Feb 05, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
I have been hooking up with some guy, and before we started having sex, I already had feelings for him (we met about a year ago). He knows I like him and when I asked him out for dinner for the purpose of dating, he agreed. But, he mentioned he wasn't interested in a relationship in me but he would like for us to ne friends with benefits. I agreed wanting anything I can get from him. The sex has been great but I just feel like shit sometimes longing for something more. I want him to hug me tightly whispering that he loves me outside of sex.I want him to grab my hand and kiss it during dinner. But no, I'm just some guy he fucks sometimes. The worst feeling was this morning after a night of having sex twice, I asked him why he wasn't seeing anyone. He did sayhe wanted a relationship, then I made the assumption that it was just me he dis not want a relationship with. I feel awful. Should I stop being needy and continue having sex with him? Or should I cut ties with him, which would be difficult since we go to the same volleyball and badminton clubs?