smartmoney saidNot sure what your point is. Are you talking BF or FB? My lover has all access to everything, email, phone, pics, Grindr, everything, no secrets, no mystery. I have all his passwords too. I trust him, he trusts me. I could care less if he ever picks up my phone and checks anything on it.
This is how Bill and I are as well. We've been this way since we took up with each other.
Ditto here. As I've written before, my husband has gotten my old phones (not terribly old, he's using an iPhone 4 right now) as I've upgraded, and I erased nothing when I made the transfers.
I left it up to him what he wanted to keep of mine or delete. Phone numbers, pics, emails, texts, he got everything. And I put his own info into the phone, too.
We are partners (I've begun saying "husband" more often lately), meaning there are no secrets between us. I can't imagine how there could be. The situation with boyfriends may be different.
And maybe that's part of the definition of what makes a husband/partner versus a boyfriend -- no secrets. Perhaps our smartphones are trying to tell us something.