Kissing

  • helios01

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    Feb 06, 2012 11:49 AM GMT
    I have a question. When you guys go out on a first date.... do you expect a kiss? I have gone on a three dates and all 3 guys just made lame attempts at kissing (and well they ket grabbing me in the "you're a dirty slut" kind of way. I just think kissing is the most romantic thing you can do with another person, so it should be special and fantastic. Am I unrealistic? is it different for gay dates?

    side note... i never heard from those guys lol
  • Ridiculance

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    Feb 06, 2012 5:52 PM GMT
    It's not like you're kissing his cock... Yet. Lol.
    But yeah if I didn't get a kiss and a hug from a guy I went out with, I'd feel as if he wasn't interested. Guys can't read your mind.
    On the next date, you may want to casually mention what you feel you are looking for or what is romantic to you and see how the other guy takes it. It may save you some time in knowing to stick around or peace out. (Him too)
  • LJay

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    Feb 06, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    Per The Rulebook:

    Kissing must not happen any earlier than 47 minutes into the first date and then only if 3.7 minutes of other bodily contact has ocurred. The initiator of the date must be the initiating kisser and the recipient of the kiss may only respond with open lips if his tonsils have been removed.

    The Point: C'mon! If you can't scope out a situation without a rulebook, you should be playing checkers.
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    Feb 06, 2012 6:01 PM GMT
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  • tuffguyndc

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    Feb 06, 2012 6:02 PM GMT
    helios01 saidI have a question. When you guys go out on a first date.... do you expect a kiss? I have gone on a three dates and all 3 guys just made lame attempts at kissing (and well they ket grabbing me in the "you're a dirty slut" kind of way. I just think kissing is the most romantic thing you can do with another person, so it should be special and fantastic. Am I unrealistic? is it different for gay dates?

    side note... i never heard from those guys lol
    dude, you are not cinderella and this is not a fairytale. If you want to kiss someone than you should do it. How old are you?
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    Feb 06, 2012 6:29 PM GMT
    I decide to go on a first date with a guy after our first kiss.
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    Feb 07, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    It's all variable everyone grows comfortable at different times.
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    Feb 07, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
    LJay saidPer The Rulebook:

    Kissing must not happen any earlier than 47 minutes into the first date and then only if 3.7 minutes of other bodily contact has ocurred. The initiator of the date must be the initiating kisser and the recipient of the kiss may only respond with open lips if his tonsils have been removed.

    The Point: C'mon! If you can't scope out a situation without a rulebook, you should be playing checkers.


    I really like this post. lol
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    Feb 07, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    LJay saidPer The Rulebook:

    Kissing must not happen any earlier than 47 minutes into the first date and then only if 3.7 minutes of other bodily contact has ocurred. The initiator of the date must be the initiating kisser and the recipient of the kiss may only respond with open lips if his tonsils have been removed.

    The Point: C'mon! If you can't scope out a situation without a rulebook, you should be playing checkers.


    These rules are too hard. Is it too late to drop out of this class?
  • helios01

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    Mar 01, 2012 11:11 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc said
    helios01 saidI have a question. When you guys go out on a first date.... do you expect a kiss? I have gone on a three dates and all 3 guys just made lame attempts at kissing (and well they ket grabbing me in the "you're a dirty slut" kind of way. I just think kissing is the most romantic thing you can do with another person, so it should be special and fantastic. Am I unrealistic? is it different for gay dates?

    side note... i never heard from those guys lol
    dude, you are not cinderella and this is not a fairytale. If you want to kiss someone than you should do it. How old are you?



    actually it is the lack of wanting that worries me. My body gives me weird signals and i cant tell what i want. It's weird. was just curious what you guys felt about kissing from personal experiences. Do you guys wear lip balm to keep your lips kiss ready? Mints? he he he
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    Mar 01, 2012 11:26 AM GMT
    helios01 said they ket grabbing me in the "you're a dirty slut" kind of way.

    side note... i never heard from those guys lol


    Yes.