begin with.


    Nah, you're wrong.. it means they had sex with an ugly.
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:14 AM GMT
    miamimasseur saidLooks only matter for about five minutes. I've been with very hot guys and it gets old very quickly if there's not anything good inside to last. Most of my long-lasting relationships are with guys that aren't "hot" but have good souls. It's the only thing that lasts. If a guy doesn't have a good soul, and that's what you're ultimately after, it's just not going to last. It's much like a porno you use to jack off to. It's good for the moment but that's about it.


    Well put my friend! I used to weigh almost 265 lbs... so I know personally it is what is in the inside that matters! icon_smile.gif Sure there are lots of beautiful eye candy out there, but at the end of the day there has to be a deeper emotional connection.

    I think that's why I can't hook up because I want to know that what we did meant something (yes I know I sound like a woman), and that it was not just an animal act. I need to know that we can carry on a conversation afterwards...
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:18 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidNo, it lasts absolutely forever. Furthermore, the truly good looking never age. If you see someone you thought was good looking aging it means they were a hag to begin with.


    My friend Dorian Gray agrees! icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    meh i find everyone boring and unoriginal, i really dont care about looks anymore, they are not that important anymore and pretty much everyone is uninteresting, well of course i am gorgeous and i will be gorgeous when i turn 100 with not a single wrinkle on meicon_razz.gif
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    There is nothing in the world more important than looks. Looks never fade. You might get tired of one good looking guy, but when that happens you just go for the next one. That's just how life works. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:50 AM GMT
    a lot of what makes someone good looking is their personality, so no.
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:54 AM GMT
    The good looking factor is only one of many variables. It takes the back burner, but never can be removed from the game, since it is always needed.

    Physical attraction is the easiest way to screen potential partners for something lasting longer than an initial attraction. It's only after getting to know a person that things like personality, quirks, and ambitions start to come out. I never necessarily find it becomes boring, but it no longer becomes the focus for me.
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    Uhm no. Gonna be beautiful forever, duh.

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    Feb 05, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    Looks can sometimes function as the initial attraction factor, but if the guy is about as interesting as watching paint peel or the grass grow, there's not much to go off of.

    That being said, the inner beauty of a person is the aspect that should be focused on.
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    mrpotatohunter saidI am not a hot guy so I don't have the honor of dating a very hot one.

    For the lucky ones out there who have dated a very good looking guy, do you find them over time not that exciting anymore? I am not talking about aging, weight gain, cheating, bad sex techinque, or nasty personality, etc. Just simply the good looking factor fades to boredom...

    I always thought if someone is very good looking with a nice body, you will always want to have sex with them?


    We're going to stay beautiful forever, with my beautiful friends. Only ugly people see ugly things.
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:02 AM GMT
    tdags10 saidLooks can sometimes function as the initial attraction factor, but if the guy is about as interesting as watching paint peel or the grass grow, there's not much to go off of.

    That being said, the inner beauty of a person is the aspect that should be focused on.


    Wrong. Looks are everything.

    If you are gorgeous, and the person you are dating is gorgeous, obvi it is going to work out.
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    But seriously, as long as you honestly care for someone beauty is only a perk.
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:05 AM GMT
    7Famark said
    tdags10 saidLooks can sometimes function as the initial attraction factor, but if the guy is about as interesting as watching paint peel or the grass grow, there's not much to go off of.

    That being said, the inner beauty of a person is the aspect that should be focused on.


    Wrong. Looks are everything.

    If you are gorgeous, and the person you are dating is gorgeous, obvi it is going to work out.


    the only true gorgeous person on this planet is me and my looks will never fadeicon_razz.gif
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    7Famark said
    tdags10 saidLooks can sometimes function as the initial attraction factor, but if the guy is about as interesting as watching paint peel or the grass grow, there's not much to go off of.

    That being said, the inner beauty of a person is the aspect that should be focused on.


    Wrong. Looks are everything.

    If you are gorgeous, and the person you are dating is gorgeous, obvi it is going to work out.


    I seriously hope you're just playing devil's advocate. Anyone who truly thinks this is deluding themselves.

    Everyone gets old and fat and ugly, unless you die young( -60), or can afford to turn yourself into a plastic robot.

    Wouldn't mind being a cyborg personally, but no botox.
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:13 AM GMT
    zenmonkie said
    7Famark said
    tdags10 saidLooks can sometimes function as the initial attraction factor, but if the guy is about as interesting as watching paint peel or the grass grow, there's not much to go off of.

    That being said, the inner beauty of a person is the aspect that should be focused on.


    Wrong. Looks are everything.

    If you are gorgeous, and the person you are dating is gorgeous, obvi it is going to work out.


    I seriously hope you're just playing devil's advocate. Anyone who truly thinks this is deluding themselves.

    Everyone gets old and fat and ugly, unless you die young( -60), or can afford to turn yourself into a plastic robot.

    Wouldn't mind being a cyborg personally, but no botox.



    omg thats what i want to be a cyborg, that like my dream right there (gasphh)
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    bachian said
    Ariodante saidNo, it lasts absolutely forever. Furthermore, the truly good looking never age. If you see someone you thought was good looking aging it means they were a hag to begin with.


    My friend Dorian Gray agrees! icon_lol.gif



    Yeah the good looking people will always have sex but,
    However in the end Dorian Gray died alone...so what does that mean??? icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:27 AM GMT
    zenmonkie said
    7Famark said
    tdags10 saidLooks can sometimes function as the initial attraction factor, but if the guy is about as interesting as watching paint peel or the grass grow, there's not much to go off of.

    That being said, the inner beauty of a person is the aspect that should be focused on.


    Wrong. Looks are everything.

    If you are gorgeous, and the person you are dating is gorgeous, obvi it is going to work out.


    I seriously hope you're just playing devil's advocate. Anyone who truly thinks this is deluding themselves.

    Everyone gets old and fat and ugly, unless you die young( -60), or can afford to turn yourself into a plastic robot.

    Wouldn't mind being a cyborg personally, but no botox.


    If you can't read that that was sarcasm....
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:33 AM GMT
    7Famark said
    zenmonkie said
    7Famark said
    tdags10 saidLooks can sometimes function as the initial attraction factor, but if the guy is about as interesting as watching paint peel or the grass grow, there's not much to go off of.

    That being said, the inner beauty of a person is the aspect that should be focused on.


    Wrong. Looks are everything.

    If you are gorgeous, and the person you are dating is gorgeous, obvi it is going to work out.


    I seriously hope you're just playing devil's advocate. Anyone who truly thinks this is deluding themselves.

    Everyone gets old and fat and ugly, unless you die young( -60), or can afford to turn yourself into a plastic robot.

    Wouldn't mind being a cyborg personally, but no botox.


    If you can't read that that was sarcasm....


    no that was not no sarcasm, you meant every word, i know sarcasm when i see it.
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:36 AM GMT
    RasB said
    bachian said
    Ariodante saidNo, it lasts absolutely forever. Furthermore, the truly good looking never age. If you see someone you thought was good looking aging it means they were a hag to begin with.


    My friend Dorian Gray agrees! icon_lol.gif



    Yeah the good looking people will always have sex but,
    However in the end Dorian Gray died alone...so what does that mean??? icon_neutral.gif


    Awesome narcissistic jack off sessions in front of the mirror.
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:46 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    RasB said
    bachian said
    Ariodante saidNo, it lasts absolutely forever. Furthermore, the truly good looking never age. If you see someone you thought was good looking aging it means they were a hag to begin with.


    My friend Dorian Gray agrees! icon_lol.gif



    Yeah the good looking people will always have sex but,
    However in the end Dorian Gray died alone...so what does that mean??? icon_neutral.gif


    Awesome narcissistic jack off sessions in front of the mirror.


    Those are some of my favorite porns...
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    Feb 05, 2012 5:47 AM GMT

    "Does good looking factor fade?"

    No, not for us. It changed, moving from the physical and visual into three dimensions; how we each are as well as how we look etc. This happened pretty fast, and so when I look at Bill the lines he sports at 54 are faint compared to the man that I met that I always see in him. Interestingly and wonderfully, he's said as much about me.

    btw, we each think we are as plain as beans.

    -Doug
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    Feb 05, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    If you love someone, looks do not fade.