how to make conversation (either thru text or face to face) with a guy I like?

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    Feb 05, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    So there's this new bi guy at my college who lives in my dorm and I think is super hot and is discrete like me with is even better! Anyway i messaged him on adam 4 adam (a gay chat site for those who don't know) and we've been talking and then the other night when I said we should chill he facebook chatted me his number so we can text. I think that's a good sign right there because if he wasn't into me he probably wouldn't have continued talking or given me his number right? what do you think?

    Anyways I don't want to text him all the time because I don't want to seem like a creepy stalker who's attached and push him away, but I do text him sometimes to see whats up or to invite him to party's at the frat or football houses if hes around. Is that ok? what kind of conversations can I spark up with him?
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    Feb 05, 2012 2:29 AM GMT
    Ask him what he's up to, and maybe strike up conversation about what's going on in the evening this week/weekend and figure out a way to invite him somewhere.

    Also, don't be super hasty with responses. Take a couple of minutes at least to reply to his texts, so it doesn't seem like you're waiting by the phone for him to reply.
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    Feb 05, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    Here are some of the openers that's always worked for me in the past:

    Sup?

    Yo!

    You looking?

    How hung are you?

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    Feb 05, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    One1313 saidHere are some of the openers that's always worked for me in the past:

    Sup?

    Yo!

    You looking?

    How hung are you?

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    Unlock plz?
  • araphael

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    Feb 05, 2012 7:37 AM GMT
    My one question here is: how do you know that he's bi and you say he's new to your dorm? Are you sure about that? I'm not being negative just hoping that you aren't setting yourself up for a crash here. Protect yourself brother. I know that you think he's cute and you are like crazy turned on and attracted by him, but be aware of what's reality and what's created in your own head. If you're sure he's into guys too, then have a ball. I just don't want you to get hurt is all.
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    Feb 05, 2012 7:44 AM GMT
    araphael saidIf you're sure he's into guys too, then have a ball.
    I just don't want you to get hurt is all.
    If he's bi,
    don't be shy,
    just whip out your dick,
    and ask for a lick!

    or maybe a suck,
    and later a fuck,
    fuck him here and there,
    fuck him everywhere.
  • Webster666

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    Feb 05, 2012 8:20 AM GMT
    I think you've done everything perfectly.
    But, I would aim for in person meetings, rather than a whole lot of texting.
    What to talk about could be almost anything.
    --Whatever's going on there at your college
    --Sports
    --Films
    --Politics
    --Books
    --Music
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    Feb 05, 2012 1:22 PM GMT
    One1313 saidHere are some of the openers that's always worked for me in the past:

    Sup?

    Yo!

    You looking?

    How hung are you?

    icon_lol.gif


    Damn! you beat me to it!
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    Feb 05, 2012 1:36 PM GMT
    Are you still discreet?

    Holding a conversation with someone you like should be as easy for you to do as when you talk with your buddies.
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    Feb 05, 2012 3:06 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    One1313 saidHere are some of the openers that's always worked for me in the past:

    Sup?

    Yo!

    You looking?

    How hung are you?

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    Damn! you beat me to it!


    Lol Nah, you still got the "down for a fisting session?", and "you wanna get raped?" openers.

    CUMBITCHCUNTSLUTWHORE!
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    Feb 06, 2012 1:14 PM GMT
    One1313 said
    SkinnyBitch said
    One1313 saidHere are some of the openers that's always worked for me in the past:

    Sup?

    Yo!

    You looking?

    How hung are you?

    icon_lol.gif


    Damn! you beat me to it!


    Lol Nah, you still got the "down for a fisting session?", and "you wanna get raped?" openers.

    CUMBITCHCUNTSLUTWHORE!


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    Feb 06, 2012 9:09 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    One1313 said
    SkinnyBitch said
    One1313 saidHere are some of the openers that's always worked for me in the past:

    Sup?

    Yo!

    You looking?

    How hung are you?

    icon_lol.gif


    Damn! you beat me to it!


    Lol Nah, you still got the "down for a fisting session?", and "you wanna get raped?" openers.

    CUMBITCHCUNTSLUTWHORE!


    icon_twisted.gif


    Up posting at 5 am again I see.

    I need to change my pic to imitate me talking to the guy below so we can look like we're yelling at one another.
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    Feb 06, 2012 9:12 PM GMT
    And yes...

    CUMBITCHCUNTSLUTWHORE!!!
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    Feb 06, 2012 9:19 PM GMT
    araphael saidMy one question here is: how do you know that he's bi and you say he's new to your dorm? Are you sure about that? I'm not being negative just hoping that you aren't setting yourself up for a crash here. Protect yourself brother. I know that you think he's cute and you are like crazy turned on and attracted by him, but be aware of what's reality and what's created in your own head. If you're sure he's into guys too, then have a ball. I just don't want you to get hurt is all.


    Dude, he messaged him on a4a, I think it's pretty obvious he's not straight.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Feb 06, 2012 9:27 PM GMT
    FunCollegeDude saidSo there's this new bi guy at my college who lives in my dorm and I think is super hot and is discrete like me with is even better! Anyway i messaged him on adam 4 adam (a gay chat site for those who don't know) and we've been talking and then the other night when I said we should chill he facebook chatted me his number so we can text. I think that's a good sign right there because if he wasn't into me he probably wouldn't have continued talking or given me his number right? what do you think?

    Anyways I don't want to text him all the time because I don't want to seem like a creepy stalker who's attached and push him away, but I do text him sometimes to see whats up or to invite him to party's at the frat or football houses if hes around. Is that ok? what kind of conversations can I spark up with him?
    dude, just ask him to meet up already. do it by text because it will probably better.